J295 wrote: ↑Fri Dec 29, 2017 8:31 am
Just wanted to wish you happy new year, and take a chance to good naturedly rib you just a tiny bit… You retired in a nice financial position, and the markets have been good for all of us since then, so you can loosen your purse strings and buy a new computer now!
Thanks J295, and Happy New Year to you.
You are right, I should loosen my purse strings and buy a new computer!
However, I think I am permanently and psychologically scarred by my upbringing - my father was born in 1920, a first generation American. His immigrant father died in 1929, leaving his mother, him and his two siblings impoverished. Bad timing. (Another sister died at age 4 - the family came home from the beach, she fell ill and died that night - burial location and name unknown to this day).
My father graduated from MIT with a degree in chemical engineering, after serving in the Air Force during WWII.
I worked for my father for many years - summers from age 16 until mid-'20s, and full time for a couple of years when I took some "gap years" (aka college dropout) in the middle of college. Driving back and forth with him from home to work an hour each way gave him a chance to tell me about his childhood and all the challenges he and his family faced when his father died at the start of the great depression. It's hard to imagine how broke his family was in the 1930s.
He was incredibly frugal, and he instilled those values in me. Also, his deep paranoia. I am quite sure he transmitted some of his PTSD to me. Not a lot I can do about that now.
My mother's parents had a similar experience - her father became wealthy in the 1920s, and was wiped out by the depression. He died young, and my maternal grandmother had to live on the generosity of relatives until one of her sons grew up and was able to work and care for her. Quite a story in all its details ....
So, I guess you could say that I'm carrying a lot of baggage.
Thanks again.
Small Law Survivor
69 yrs, semi-retired lawyer, 50/40/10 s/b/c, 70/30 dom/int'l. Plan: 4% WR until age 70, 3% after social security kicks in. Boglehead since day 1 (and M* Diehard before that) under various other names