I have done a budget for the past few years. I do it out of neccessity. If Im not responsible with my budget consequences would be less savings for retirement, missed bills, or increased credit card ultilization.
As prices rise I had to either cut back or increase line item budget.
But without a budget I dont know where Id be.
I think the best way in my experience of having this work is to stress the importance of living within and below your means. I see some budgets where a family will budget for 10,15, 20k a month expenses. For most of us the reality is we need to stretch what we do have to meet our needs.
Im going to do actual spending for 2025 and see if its more practical. Ie save up gas receipts for month, grocery bill, all spending vs having monthly predetermined budgets. Total up at end of the year/12 to have a look at the year in review.
Currently my savings are
$550 month towards house downpayment (get to 20% down payment
$450 month retirement (I feel like I can do this til my 80 and not have enough.
$125 month for next truck (need to get to 8-10k)
But children coming in next few years and that will change things. Continue to work hard and build traits abilities in my career. But without a budget I would be on an secluded island with no boat or paddle.