I did read through the thread, but I am going to go back and quote the first post to ask some follow up questions.....
KF, can I ask you a general question - what specific kind of engineer are you?
I've seen you mention being an engineer and also mention IT. But you also talk about HCOL area and facing lots of long layoffs. (if you want to decline to answer for privacy reasons I understand)
The odd thing is I am an engineer (Mechanical by degree) but happened to work all of my career in software. Maybe its a stroke of luck but I've managed to never yet get the layoff axe (20 years in) and everyone I know who did get laid off along the way (lots of folks) always managed to find a new job in a few months at most. A couple of cases For most it actually paid off financially between the generous severance and UI.
About the only people I know who took more than a year to find a new job are VP level folks. Some senior manager/director types end up at lower titles in a new company but often still had a bump in pay.
This has held true in my experience (Boston) even though the great recession... as technology hiring slowed but never as severely as the overall economy. I knew people in other fields that where suffering, but talented tech folks usually made out OK. Even college friends I know that stayed in physical engineering made it though relatively unscathed.
KlangFool wrote: ↑Fri Apr 20, 2018 2:53 pm
Rule #1
Save 1 year of your current annual expense every year. Then, you could be FI in about 25 years even with 0% real growth.
Rule #2
Do not overspend on house, car, and college education. At engineer's income level, as long as he/she do not overspend on those large expenses, he/she can save 1 year of annual expense every year.
I have only just now been able to start doing this in our 40s, now that my wife has gone back to work and our kids are in grade school. In my 20s I did not earn enough (HCOL area, student loans, not every tech person makes a google salary). In our 30s we where on one income with 2 young kids and all the expenses of being new parents and new homeowners.
I think these are great stretch goals but are very difficult for the majority of people in this country based on average incomes and cost of living...
KlangFool wrote: ↑Fri Apr 20, 2018 2:53 pm
KF Rule for buying a house.
1) 20% down payment plus 30 years fixed rate mortgage. The PITI monthly payment has to be 20% to 30% lower than monthly rent.
2) The net worth excluding house has to be at least 2.5 times the price of the house.
Some of the parameters to be adjusted for the individual circumstances.
Rule #2 I think is impossible for 90% of people. I know when we bought a house our total non-house NW was maybe 1/3-1/2 of the house value... but it worked out OK and 10 years later we are closing in on your rule.
The rule we DID follow was:
* Purchase price < 3x income
* Able to carry the loan on a single income
Otherwise I think we are in a similar situation but about 10 years behind you in age and progress. the other thing Ive done that's maybe a bit different is to try and diversify potential retirement income streams for risk mitigation. By that I mean, I work in tech and have all my assets in vehicles like 401k, IRA. My wife works in healthcare and while she makes a lot less she has always had jobs with pension eligibility. So in retirement we hope to spread the load across SS, traditional pensions, 401k/403b/457/TIRA/etc and Roth vehicles.
My goal is to take the next 10~15 years to save aggressively, so after college we can either RE if things go well, or worst case take a low paying service job just for the benefits and let the savings float until SS/medicare eligibility.