F150HD wrote: ↑Wed Sep 02, 2020 8:42 pm
I show them my investment account.
Kids talk. surely all their friends (and family) will then eventually know your financial status. To me thats uncomfortable. In areas I've lived, that can also make one a target for a break in. Sad but true.
Age of kids is not stated. Alas, its not a choice I would personally have made.
Good luck.
We're totally open with finances in our home. Money should not be a taboo subject (along with several other topics). This makes it easier for them to feel comfortable to ask questions and it gives a chance to share one of my interests with them. It also helps them see the tradeoff in decisions we make. Yes, we can do X, but we choose not to so we can do Y and Z instead. It lets us demonstrate priorities, values, etc. When you see them applying similar logic at the toy isle in Target deciding how/if they want to spend their money, it's a good feeling.
Moreover, it gives our kids a chance to understand our life and the opportunities they have is not typical. The latter is even more important to us because kids frankly live in a bubble. I recall a teenage son of one of our execs suggesting to our admin that she buy a Porsche Macan ("I drive it, it's a great car") - the car was worth more than the admin makes in a year, but kid had no concept of what most people in the US or moreso the rest of the world experience.
Having done this open kimono approach since they were young, our kids have been in indexes from the start. They asked what these sets of letters were on the computer screen which gave a chance to talk about individual stocks vs indexes. Our kindergartener got that concept pretty quickly though saying you "own" Microsoft does need a bit of 5 year old explanation.