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by LadyIJ
Tue May 08, 2018 5:58 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: most compelling TV character ever
Replies: 175
Views: 16050

Re: most compelling TV character ever

1. Billy Bob Thornton as Billy McBride in Amazon's "Goliath"
2. Robin Weigert as Calamity Jane in "Deadwood"
3. Walt Goggins as Boyd Crowder in "Justified"
by LadyIJ
Tue May 08, 2018 5:52 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Please confirm Social Security strategy
Replies: 14
Views: 2071

Re: Please confirm Social Security strategy

Yes, born in 1953 - she is grandfathered in. She can collect spousal benefits while her ss continues to grow. Just make sure when you apply in person that the understand it's spousal benefits. I was also born in 1953 and researched. People keep telling me I was wrong, but I went to the experts. You'...
by LadyIJ
Sun Apr 29, 2018 5:59 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Favors for Family/Friends and Getting Compensated or Not?
Replies: 39
Views: 3228

Re: Favors for Family/Friends and Getting Compensated or Not?

I had a friend who kept asking my husband and I for favors she could have had done by paying for such services. When I got fed up and told her we wouldn't be doing these favors anymore, our friendship ended for awhile - now it's extremely strained. They say hindsight is 20/20 - in hindsight, we shou...
by LadyIJ
Sun Apr 22, 2018 9:38 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: New retirees: so whatdayathink ?
Replies: 97
Views: 11329

Re: New retirees: so whatdayathink ?

randomizer wrote:
Fri Apr 20, 2018 8:19 pm
I’ve been retired for a few months now, my employer just doesn’t know it yet. :D
lol - I retired a few years before my actual retirement date.
by LadyIJ
Sun Apr 22, 2018 9:36 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: New retirees: so whatdayathink ?
Replies: 97
Views: 11329

Re: New retirees: so whatdayathink ?

Retired 1 year. I walk a lot and read a lot and don't use an alarm. I now have medical issues I never had before I was 65 and have time to go to doctors. I walked 4.5 miles each way today today to a cardiologist whom I had to browbeat into a nuclear stress test in a few weeks when I will do the sam...
by LadyIJ
Sat Apr 21, 2018 6:40 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: anyone else not liking the new cars?
Replies: 158
Views: 16690

Re: anyone else not liking the new cars?

It’s interesting the different perspectives of car space. Must be what one is used to. I’m 6’ and comfortable in almost all cars I’ve ridden in. Really love my GTI. Fits perfect and a blast to drive. But my dad who is an inch taller says it’s easy too small and uncomfortable. It's not how tall you ...
by LadyIJ
Thu Apr 19, 2018 2:09 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: [When is going out to a restaurant worth it to you?]
Replies: 71
Views: 5438

Re: [When is going out to a restaurant worth it to you?]

We almost only eat out with another couple(s)/family occasions. We almost never eat out just the two of us. 1) we like to eat light, and 2) while we can afford it, it's expensive and usually not worth the money. So mostly to fulfill social obligations.
by LadyIJ
Thu Apr 19, 2018 6:53 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: car at 80
Replies: 59
Views: 4522

Re: car at 80

For what it's worth my father drove until he was 96. He did it effectively. At 91 he had his first accident ever. I hope my track record ends up being as good. Shortly after that, an uncle "selected" a car for him and drove it to the house sharing that it was such a great car he would buy it back i...
by LadyIJ
Wed Apr 18, 2018 3:12 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: car at 80
Replies: 59
Views: 4522

Re: car at 80

First I want to congratulate your husband for marrying a younger woman. It is paying off. At 80 years old I believe your husband deserves to buy the car he wants and enjoys. So, yes go get the car you think is best for the both of you. Enjoy. OMIGOSH - such a good answer - he does deserve it - toda...
by LadyIJ
Tue Apr 17, 2018 10:28 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: car at 80
Replies: 59
Views: 4522

Re: car at 80

Although I haven't had a chance yet t read this article, we are only considering Japanese luxury, so that pretty much leaves us to Acura, Lexus or Infiniti! Why only Japanese? Reliability of some german brands are higher than the brands you mentioned. Check Consumer Reports latest reliability ranki...
by LadyIJ
Tue Apr 17, 2018 5:46 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: car at 80
Replies: 59
Views: 4522

Re: car at 80

FWIW, many school bus drivers in NJ are in their 80s. An 85-year-old in the Princeton area was just cited and dismissed for decades-old sex-crime charges. He would still be driving busloads full of kids around difficult winding roads if not for this issue. So I guess he can still be driving if he s...
by LadyIJ
Tue Apr 17, 2018 5:21 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: car at 80
Replies: 59
Views: 4522

Re: car at 80

For the Japanese luxury brands you're looking at: The new Infiniti QX50 has gotten very good reviews. I haven't been a fan of Infiniti/Nissan over the past few years, but the QX50 suggests they've woken up. The redesign of the Acura RDX (coming this fall) may also be worth considering. The Lexus NX...
by LadyIJ
Tue Apr 17, 2018 5:19 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: car at 80
Replies: 59
Views: 4522

Re: car at 80

My Dad, 82, drives a Toyota Avalon and a GMC Sierra pickup truck. Mom hates the pickup truck, loves the Avalon. So I vote +1 to the ES350. OBTW, though I do accept that, as a general rule, our motor skills taper off as we age, individuals vary. My father was named Ambulance Driver of the Year of hi...
by LadyIJ
Tue Apr 17, 2018 3:22 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: car at 80
Replies: 59
Views: 4522

Re: car at 80

I am in my mid 80s and, fortunately,almost any auto is fine with me. (Although I sold my 1960 MGA two years ago.....getting harder to get out of.) My wife is "only" 78, a kid indeed, but she has some mobility problems and has difficulty getting into my 2010 Ford Edge (I am keeping this one for anot...
by LadyIJ
Tue Apr 17, 2018 3:14 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: car at 80
Replies: 59
Views: 4522

Re: car at 80

Tell him to act his age. http://www.truecar.com/blog/2010/05/12/top-10-models-for-young-drivers/ Seriously, there are reasons why these cars are more popular with seniors, and googling seem to bring up the Lincoln Town Car as the quintessential favorite. The Lincoln Town car is a TERRIBLE choice. I...
by LadyIJ
Tue Apr 17, 2018 11:27 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: car at 80
Replies: 59
Views: 4522

Re: car at 80

Tell him to act his age. http://www.truecar.com/blog/2010/05/12/top-10-models-for-young-drivers/ Seriously, there are reasons why these cars are more popular with seniors, and googling seem to bring up the Lincoln Town Car as the quintessential favorite. https://www.thestreet.com/story/11230364/1/1...
by LadyIJ
Tue Apr 17, 2018 10:59 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: car at 80
Replies: 59
Views: 4522

Re: car at 80

Thanks for all the great comments. I will read them over a few times and digest all the good information. Just to clarify, my husband's reflexes are great, maybe even better than mine. He just gets a little forgetful, does a lot of running around. I selfishly want both a safe car for him, but someth...
by LadyIJ
Tue Apr 17, 2018 7:25 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: car at 80
Replies: 59
Views: 4522

car at 80

My husband will be 80 this year. He is pretty sharp, but does seem to forget turning his lights off about 3 - 4 times a year. In his defense, he is driving a '98 Pathfinder - hence, no warning that lights are on, and I know at 64 - that warning has saved me more than a couple of times. I posted awhi...
by LadyIJ
Tue Feb 06, 2018 5:39 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Where to keep money to get to Social Security at age 70?
Replies: 14
Views: 1337

Re: Where to keep money to get to Social Security at age 70?

Sum-day wrote:
Tue Feb 06, 2018 3:45 pm
I'd put together a CD ladder.
I agree - I was going to say at least put half in a 2 year cd . .
by LadyIJ
Sun Jan 28, 2018 2:42 pm
Forum: Local Chapters and Bogleheads Community
Topic: Chicagoland Master Thread
Replies: 21
Views: 4710

Re: Chicagoland Master Thread

I would be interested in attending if the meetings were in the morning or early afternoon, but not to come downtown at night. Thanks and I'll keep an eye out for any changes.
by LadyIJ
Wed Jan 24, 2018 1:03 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Dear wife quits job and now we are down to 1 income
Replies: 190
Views: 17047

Re: Dear wife quits job and now we are down to 1 income

you can handle it - good for your wife. A 5 month old baby needs to be cared for by someone who loves it - you guys are young - cut expenses and she can go back to work in 5 years.
by LadyIJ
Tue Jan 09, 2018 4:16 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: What frugal thing did you do today?
Replies: 483
Views: 41985

Re: What frugal thing did you do today?

Dasnyc wrote:
Sat Jan 06, 2018 3:56 am
Sorry folks, but some of these ‘frugalities’ are quite disturbing. Piggybacking on another’s laundry? Knowingly purchasing and then returning books, after consuming the content? These go waaaay beyond frugal. Let’s get a grip on the ethics of our choices!
well said!
by LadyIJ
Tue Jan 09, 2018 4:13 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: What frugal thing did you do today?
Replies: 483
Views: 41985

Re: What frugal thing did you do today?

While in the laundromat I noticed a woman putting her clothes in a dryer. On the phone she told a friend she would be right over. A half hour walk was no problem. So I opened her dryer + threw my clothes in with hers. Got dryed for free. She never knew. This definitely transcends "frugal" and shoul...
by LadyIJ
Thu Jan 04, 2018 3:01 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: What frugal thing did you do today?
Replies: 483
Views: 41985

Re: What frugal thing did you do today?

Paid a bill online. Then I used the window envelope that came with a bill to send a letter to a friend. Had fun aligning the typewritten address with the window - something I learned to do in high school. I'd also like to weigh in on returning books (or any other item) to the seller after you use t...
by LadyIJ
Thu Jan 04, 2018 12:58 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: What frugal thing did you do today?
Replies: 483
Views: 41985

Re: What frugal thing did you do today?

I read fairly fast. So I returned the books that I got from Amazon the other day for free returns. Don't bend the spine or crinkle the pages. Return as received in brand new condition. Most books are not worth keeping unless reference or something to gift or pass on. I don't know if others do this....
by LadyIJ
Thu Jan 04, 2018 11:59 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: What frugal thing did you do today?
Replies: 483
Views: 41985

Re: What frugal thing did you do today?

I like to be frugal, but I don't like cheating or using people - like mooching off people for meals, or returning books to Amazon that I read. Come on people! That's not "frugal". My frugality today: I am going to discontinue HBO and Showtime. Curb Your Enthusiasm season is over. We're using our Ama...
by LadyIJ
Wed Dec 27, 2017 2:44 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Car/SUV - which to replace first
Replies: 22
Views: 1329

Re: Car/SUV - which to replace first

thanks for all the comments - we do like an AWD - right now the Pathfinder can go FWD to AWD. I agree with the poster that said get rid of the Pathfinder before it breaks down. Snowtires are a royal pain to have someone put on and take off each season - I may look into all weather tires for the Acur...
by LadyIJ
Tue Dec 26, 2017 5:33 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Car/SUV - which to replace first
Replies: 22
Views: 1329

Re: Car/SUV - which to replace first

Get rid of Pathfinder and get Accord/Camry with snow tires. AWD and SUV's are overrated. Exactly, especially considering the midwest is mostly flat. No matter 2WD or 4WD, they all stop (or don't) the same in the snow. However sitting at a stoplight facing slightly uphill on snow pack, I would take ...
by LadyIJ
Tue Dec 26, 2017 3:33 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Car/SUV - which to replace first
Replies: 22
Views: 1329

Re: Car/SUV - which to replace first

Get rid of Pathfinder and get Accord/Camry with snow tires. AWD and SUV's are overrated. Funny you say that, because I had an old Accord with good old tires and it was dynamite in the snow. I don't like the new ones as much - heard the new Camrys are sharp, but the question really is which to repla...
by LadyIJ
Tue Dec 26, 2017 3:31 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Car/SUV - which to replace first
Replies: 22
Views: 1329

Re: Car/SUV - which to replace first

PFInterest wrote:
Tue Dec 26, 2017 1:42 pm
im sorry, you think youll get 30k for a 19 year old pathfinder with 150K miles?
NO!!! it will be our cost for a certified pre-owned SUV - being that the old Pathfinder won't be worth that much.
by LadyIJ
Tue Dec 26, 2017 1:39 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Car/SUV - which to replace first
Replies: 22
Views: 1329

Car/SUV - which to replace first

OKAY, I've been retired for 10 months and my thinking is already fuzzy - lol. It seems like every decision is a BIG one, most likely since there is no paycheck coming in and nobody knows how long this bull market will continue. I could use some good reasoning Boglehead minds here, if you don't mind ...
by LadyIJ
Sat Oct 28, 2017 4:32 pm
Forum: Local Chapters and Bogleheads Community
Topic: Roll Call for the Retirement Class of 2017!
Replies: 311
Views: 48241

Re: Roll Call for the Retirement Class of 2017!

I'm currently clearing out my office; there is some space for emeritus faculty so I'm going to move a few things and keep them in there. Aside from that, I'll have two or three hours of committee-related work to do in July, then I'll be done. I'm not sure I'll really feel retired, though, until clo...
by LadyIJ
Sun Sep 17, 2017 10:36 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Free credit monitoring for AAA members
Replies: 16
Views: 2220

Re: Free credit monitoring for AAA members

I just signed my wife up this week. I think the service is of minimal value. They do say that benefits vary by AAA region. For us: free daily monitoring of Experian report (including email alerts of changes). Plus stuff like identity theft insurance, fraud resolution support and "lost wallet assist...
by LadyIJ
Thu Sep 14, 2017 6:26 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Experian - credit freeze and credit card hacked
Replies: 11
Views: 2582

Re: Experian - credit freeze and credit card hacked

If there is a fraudulent charge on an existing credit card, your bank can/will handle it. The Attorney General is not going to care about a 87 cent issue, especially one that has existing procedures in place to fix it (issue you a new card, clear the fraudulent charge). Coincidence on the timing pe...
by LadyIJ
Tue Sep 12, 2017 3:08 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Experian - credit freeze and credit card hacked
Replies: 11
Views: 2582

Re: Experian - credit freeze and credit card hacked

I went online and froze my credit with the big 3 - Experian being the only one that charged me $10. I did this yesterday. I see the $10 charge to Experian on my charge but was emailed this morning by my bank that someone fraudulently tried to charge my credit card (the one I used) .87. Yes. 87 CENT...
by LadyIJ
Tue Sep 12, 2017 2:49 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Experian - credit freeze and credit card hacked
Replies: 11
Views: 2582

Experian - credit freeze and credit card hacked

I went online and froze my credit with the big 3 - Experian being the only one that charged me $10. I did this yesterday. I see the $10 charge to Experian on my charge but was emailed this morning by my bank that someone fraudulently tried to charge my credit card (the one I used) .87. Yes. 87 CENTS...
by LadyIJ
Tue Sep 12, 2017 2:46 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Equifax - credit freeze is now free?
Replies: 64
Views: 9214

Re: Equifax - credit freeze is now free?

So what's the point of a free year of credit monitoring? It's not like credit card numbers or passwords were stolen... Social security numbers with all the other information will be on the dark web in perpetuity. What's the point of monitoring, they already have your info. This breach is a game cha...
by LadyIJ
Mon Sep 11, 2017 5:58 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Equifax - credit freeze is now free?
Replies: 64
Views: 9214

Re: Equifax - credit freeze is now free?

So what's the point of a free year of credit monitoring? It's not like credit card numbers or passwords were stolen... Social security numbers with all the other information will be on the dark web in perpetuity. What's the point of monitoring, they already have your info. This breach is a game cha...
by LadyIJ
Mon Sep 11, 2017 5:29 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Equifax - credit freeze is now free?
Replies: 64
Views: 9214

Re: Equifax - credit freeze is now free?

I don't pay a fee in NJ. But I wonder if they adjusted the terms absconding themselves from liability due to the breach. I didn't read them closely. I think the terms in question were associated with signing up for the free year of "TrustedID Premier" credit monitoring. I don't think the terms ever...
by LadyIJ
Sun Aug 27, 2017 11:29 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Living Expenses - what's "reasonable"?
Replies: 101
Views: 10836

Re: Living Expenses - what's "reasonable"?

My response to the OP is that how much you spend in retirement depends a lot on what you spent (and how you spent it) before retirement. It also depends on your spouse if you have one, and his/her spending habits. It also depends on whether or not you're the kind of person who pays for your grandch...
by LadyIJ
Sun Jul 30, 2017 4:58 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Schwab brokerage incentive $2,500 - - - thoughts?
Replies: 72
Views: 20775

Re: Schwab brokerage incentive $2,500 - - - thoughts?

There's a thread dedicated to the subject: https://www.bogleheads.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=10&t=19688 The ones I mentioned are quality brokerages that many here use. However, if you want mutual funds then they'll be more expensive and you won't be able to get Vanguard Admiral or equivalent funds. ...
by LadyIJ
Sat Jul 29, 2017 5:08 am
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Schwab brokerage incentive $2,500 - - - thoughts?
Replies: 72
Views: 20775

Re: Schwab brokerage incentive $2,500 - - - thoughts?

I spoke to my Fidelity Rep March before I retired and thought I had time to get the cash incentive by rolling over from 401k. I called Fidelity today and that cash incentive is gone. Sorry my advisor did not inform me - I'm out about $1,200. Does anyone know of a reputable firm that is offering the...
by LadyIJ
Fri Jul 28, 2017 6:36 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Schwab brokerage incentive $2,500 - - - thoughts?
Replies: 72
Views: 20775

Re: Schwab brokerage incentive $2,500 - - - thoughts?

I spoke to my Fidelity Rep March before I retired and thought I had time to get the cash incentive by rolling over from 401k. I called Fidelity today and that cash incentive is gone. Sorry my advisor did not inform me - I'm out about $1,200. Does anyone know of a reputable firm that is offering the ...
by LadyIJ
Tue Jul 18, 2017 7:55 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Comfortable Vehicle Front Seats
Replies: 105
Views: 19767

Re: Comfortable Vehicle Front Seats

Lexus 350 RX We had a close call with my husband's older Pathfinder and, although we are repairing, we will also start preparing to get a new SUV - the Lexus 350 RX is on the top of my list - will also look at the Murano and whatever comparable SUVs in Infiniti and Acura. Seat comfort is up there f...
by LadyIJ
Tue Jul 18, 2017 7:52 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Beware Citibank Bonus Promotion
Replies: 39
Views: 7834

Re: Beware Citibank Bonus Promotion

I'll pay ya $500 to endure aggravation for 6 months. Not worth it! ha ha - not aggravation for ONE month (the last one)! Just wait until you get your 1099 from Citi next year, that's when the real fun will begin ! My husband and myself got our checking bonus of $400 and $600 respectively. The 2016 ...
by LadyIJ
Sat Jul 15, 2017 4:05 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Urgent 1st world problem [coffeemaker]
Replies: 48
Views: 4151

Re: Urgent 1st world problem [coffeemaker]

when our 12 year old Cuisinart broke and we saw how cheaply made the new coffeemakers were, we went to our local thrift shop and bought an old coffeemaker for $10 and it is wonderful. That cheap stuff from China is awful. If we see more old beauties at garage sales, we'll buy another one or two. I'm...
by LadyIJ
Thu Jun 22, 2017 7:39 am
Forum: Local Chapters and Bogleheads Community
Topic: Roll Call for the Retirement Class of 2017!
Replies: 311
Views: 48241

Re: Roll Call for the Retirement Class of 2017!

I can't believe I did it!! I have been agonizing about the decision to retire for several years now. I just celebrated my 59th birthday and I feel emotionally and financially prepared. I gave my notice today and will work my last day July 11th!! I am so excited about this next chapter in my life! T...
by LadyIJ
Mon Jun 19, 2017 8:32 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Anyone use "MyPillow" pillows?
Replies: 50
Views: 8295

Re: Anyone use "MyPillow" pillows?

I wouldn't order a pillow online. MyPillow has great marketing but their medical claims are dubious at best. 10 year warranty is ridiculous. You should change pillows every 2-3 years IMO. Bed Bath & Beyond has a good selection which I have found very comfortable. why change pillows? I've been washi...
by LadyIJ
Mon Jun 19, 2017 8:30 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Anyone use "MyPillow" pillows?
Replies: 50
Views: 8295

Re: Anyone use "MyPillow" pillows?

I like the one I bought at WalMart but when we ordered the "better" one from the company, it was too firm. I've had mine (from Walmart) for a couple of years and love it. Update: I still love my MyPillow from Walmart. We bought one for my husband and it was too firm. I'm thinking it has to be broke...
by LadyIJ
Sat Jun 17, 2017 7:14 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Beware Citibank Bonus Promotion
Replies: 39
Views: 7834

Re: Beware Citibank Bonus Promotion

To reiterate - once I called and threatened to file with the Consumer Fraud Protection Bureau, and had them open an "investigation" I DID get my money in a few weeks - so that was a few weeks after the initial couple of months - not bad, but I had to do that. I had to do the same threatening call fo...