Living below your means

Living below your means [LBYM] requires you to be mindful of how you spend your money. If you do it correctly, you won't actually be depriving yourself of the things you really need to be happy.

Establishing a household budget is an important step in living below your means as it provides visibility on income and expenses.

But living below your means means more than just balancing your budget. It means being aware of the difference between what you need and what you want.

A lot of good advice can be found on the internet on LBYM. For instance the article "How to Live Within Your Means" discusses different aspects and actions related to building a balanced budget, the perspective on spending and reducing expenses.

Maintaining a Balanced Budget
Individuals establish a household budget in an effort to understand their cash flow - how much they make and how much they spend. A budget is a tool that can help individuals plan for desired purchases and establish savings for reaching financial goals. Budgets are often essential for people who desire to keep spending under control.

The Bogleheads approach to developing a workable financial plan is to have a sensible household budget - one that provides for needed expenditures, discretionary pleasures, savings for big ticket items, and savings for long term retirement planning.

A list of example action points from the wikihow site and others:
 * 1) Create a list of essential spending
 * 2) Record or estimate your income
 * 3) Record all of your expenditures; fixed and flexible
 * 4) Compare your income to your expenditures
 * 5) Evaluate your expenditures
 * 6) Optimize: Boost your income, cut expenditures
 * 7) Set saving goals and adhere to them
 * 8) Avoid credit and loans

Adjusting Your Perspective on Spending
A list of example action points from the wikihow site and others:
 * 1) Distinguish between what you want and what you need
 * 2) Don't try to keep up with the Joneses
 * 3) Change your definition of what it means to be "rich."
 * 4) Know that spending less money will not decrease your quality of life
 * 5) Be grateful for what you do have

Reducing expenses
Perhaps the most important idea underlying the Bogleheads® investment philosophy is recognizing you need to save a significant portion of income every month to have enough money for a comfortable retirement. There is no substitute for spending less than you earn. Reduce expenses and unneeded debt so you can consistently set aside a portion of earnings for decades. If you don't save enough, no amount of financial trickery will provide the returns needed for a comfortable retirement. A list of example action points from the wikihow site and others:
 * 1) Eat at home whenever you can
 * 2) Wait for sales
 * 3) Entertain at home instead of going out
 * 4) Cancel the subscriptions you don't need
 * 5) Borrow items whenever you can
 * 6) Have a garden
 * 7) Don't ever shop without a list
 * 8) Wait 48 hours before making a big purchase
 * 9) Pay "cash" for your purchases, avoid credit