Normchad wrote: ↑Sat Oct 17, 2020 6:14 am
Chicken Little wrote: ↑Sat Oct 17, 2020 5:51 am
My guess is FIRE will damage a lot of people. Most of them aren't going to be able to return to work in 10-15 years at near their same wages. Many plan to take advantage of subsidized healthcare, which is a separate discussion, but also a pretty big risk. If you really have the money in place and you want to stop working, you don't need an acronym, you just don't go anymore.
I'm basically fixated on the day I don't have to go to work anymore. I really like my job, so maybe I'll go in after I reach that point? What I'm not going to do on retirement day #1 is contemplate how I can make money now that I've quit my real job.
I do wonder how it will turn out for the folks retiring at 30 or even 40. A lot of them are very smart and talented, and earn a ton of money now. And I agree, I don’t think they’ll be able to get that income again after being out of the work force for ten years. What I do know is, my aspirations and world view changed an awful lot after that age. This affects what and how much I want to spend, etc. and a lot of people might get hit by divorce, disability, kids after that age.
It sounds like a dream life to nope out at that age, but I do wonder how sustainable it will be price to be.
Then again, I doubt many people will ever actually FIRE. I think it gets talked about a lot, but few will actually do it. (I mean retire very young).
I want to co-sign this. My mom went out of work due to an injury in her mid-50s… and after it was probably easier to stay on the disability pay than it should have been. So she did for a while, and attempted to go back to work ~7-8 years later in her early 60s. It was not easy to just get back in. The world got a lot younger and the workplace much more aggressive - so she struggled at 3 different jobs.
My parents are not FI-minded at all, lots of debt due to making pretty good money but spending it poorly keeping up with the Jonses in a high cost area. I am just hoping they are able live modestly off of the empty nest currently for sale. We'll see.
But as for FIRE -- I think it is a mixed bag. I think there's a lot of people talking about FIRE (and following high-monetizing blogs for the popular people writing about how good it is hah!). That said, I think there's a lot of rose-colored glasses where people think ditching their probably monotonous, high-paying job for the barista life is going to make them significantly happier.
Maybe it is possible, but I don't tend to buy it. I don't think happiness comes from work as much as what you do with earnings outside of work. "Capitalism can bring prosperity but it can't bring meaning" I believe is some paraphrase…
If you aren't satisfied, your fixes might involve your job -- but as I turn 35 and "struggle" as much as any generally well-paid software engineer does in the FIRE community after 10+ years working in positions where I am probably quite spoiled relative to most wage earners (tell me if you also roll your eyes at the reddit thread's talking about burnout at Google, hah!)… the fixes for meaning in life probably lay elsewhere.
It was the periphery of work that burned me out. Going out drinking nonstop for years with coworkers in the city in particular… but also not setting boundaries between my work life and my personal life, taking a lot of work home because of not much else to do, ignoring hobbies like I had when I was younger, not seriously looking for or maintaining a meaningful relationship because of being too much of a socialite… until I was surrounded by people who had built them and gotten married.
I like that FIRE is getting a lot of people to save and thinking about the long term, but I think it also makes people think they will magically stop work at 40 and it'll be all just be hunky-dory. Never mind economic and life shocks as others have mentioned, or the tenuous nature that much of it seems to depend on tax and healthcare loopholes that may or may not continue to exist.
So I will agree with them on the "save well, and don't work until the grave" aspect, but don't think I will be coasting as the barista (unless I'm running my own shop, or ideally some kind of cool hostel abroad). I'm going to take the last decade for what it was (having fun and learning a lot of lessons) and continue saving while things are really not so bad and focus on the stuff beyond my work life. Because work life is not so bad.
I know not everyone can say that, but I feel like a lot of the FIRE community is turning a position of huge advantage (privilege as the youths now declare) into some existential struggle that when you take a step back and look at it, enables them a whole lot of options in life
