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I know there are other posts but I was hoping that some of you would chime in and give me your opinion.

I have until December to decide on which 3-row car to get come December of 2023.

I currently drive Subaru Forester (2nd time leasing it).
I live in Michigan and I have had zero issues with it in snow.
I know someone will bring it up but don't want a minivan as I enjoy SUVs more and may take it to some off-roading.

I kept an open mind and test drove:
  • Kia Telluride
  • Honda Pilot
  • Toyota Highlander
  • Subaru Ascent
I don't think I will test drive:
  • VW Atlas
  • Hyandai Pallisade
For now, I have my heart set to lease for 36-months a Subaru Ascent Premium. Then, if I am satisfied, I will buy a higher-end trim Subaru Ascent as I plan to keep it for long-term.

My question is, should I go with Toyota Highlander instead? Gas or Hybrid? I plan on driving this car until the tires fall off.
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Toyota highlander 2023 hyrbrid

Or even better

Toyota highlander grand 2023 hybrid
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lazybones18 wrote: Thu Feb 16, 2023 8:28 pm Toyota highlander 2023 hyrbrid

Or even better

Toyota highlander grand 2023 hybrid
Thanks. I have plenty of time so I plan on test driving the grand version when it's available.
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My wife's ICE Highlander is the best car we've ever owned. But good luck finding one.
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Also check out the Mazda CX-90 when it drops in a few months. All new, premium RWD-based platform, straight-six engine, starting at just under $50k. They're really trying to give BMW and Mercedes a run for their money.
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welloiledinvestor wrote: Thu Feb 16, 2023 8:20 pm I know there are other posts but I was hoping that some of you would chime in and give me your opinion.

I have until December to decide on which 3-row car to get come December of 2023.

I currently drive Subaru Forester (2nd time leasing it).
I live in Michigan and I have had zero issues with it in snow.
I know someone will bring it up but don't want a minivan as I enjoy SUVs more and may take it to some off-roading.

I kept an open mind and test drove:
  • Kia Telluride
  • Honda Pilot
  • Toyota Highlander
  • Subaru Ascent
I don't think I will test drive:
  • VW Atlas
  • Hyandai Pallisade
For now, I have my heart set to lease for 36-months a Subaru Ascent Premium. Then, if I am satisfied, I will buy a higher-end trim Subaru Ascent as I plan to keep it for long-term.

My question is, should I go with Toyota Highlander instead? Gas or Hybrid? I plan on driving this car until the tires fall off.
I test drove (in early 2022) all 4 of the vehicles you test drove.

The Highlander has (2021 model at least) a very cramped third row seat. The Subaru was nice but CR rated it very low for reliability. The Pilot was OK but a little stale in terms of interior design and CR gave it only mediocre reliability.

I ended up buying the Telluride (a 2021) --- best reliability of the bunch (though based on limited model years), nice and roomy, and more updated interior design.

I like it, but sometimes I still long for an updated version of my Honda Odyssey minivan. Minivans are just so damn functional. I would only buy the 3-row SUV if you absolutely don't want a minivan and definitely have a frequent need for three rows. Otherwise it's just a whole lot of vehicle for tripping around town.
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Toyota 4Runner? Limited edition has 3 rows. Get the 4wd version it’s a beast. only downside is the limited edition comes w the larger rims/skinnier tires
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I think about it this way.

As soon as you get into a dealership or most repair shops you´re basically fair game and cannot even expect anything other than being taken advantage of. That´s just how this works from my observation. So with the experience of my current car I decided my next car will be bought based on reliability and reliability only. And from all the research I could do reliability means Toyota/Lexus and across the model offering nobody seems to be able to match them.

Disclaimer: I never owned a Toyota and this is just what I could read up on the internet which is notorious for being unreliable.
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By my numbers, the HIghlander hybrid easily has the lowest total cost of ownership, especially when factoring in historical depreciation. If you have any towing needs, the conventional engine has a higher tow rating, but otherwise, the hybrid looks really compelling. The main issue is availability, but you have time to reserve one and hopefully get it for MSRP if you find the right dealer.

However, the Highlander has the smallest 3rd row of any of those.

The Kia Telluride has been rated as top in its class for multiple years in a row by multiple car sites based on power, handling, and having a lot of features relative to its MSRP. The last point is moot, however, because no one is selling it for MSRP. After contacting numerous dealerships, I think the lowest offer we got for the trim we were interested in was $5,000 over MSRP, and they had no qualms watching us walk away when we said we would not go that high. Another dealer effectively called us liars when we said we could get one for only $5,000 over MSRP.

I tend to favor Hondas, but the current Pilot didn't inspire me. It felt roomy inside, but not always in useful places - adjusting the rearview mirror actually was an awkward reach for me despite being above average height - while seating and cargo space was mid-pack. Hopefully the updated transmission in the current generation does away with the reliability issues some of the earlier years were reported to have had. If I remember right, the handling was a bit soft, which could be good if you like a plush ride, but it wasn't my favorite. I still say give it a test drive and make your own opinion. Maybe the comfy seats will win you over.

We ended up going with the Subaru Ascent. Due an issue with our current car, we couldn't wait long enough for a Highlander hybrid, and my wife was certain we will want a decent 3rd row as our kids grow up. I actually somewhat liked the way it drove, where as every previous Subaru I have driven is best described as boring. Ground clearance is great, the same on our Outback has actually been an asset on some of the worse forest roads we drive up for hiking, and helps on the rare occasions we get deep snow. I still think that Subaru's AWD system works better than most or perhaps all other crossovers, which I view as a nice to have in the snow, but my wife is less comfortable on snow and puts more value in it. Plus, Subaru happened to run a promotion, which is rare in the current market, so we actually got it below MSRP.

I will say, though, it is imperative that I not look back at my spreadsheet now that we bought, because even with the Ascent having the lowest out-the-door-price of the models we looked at, I hate being reminded of how much more we are going to pay in the long run with the Highlander Hybrid.
BernardShakey wrote: Thu Feb 16, 2023 8:44 pm I would only buy the 3-row SUV if you absolutely don't want a minivan and definitely have a frequent need for three rows.
Personally, I strongly agree, but I was overruled by the person who actually does most of the driving with the family, and potentially friends. I felt like I couldn't reason with her on this, but I refrained from sharing my estimate that insisting on the third row, which is going to spend 99% of the time empty, was basically a decision to delay our eventual retirement by several months, mainly to benefit the friends whose kids we might drive around, and to avoid addressing our tendency to overpack for vacations.

Also, last weekend I washed both the Ascent for the first time, and the Outback to get it ready to sell, and wasn't really prepared for how much more surface area there was to wash on the Ascent.
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lazydavid wrote: Thu Feb 16, 2023 8:37 pm Also check out the Mazda CX-90 when it drops in a few months. All new, premium RWD-based platform, straight-six engine, starting at just under $50k. They're really trying to give BMW and Mercedes a run for their money.
I would also look at the probable last year (or two) of the CX-9 Signature while you are at it.

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Your list is good for the suburban lifestyle, but I don't think I would take any of those models off-roading. For that you need to look at a 4-Runner or Jeep.

Personally, I'm planning to buy the Grand Highlander (or its Lexus equivalent).
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Been very happy with our Hyundai Palisade. I’m sure it’s twin, the Kia Telluride, is great too. If you can deal with the outdated stigma of driving a Hyundai or Kia, they’re easily the best if the bunch. Paying for a Toyota that has a worse warranty, fewer features, and costs more just doesn’t make sense.
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CC1E wrote: Fri Feb 17, 2023 5:56 am Been very happy with our Hyundai Palisade. I’m sure it’s twin, the Kia Telluride, is great too. If you can deal with the outdated stigma of driving a Hyundai or Kia, they’re easily the best if the bunch. Paying for a Toyota that has a worse warranty, fewer features, and costs more just doesn’t make sense.
Hyundai and Kia have been have been consistently rated among the top handful of manufacturers for overall reliability for a while now by most rankings. My family has had better reliability history with Hyundai than any other; terrible past experiences with Subaru in this regard and even Toyota was not great (my corolla was a nightmare). You have wonder when this stigma will die.

On paper, the Hyundai/Kia seem like the best option, but try to test drive them all...
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CC1E wrote: Fri Feb 17, 2023 5:56 am Been very happy with our Hyundai Palisade. I’m sure it’s twin, the Kia Telluride, is great too. If you can deal with the outdated stigma of driving a Hyundai or Kia, they’re easily the best if the bunch. Paying for a Toyota that has a worse warranty, fewer features, and costs more just doesn’t make sense.
Hyundai and Kia have been have been consistently rated among the top handful of manufacturers for overall reliability for a while now by most rankings. My family has had better reliability history with Hyundai than any other; terrible past experiences with Subaru in this regard and even Toyota was not great (my corolla was by far the least reliable vehicle I've ever owned). You have wonder when this stigma will die.

On paper, the Hyundai/Kia seem like the best option, but try to test drive them all...
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welloiledinvestor wrote: Thu Feb 16, 2023 8:20 pm
I have until December to decide on which 3-row car to get come December of 2023.

My question is, should I go with Toyota Highlander instead? Gas or Hybrid? I plan on driving this car until the tires fall off.
I'm on my 6th Toyota since 2000. I doubt that I'll ever own any other brand. Very few issues.
I'd get a 4Runner but the 3d row is tight. I think they have one? Gas mileage is nothing to brag about.
Of the vehicles that you listed, I'd go with the Highlander with 4WD. I know nothing about hybrids, so I'd get the gas model. Can you really drive a Toyota until the wheels fall off? I drove a 2000 Tacoma 18 years and it was still running and looking fine when I sold it.
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You said "offroading" so I zero'd right in on that. Of your list, the Subaru is the only one with a "real" AWD system that's not going to leave you stuck when the going gets tough.

My absolute first thought for "real" offroading is, of course Jeep. The Grand Cherokee will drive around and probably over every vehicle on your list as the kids throw lolly pops at you from the back of the vehicle. I looked at the Jeep website and they have a $2000 rebate going on right now. On top of this, Jeep was the first to figure out how to get chips and other parts way ahead of every other manufacturer. My local, small Jeep dealer has 51 gas Grand Cherokees and 10 4xe which is plug in hybrid. Just down the street, the Toyota dealer has a total of 9 Highlanders. So your choice and bargaining power is going to be much higher with the Jeep. If you don't want to deal with out of warranty issues, lease again. I personally own a Wrangler Unlimited, undisputedly the worst reliability rated vehicle on the planet and my issues in 9 years of ownership have been zero. This is with some very hard core offroading in the non-snow season and snow plowing in the snow season.
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Regarding “off roading” - if you just mean you may end up driving on dirt roads (that are maintained) any of those will be fine. If you mean actual “off-roading” - Jeep trails, rocks, washouts, etc. - none of those are appropriate.
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We're in the market for something similar. Unless we buy used, I think I'm going to look at the new Pilot. I like the idea of a V6 over a turbo, and I don't want a CVT transmission (have one in an altima and don't like it). Our family vehicle is currently a 12 Odyssey with 200k on it, and it's been good to us.

My wife likes the 4Runners but they don't have the interior room we need, in my view at least.
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I have a landcruiser so my vote is for Toyota - love it. I was going to get a Forester as those are super cool and reliable - I've decided to stick with my old LandCruiser.

Toyota all the way - or Subaru since you have great experience with it and all I've read has been very positive.

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Thank you all for giving me more perspective.

I read all of your replies.

I agree that if I wanted a true offroader then 4runner or Jeep would be more appropriate.

I know myself and let me clarify about offroading. I won't ever go offroading. Just want something reliable to drive through snow and haul them across the state or other states. Maybe state parks but nothing too extreme.

I have decided to rent a Toyota Highlander for a week with a higher trim. That is, if I can get my hands on it.

When I first test drove it, dealer gave me a basic model highlander which in my opinion was a garbage. I will go with higher trims and based on my research, nobody comes close to Toyota.

One last point I want to make is that Subarus ascent's ground clearing is a double edge sword. It's great and at same time my folks (60s, 70s) who are not tall needed help getting inside and getting off.
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welloiledinvestor wrote: Fri Feb 17, 2023 11:18 am One last point I want to make is that Subarus ascent's ground clearing is a double edge sword. It's great and at same time my folks (60s, 70s) who are not tall needed help getting inside and getting off.
I didn't notice a difference between the sill height or seat height entering an Ascent vs a Highlander or the others I drove, but admittedly, I wasn't paying attention to that.

My wife actually complained about the Ascent not being as tall as other vehicles we drove - although the under body clearance is higher, I think the seats and roofline are slightly lower than some of its peers.

But ease of entry is a question best assessed on the lot.
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stoptothink wrote: Fri Feb 17, 2023 6:40 am
CC1E wrote: Fri Feb 17, 2023 5:56 am Been very happy with our Hyundai Palisade. I’m sure it’s twin, the Kia Telluride, is great too. If you can deal with the outdated stigma of driving a Hyundai or Kia, they’re easily the best if the bunch. Paying for a Toyota that has a worse warranty, fewer features, and costs more just doesn’t make sense.
Hyundai and Kia have been have been consistently rated among the top handful of manufacturers for overall reliability for a while now by most rankings. My family has had better reliability history with Hyundai than any other; terrible past experiences with Subaru in this regard and even Toyota was not great (my corolla was by far the least reliable vehicle I've ever owned). You have wonder when this stigma will die.

On paper, the Hyundai/Kia seem like the best option, but try to test drive them all...
I think Kia has done an excellent job of updating styles and rebranding - I think they have killed the stigma and will frankly be the hottest non-luxury car brand of the next few years (the Telluride is by far the hottest vehicle in it's market). Hyundai is basically the same vehicles with lesser styling and worse branding, but otherwise you're totally correct.
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welloiledinvestor wrote: Thu Feb 16, 2023 8:20 pm I know there are other posts but I was hoping that some of you would chime in and give me your opinion.

I have until December to decide on which 3-row car to get come December of 2023.

I currently drive Subaru Forester (2nd time leasing it).
I live in Michigan and I have had zero issues with it in snow.
I know someone will bring it up but don't want a minivan as I enjoy SUVs more and may take it to some off-roading.

I kept an open mind and test drove:
  • Kia Telluride
  • Honda Pilot
  • Toyota Highlander
  • Subaru Ascent
I don't think I will test drive:
  • VW Atlas
  • Hyandai Pallisade
For now, I have my heart set to lease for 36-months a Subaru Ascent Premium. Then, if I am satisfied, I will buy a higher-end trim Subaru Ascent as I plan to keep it for long-term.

My question is, should I go with Toyota Highlander instead? Gas or Hybrid? I plan on driving this car until the tires fall off.
DW and I did some test driving last year when our 2016 Honda Pilot started having weird electrical issues and the first service shop we went to couldn't figure it out despite having the vehicle for almost 2 weeks (2nd shop realized within an hour that the wrong battery had been put in). Some comments:
  • The Telluride was the best vehicle we drove overall, IMO, regardless of price and we drove a Volve XC90 that was much more expensive (and by all means, a great vehicle)
  • The VW Atlas pleasantly surprised me - I'd call it a great value. But I prefer the way German vehicles drive over most Japanese and Korean vehicles
  • If you can get past the less nice styling (IMO) the Palisade is basically the same vehicle as the Telluride and you'd save a bundle with it
  • It's been a long time since I've driving a Highlander (not last year), but from a driving dynamics perspective, it was my least favorite in this class
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My co-worker just researched almost every 3-row SUV out there. He ended up putting in an order for a Telluride X-Pro. He wanted to check out the Grand Highlander, but it won't be here in time for his needs.
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We just ordered the new Honda Pilot.

We looked at: Highlander (hybrid and non), the tiny, short 3rd row and lack of head room was a deal breaker; Atlas, I liked it (own a GTI) but I couldn't get past the reliability ratings and my wife didn't like it; Ascent I found very it uncomfortable, something with the seating position was 'off' for me and I knew I couldn't take it on any trips; Telluride, surprisingly neither my wife or I liked it, lack of front storage space and the center console really gouged my knee.

I was sure we would go with the Highlander or the Telluride, but we liked the Honda the best. Everyone had different needs and fit (I'm taller), that's why we tried them all to narrow it down.

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iamlucky13 wrote: Thu Feb 16, 2023 10:38 pm By my numbers, the HIghlander hybrid easily has the lowest total cost of ownership, especially when factoring in historical depreciation. If you have any towing needs, the conventional engine has a higher tow rating, but otherwise, the hybrid looks really compelling. The main issue is availability, but you have time to reserve one and hopefully get it for MSRP if you find the right dealer.

However, the Highlander has the smallest 3rd row of any of those.

The Kia Telluride has been rated as top in its class for multiple years in a row by multiple car sites based on power, handling, and having a lot of features relative to its MSRP. The last point is moot, however, because no one is selling it for MSRP. After contacting numerous dealerships, I think the lowest offer we got for the trim we were interested in was $5,000 over MSRP, and they had no qualms watching us walk away when we said we would not go that high. Another dealer effectively called us liars when we said we could get one for only $5,000 over MSRP.

I tend to favor Hondas, but the current Pilot didn't inspire me. It felt roomy inside, but not always in useful places - adjusting the rearview mirror actually was an awkward reach for me despite being above average height - while seating and cargo space was mid-pack. Hopefully the updated transmission in the current generation does away with the reliability issues some of the earlier years were reported to have had. If I remember right, the handling was a bit soft, which could be good if you like a plush ride, but it wasn't my favorite. I still say give it a test drive and make your own opinion. Maybe the comfy seats will win you over.

We ended up going with the Subaru Ascent. Due an issue with our current car, we couldn't wait long enough for a Highlander hybrid, and my wife was certain we will want a decent 3rd row as our kids grow up. I actually somewhat liked the way it drove, where as every previous Subaru I have driven is best described as boring. Ground clearance is great, the same on our Outback has actually been an asset on some of the worse forest roads we drive up for hiking, and helps on the rare occasions we get deep snow. I still think that Subaru's AWD system works better than most or perhaps all other crossovers, which I view as a nice to have in the snow, but my wife is less comfortable on snow and puts more value in it. Plus, Subaru happened to run a promotion, which is rare in the current market, so we actually got it below MSRP.

I will say, though, it is imperative that I not look back at my spreadsheet now that we bought, because even with the Ascent having the lowest out-the-door-price of the models we looked at, I hate being reminded of how much more we are going to pay in the long run with the Highlander Hybrid.
BernardShakey wrote: Thu Feb 16, 2023 8:44 pm I would only buy the 3-row SUV if you absolutely don't want a minivan and definitely have a frequent need for three rows.
Personally, I strongly agree, but I was overruled by the person who actually does most of the driving with the family, and potentially friends. I felt like I couldn't reason with her on this, but I refrained from sharing my estimate that insisting on the third row, which is going to spend 99% of the time empty, was basically a decision to delay our eventual retirement by several months, mainly to benefit the friends whose kids we might drive around, and to avoid addressing our tendency to overpack for vacations.

Also, last weekend I washed both the Ascent for the first time, and the Outback to get it ready to sell, and wasn't really prepared for how much more surface area there was to wash on the Ascent.
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I’m surprised so many people are recommending Kia/Hyundai SUVs. The sheer number of recalls over the last year alone would give me pause for concern. Last summer there was a recall of almost 300,000 of the current model due to them catching on fire.
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h82goslw wrote: Sat Feb 18, 2023 6:33 am I’m surprised so many people are recommending Kia/Hyundai SUVs. The sheer number of recalls over the last year alone would give me pause for concern. Last summer there was a recall of almost 300,000 of the current model due to them catching on fire.
Had my Palisade for almost a year. Only recall was a tow hitch wiring issue. Apparently they don’t know which cars have the tow hitch installed (mine doesn’t) so they sent everyone a recall.
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I bought a Lexus RX 450 h in summer 2022. ( 3rd row in it was useless). Got it at MSRP+300
My second choice was Toyota highlander platinum.
Third choice: Kia Telluride at MSRP +5000
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lazydavid wrote: Thu Feb 16, 2023 8:37 pm Also check out the Mazda CX-90 when it drops in a few months. All new, premium RWD-based platform, straight-six engine, starting at just under $50k. They're really trying to give BMW and Mercedes a run for their money.
They will also be selling a PHEV version. I'd be interested to see what the electric range will be.
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Jack FFR1846 wrote: Fri Feb 17, 2023 7:50 am You said "offroading" so I zero'd right in on that. Of your list, the Subaru is the only one with a "real" AWD system that's not going to leave you stuck when the going gets tough.

My absolute first thought for "real" offroading is, of course Jeep. The Grand Cherokee will drive around and probably over every vehicle on your list as the kids throw lolly pops at you from the back of the vehicle. I looked at the Jeep website and they have a $2000 rebate going on right now. On top of this, Jeep was the first to figure out how to get chips and other parts way ahead of every other manufacturer. My local, small Jeep dealer has 51 gas Grand Cherokees and 10 4xe which is plug in hybrid. Just down the street, the Toyota dealer has a total of 9 Highlanders. So your choice and bargaining power is going to be much higher with the Jeep. If you don't want to deal with out of warranty issues, lease again. I personally own a Wrangler Unlimited, undisputedly the worst reliability rated vehicle on the planet and my issues in 9 years of ownership have been zero. This is with some very hard core offroading in the non-snow season and snow plowing in the snow season.
I would say your knowledge of AWD systems here is not correct. The Pilot uses iVTM4 torque vectoring AWD (same system as Acura with different software). It can send 70% of power to the rear wheels, and 100% of the power going to the rear to a single wheel with traction.

The Fast Lane Cars test AWD systems on rollers with one or two wheels on the ground to test power transfer. The outback, which uses the same AWD system as the Ascent, failed roller tests that the Pilot passed.
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BernardShakey wrote: Thu Feb 16, 2023 8:44 pm
welloiledinvestor wrote: Thu Feb 16, 2023 8:20 pm I know there are other posts but I was hoping that some of you would chime in and give me your opinion.

I have until December to decide on which 3-row car to get come December of 2023.

I currently drive Subaru Forester (2nd time leasing it).
I live in Michigan and I have had zero issues with it in snow.
I know someone will bring it up but don't want a minivan as I enjoy SUVs more and may take it to some off-roading.

I kept an open mind and test drove:
  • Kia Telluride
  • Honda Pilot
  • Toyota Highlander
  • Subaru Ascent
I don't think I will test drive:
  • VW Atlas
  • Hyandai Pallisade
For now, I have my heart set to lease for 36-months a Subaru Ascent Premium. Then, if I am satisfied, I will buy a higher-end trim Subaru Ascent as I plan to keep it for long-term.

My question is, should I go with Toyota Highlander instead? Gas or Hybrid? I plan on driving this car until the tires fall off.
I test drove (in early 2022) all 4 of the vehicles you test drove.

The Highlander has (2021 model at least) a very cramped third row seat. The Subaru was nice but CR rated it very low for reliability. The Pilot was OK but a little stale in terms of interior design and CR gave it only mediocre reliability.

I ended up buying the Telluride (a 2021) --- best reliability of the bunch (though based on limited model years), nice and roomy, and more updated interior design.

I like it, but sometimes I still long for an updated version of my Honda Odyssey minivan. Minivans are just so damn functional. I would only buy the 3-row SUV if you absolutely don't want a minivan and definitely have a frequent need for three rows. Otherwise it's just a whole lot of vehicle for tripping around town.
Many reliability surveys are based on a shortened period of time of owning the cars. JD Powers specifically calls out initial quality.

You may get lucky and the Telluride ends up being a good vehicle long term, but Hyundai/ Kia has quality and engineering sins that will take a lot of time to wash off.

This picture is 9 months ago (so not years ago old issues) with 50 engine crates lined up behind a Hyundai dealer. Engines are blowing faster than the shop can have people replace them.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Justrolledinto ... ormal_for/

The “Kia Boys” rampant Kia and Hyundai theft problem is also this year and the issue impact cars still on the lot:
https://www.wmar2news.com/news/local-ne ... ?_amp=true

It’s not like they are easy to deal with and easily replace things when problems happen. They denied warranty repair last year to a tech that works in their dealership:
https://www.reddit.com/r/cars/comments/ ... _owned_by/
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BernardShakey wrote: Sat Feb 18, 2023 12:06 am
iamlucky13 wrote: Thu Feb 16, 2023 10:38 pm....
Like me, I'm almost sure you are an engineer :D
Guilty as charged. :beer
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I´d be hesitant about VW/Audi and Hyundai/Kia. Their engine used to, and still may as I´m not up to date on this, carb up. There´s a wealth of videos on YouTube how to spray cleaner somewhere in the engine, let it run, then clear the error codes etc. and this basically means long before the car has come to it´s engineered useful end of life you have issues with poorly engineered engines.
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We compared the third row of the Highlander to the third row of the Pilot, and the Pilot was the obvious winner. Only young children will be comfortable in the third row of the Highlander.
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windaar wrote: Thu Feb 16, 2023 8:31 pm My wife's ICE Highlander is the best car we've ever owned. But good luck finding one.
2013 Highlander here with 175k on the clock. Can’t say I have any complaints.
VTI and chill until 57...
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Not sure you have until Dec... some of these models have a long lead time, so make sure you take that into account.
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rob wrote: Sat Feb 18, 2023 8:03 pm Not sure you have until Dec... some of these models have a long lead time, so make sure you take that into account.
Yes, you are right. I am currently leaning toward Toyota Hybrid Highlander. I plan on test driving it next week, but this time Limited trim.
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SavinMaven wrote: Sat Feb 18, 2023 6:35 pm We compared the third row of the Highlander to the third row of the Pilot, and the Pilot was the obvious winner. Only young children will be comfortable in the third row of the Highlander.
I know 3rd row is not really meant for an adult, but both of my parents are short and I have taken them along to few of the test drives. They have not complained in the 3rd row. We'll see.
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teCh0010 wrote: Sat Feb 18, 2023 1:58 pm
Many reliability surveys are based on a shortened period of time of owning the cars. JD Powers specifically calls out initial quality.

You may get lucky and the Telluride ends up being a good vehicle long term, but Hyundai/ Kia has quality and engineering sins that will take a lot of time to wash off.
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Thank you for the links. Honestly, at this point, I am leaning toward Toyota. Maybe Subaru as a second option. Hyaundai and Kia is getting a rave of great reviews and it might be true. Yet, I rather depend on brands who have had longer track record of being reliable.
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My current (2017) Pilot will be replaced in 2025. We will look at Grand Highlander or the new generation (new for 2023) Pilot which I like the look of but my wife isn’t sold on.
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We have an 06' Accord and 10' Odyssey. My wife drives the Odyssey and really wants to get a new car and wants it to be an SUV so she can fit our 3 kids in the car. She's pushing for the Honda Pilot, but I'm worried about the space since we usually take it on 3-4 roadtrips per year. We test drove the pilot and our 12 year old (who hasn't hit a growth spurt) was complaining about the lack of room back there. There is clearly way less luggage space in the back compared to a minivan.

Any families of 5 use the Pilot (or similar 3-row SUV) as their primary car? Is it workable or are you better off with a minivan?
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davebo wrote: Mon Feb 20, 2023 11:57 am We have an 06' Accord and 10' Odyssey. My wife drives the Odyssey and really wants to get a new car and wants it to be an SUV so she can fit our 3 kids in the car. She's pushing for the Honda Pilot, but I'm worried about the space since we usually take it on 3-4 roadtrips per year. We test drove the pilot and our 12 year old (who hasn't hit a growth spurt) was complaining about the lack of room back there. There is clearly way less luggage space in the back compared to a minivan.

Any families of 5 use the Pilot (or similar 3-row SUV) as their primary car? Is it workable or are you better off with a minivan?
I’ve owned two pilots and I’m probably going to get another. Pilot is built for a family of four who takes 6 people places for kids events. If you will have 5 on board every day, and5 plus luggage on vacation you are better off with a minivan. Or go all out and get a conversion transit.
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welloiledinvestor wrote: Thu Feb 16, 2023 8:20 pm I know there are other posts but I was hoping that some of you would chime in and give me your opinion.

I have until December to decide on which 3-row car to get come December of 2023.

I currently drive Subaru Forester (2nd time leasing it).
I live in Michigan and I have had zero issues with it in snow.
I know someone will bring it up but don't want a minivan as I enjoy SUVs more and may take it to some off-roading.

I kept an open mind and test drove:
  • Kia Telluride
  • Honda Pilot
  • Toyota Highlander
  • Subaru Ascent
I don't think I will test drive:
  • VW Atlas
  • Hyandai Pallisade
For now, I have my heart set to lease for 36-months a Subaru Ascent Premium. Then, if I am satisfied, I will buy a higher-end trim Subaru Ascent as I plan to keep it for long-term.

My question is, should I go with Toyota Highlander instead? Gas or Hybrid? I plan on driving this car until the tires fall off.
Don't like American SUVs? Chevy Traverse is a great 3-row SUV. 3rd is roomy for adults. I have driven it on long road trips. I enjoyed driving. Adults who sat on 3rd row had no complaints.
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Metsfan91 wrote: Mon Feb 20, 2023 9:38 pm
Don't like American SUVs? Chevy Traverse is a great 3-row SUV. 3rd is roomy for adults. I have driven it on long road trips. I enjoyed driving. Adults who sat on 3rd row had no complaints.
Honestly, no. One thing that worries me is the reliability factor. I am sure they have improved over the years, but I usually lean toward Japanese brands, but we'll see.
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welloiledinvestor wrote: Tue Feb 21, 2023 9:30 pm
Metsfan91 wrote: Mon Feb 20, 2023 9:38 pm
Don't like American SUVs? Chevy Traverse is a great 3-row SUV. 3rd is roomy for adults. I have driven it on long road trips. I enjoyed driving. Adults who sat on 3rd row had no complaints.
Honestly, no. One thing that worries me is the reliability factor. I am sure they have improved over the years, but I usually lean toward Japanese brands, but we'll see.
A handful of years ago the "most American" vehicle by content & labor was the Camry; Might still be not sure. I think you have to break it down to specific models not a brand.
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lazydavid wrote: Thu Feb 16, 2023 8:37 pm Also check out the Mazda CX-90 when it drops in a few months. All new, premium RWD-based platform, straight-six engine, starting at just under $50k. They're really trying to give BMW and Mercedes a run for their money.
+1. Mazda makes awesome vehicles. Solid engineering and true driver's cars. That would be my pick as well in this category.
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I wasn't going to but I test drove VW Atlas. There was lot of things I liked about the car but since I want to own the car for long term, I am not too sure how reliable and expensive VW parts will be down the line. I mean, compared to American or Japanese brands, I am pretty sure it will be more expensive.

I will wait for Highlander Hybrid Grand to be ready and leaning toward buying that next year if family ends up liking it. Thanks again for the good suggestions. I have plenty of time to test drive other brands/models mentioned here. We'll see.
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welloiledinvestor wrote: Sat Feb 25, 2023 7:44 pm I wasn't going to but I test drove VW Atlas. There was lot of things I liked about the car but since I want to own the car for long term, I am not too sure how reliable and expensive VW parts will be down the line. I mean, compared to American or Japanese brands, I am pretty sure it will be more expensive.
I owned a VW Jetta, and failed to learn my lesson when our first kid arrived and bought a Passat wagon. Both were maintenance hogs. Fun to drive, though. The Mazdas are both fun to drive and very reliable.
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Outer Marker wrote: Sun Feb 26, 2023 8:07 am
welloiledinvestor wrote: Sat Feb 25, 2023 7:44 pm I wasn't going to but I test drove VW Atlas. There was lot of things I liked about the car but since I want to own the car for long term, I am not too sure how reliable and expensive VW parts will be down the line. I mean, compared to American or Japanese brands, I am pretty sure it will be more expensive.
I owned a VW Jetta, and failed to learn my lesson when our first kid arrived and bought a Passat wagon. Both were maintenance hogs. Fun to drive, though. The Mazdas are both fun to drive and very reliable.
Several users have mentioned Mazda, especially the CX-90. I have got nothing to lose, maybe I test drive it and check out the cabin. Do you think Mazda would be as reliable as (or close to) Toyota and worth owning?
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