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by investingdad
Wed Feb 28, 2024 11:03 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Want to leave timeshare.
Replies: 111
Views: 12034

Re: Want to leave timeshare.

We took over a Disney Vacation Club timeshare from a family member via gifting. There’s about 12 years left on it and we just pay the annual fees. We enjoy the resort without needing to be in the parks and for us this works.
by investingdad
Tue Feb 27, 2024 8:59 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Dental crowns
Replies: 58
Views: 6691

Re: Dental crowns

Someone has to have a name of a US trained Dental practice working outside the US in a great vacation spot for a little medical tourism. A huge part of all of this is followup and problem solving. When I was in practice I had a patient or two go to Mexico for some complicated implant restorations. When she developed problems....nope, not gonna touch that. Last one to touch it, owns it. It was probably going to cost her $10k to get it resolved and fixed. Keep it local. Got that right. Mine was complicated and I knew going in I was looking at a multi step process. No way I’m doing anything but local should interim problems come up. It’s been a couple years now and everything went great but my surgeon told me up front it was going to be tricky.
by investingdad
Tue Feb 27, 2024 8:37 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Dental crowns
Replies: 58
Views: 6691

Re: Dental crowns

In the Philly region I’ve seen billboards citing $888 for an implant.

The devil is in the details.

I have an upper front implant that was very complicated due to the need to do grafting to repair abscess damage. My process took 24 months start to finish, not an $888 job.
by investingdad
Fri Feb 23, 2024 9:48 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: College cheating, what would you do?
Replies: 64
Views: 4357

Re: College cheating, what would you do?

She already recognizes that reporting her could come back and bite her. But she’s brought it up several times to me because it really irritates her, which I completely understand. She’s having her eyes opened to the reality of lying and cheating for the purpose of self advancement, something I’m happy to say she has not learned or seen from my wife or I.
by investingdad
Fri Feb 23, 2024 8:57 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: College cheating, what would you do?
Replies: 64
Views: 4357

College cheating, what would you do?

My daughter is in her freshman year of college at a Big Ten university. She’s on a partial academic scholarship and is doing very well academically. Her living/dorm situation has been a toxic mess and we’ll be relieved when she can finally get away from the current roommate. Which brings me to the point of my post. My daughter has become aware that her roommate cheats….and not just cheat, blatantly cheats. She apparently has been using ChatGPT (the AI tool) to compose ALL of her papers this semester. All of them. She even discussed it over the phone when ChatGPT was returning nonsense data. She has also used it to complete remote exams. My daughter has overheard her discussing this multiple times with various people. She has gone from disbe...
by investingdad
Fri Feb 23, 2024 6:38 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!
Replies: 377
Views: 84482

Re: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!

I’m calling it out. I'd accept it without saying a word. I'd call that in most of the time because if it's close (if I don't see a gap) I'm calling it in (And probably say "nice shot!"). We're not playing for money here. It's supposed to be fun. I like the idea of "pickleball justice" (or karma) someone mentioned before. When people call that out, I accept it, and then they screw up the serve or the return next shot and I think "Yep, you felt guilty for calling that out" We regularly play with people that call balls out that are in by the rule book … we just agree they have decided they aren’t following the written rules for some reason. I assume it’s in order to try to win. Life is like that. The example that...
by investingdad
Fri Feb 23, 2024 5:56 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!
Replies: 377
Views: 84482

Re: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!

HomerJ wrote: Thu Feb 22, 2024 11:20 pm
investingdad wrote: Thu Feb 22, 2024 9:07 pm I’m calling it out.
I'd accept it without saying a word.

I'd call that in most of the time because if it's close (if I don't see a gap) I'm calling it in (And probably say "nice shot!"). We're not playing for money here. It's supposed to be fun.

I like the idea of "pickleball justice" (or karma) someone mentioned before.

When people call that out, I accept it, and then they screw up the serve or the return next shot and I think "Yep, you felt guilty for calling that out"
PB justice is real, same phenomenon in tennis.

But I won’t feel guilty on that particular call. :D
by investingdad
Thu Feb 22, 2024 9:07 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!
Replies: 377
Views: 84482

Re: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!

The official PB rules are happily clear on how to handle line calls. You don't call a ball "out" unless you can *clearly* see space between the line and the ball as it bounces. If one player on a team sees it out, and the other player on the team sees it in, then "doubt exists" and team's call is in. It depends on what you mean by "clearly". Here's an explanation with a picture: Basics - Judging Ball "In" or "Out" | USA Pickleball https://usapickleball.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/in-or-out1.jpg From: USA-Pickleball-Official-Rulebook-2024-v1.pdf , page 31. The first two sentences are what I go by. 6.C.3. The opponent gets the benefit of the doubt on line calls made. Any ball that cannot b...
by investingdad
Thu Feb 22, 2024 6:18 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!
Replies: 377
Views: 84482

Re: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!

The official PB rules are happily clear on how to handle line calls. You don't call a ball "out" unless you can *clearly* see space between the line and the ball as it bounces. If one player on a team sees it out, and the other player on the team sees it in, then "doubt exists" and team's call is in. It depends on what you mean by "clearly". Here's an explanation with a picture: Basics - Judging Ball "In" or "Out" | USA Pickleball https://usapickleball.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/in-or-out1.jpg From: USA-Pickleball-Official-Rulebook-2024-v1.pdf , page 31. The first two sentences are what I go by. 6.C.3. The opponent gets the benefit of the doubt on line calls made. Any ball that cannot b...
by investingdad
Thu Feb 22, 2024 4:33 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!
Replies: 377
Views: 84482

Re: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!

I’m convinced there’s a phenomenon in pickleball where some people have this idea you’re supposed to play a certain way and when you don’t they get irritated. This seems especially true when PB players who have never played tennis encounter former tennis players. I doubt it is a "former tennis player" thing. I figure every PB venue on the planet has a bunch of former (and current!) tennis players. They are literally everywhere. If your tennis methods mean your team always wins, then you are just better than the other players and should seek out stronger competition. If your team does not always win, then perhaps there are pickleballisms to consider. Sometimes a dink IS the right shot. I do run into some PB players that labor unde...
by investingdad
Thu Feb 22, 2024 4:27 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!
Replies: 377
Views: 84482

Re: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!

One area which limits my ability to improve is that I constantly return shots that are going out of bounds. If I can reach for it, I'll return the shot. Every time. The more experienced players tell me not to do that. They're right, because the play continues and we'll lose the point. So, exercise control and don't hit the ball when you know it's going out. Agree with line calls, tough at times. Where I play if we are not certain, most say "in". Letting balls fly: What really helps with this, is having court position awareness. I played open play last night, and my partner absolutely killed us with not letting balls go, he was fully aware of what he was doing but just couldn't resist trying to return every shot. Frustrating. :ann...
by investingdad
Thu Feb 22, 2024 4:25 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!
Replies: 377
Views: 84482

Re: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!

LadyGeek wrote: Thu Feb 22, 2024 3:20 pm One area which limits my ability to improve is that I constantly return shots that are going out of bounds. If I can reach for it, I'll return the shot. Every time.

The more experienced players tell me not to do that. They're right, because the play continues and we'll lose the point. So, exercise control and don't hit the ball when you know it's going out.
Court awareness takes time. There is no substitution for experience on the court.

I’ve found that a lot of people don’t have a good sense of line awareness and ball flight anticipation. This is where tennis experience really helps a lot because it’s a skill that’s already been developed.
by investingdad
Wed Feb 21, 2024 9:15 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!
Replies: 377
Views: 84482

Re: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!

My experience above was in open play. Where I play also has times for just beginner, just intermediate, and just advanced. I can only make the open play and I try to gravitate to the strongest court.

I’m 50, not 20. Some guy my age whining about hitting the ball too hard? Come on, man. It’s open play and it’s not like I got 30 years on you.
by investingdad
Wed Feb 21, 2024 8:46 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!
Replies: 377
Views: 84482

Re: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!

I’m convinced there’s a phenomenon in pickleball where some people have this idea you’re supposed to play a certain way and when you don’t they get irritated.

This seems especially true when PB players who have never played tennis encounter former tennis players.
by investingdad
Wed Feb 21, 2024 5:26 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!
Replies: 377
Views: 84482

Re: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!

If I’m moving to the kitchen at the time the opposing team returns serve I’m watching the returner the whole way. It’s not difficult to: -anticipate the shot type based on body position and swing motion -change course and move back …especially if you’re moving with your body not fully square to the net. PB courts are not that big. I’ve also observed that a lot of players don’t understand how to run down and return lobs. I also have trouble with lobs -- a table tennis background not tennis. Not uncommon. In the faster games, it's rare for the partner of the server to advance much on serve. The serve is deep (or should be) and the return deep (the return doesn't even have to be that fast ... just deep). If the return of serve is clearly shor...
by investingdad
Wed Feb 21, 2024 3:22 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!
Replies: 377
Views: 84482

Re: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!

If I’m moving to the kitchen at the time the opposing team returns serve I’m watching the returner the whole way. It’s not difficult to:

-anticipate the shot type based on body position and swing motion
-change course and move back

…especially if you’re moving with your body not fully square to the net.

PB courts are not that big.

I’ve also observed that a lot of players don’t understand how to run down and return lobs.
by investingdad
Wed Feb 21, 2024 2:58 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!
Replies: 377
Views: 84482

Re: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!

I’m moving to the kitchen as soon as my partner serves but he didn’t have time to get there on my third shot? Not understanding at all. You cannot move to the kitchen "as soon as your partner serves". You have to hang back when your partner serves, due to two bounce rule. And yes, he didn't have time to get to kitchen on your third shot. If you are firing away your third shot against good players, they are both at the net, and they can easily handle your drive. Your partner will not have time to get to the net before your opponent returns your drive. But there are more reasons not to drive your third shot. Unless you are extremely skillful and consistent, your opponent will put away any shots you make that don't just barely clear...
by investingdad
Wed Feb 21, 2024 9:27 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!
Replies: 377
Views: 84482

Re: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!

I ran into a guy during open play at the one location I attend that took issue with my tennis approach. Not only did he have comments when he played against me, he had comments while we were paired up. I’m hitting too hard from the baseline and need to drop shot. Uh, ok. I hit return of serve hard and rush the kitchen line and I hit the third shot hard and rush the kitchen line. I’m not standing on the baseline hitting ground strokes. He also complained that my third shot drive was too fast and not giving him enough time to get to the net. Third shot! I’m moving to the kitchen as soon as my partner serves but he didn’t have time to get there on my third shot? I play with two different groups and there are some people that really seem to not...
by investingdad
Fri Feb 16, 2024 9:00 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Any recommendation of a book that chronicles the downward spiral of an ordinary person
Replies: 102
Views: 9242

Re: Any recommendation of a book that chronicles the downward spiral of an ordinary person

Not a book, but both Breaking Bad and Better Call Saul feature main characters whose slow burn descent into a downward spiral destroy the lives of everyone around them.
by investingdad
Fri Feb 09, 2024 8:42 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Best & Worst "Mid-Life Crisis" expenditures
Replies: 129
Views: 24368

Re: Best & Worst "Mid-Life Crisis" expenditures

We have a Jura fully automatic. It’s the best. My wife and I make at least 4 cups daily and mine are always doubles. This is going to be our splurge this year. Probably either an E8 or Z10, or the S8 if it gets updated before we're ready to buy. As for the thread topic, last year I bought the modern version of a car I've been lusting after since I was a teenager. It cost just slightly more--in nominal dollars--than my last three vehicles combined. :shock: But we're doing well (just crossed a major investment milestone last month), I enjoy it and am keeping it forever. We have a previous generation E8. It replaced our original Jura of similar model that made it it through over 12,000 servings. Not sure what this one is up to but it’s a wond...
by investingdad
Tue Feb 06, 2024 8:33 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Best & Worst "Mid-Life Crisis" expenditures
Replies: 129
Views: 24368

Re: Best & Worst "Mid-Life Crisis" expenditures

I don’t think at 50 I’ve had a midlife crisis.

But for my 50th birthday I bought myself a Tissot automatic watch. I was never a watch person and it was on a whim. I now wear it everyday and absolutely love it; a $550 purchase. I may buy myself a Longines as well , maybe at 60. I can’t believe I typed “60”… cripes.

Not midlife crisis but midlife…accomplishment? A few months ago at age 50 I mustered the courage to perform in public for the first time with my small string ensemble class, well documented on another thread.
by investingdad
Tue Feb 06, 2024 8:28 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Best & Worst "Mid-Life Crisis" expenditures
Replies: 129
Views: 24368

Re: Best & Worst "Mid-Life Crisis" expenditures

Explore new ways to make coffee: https://www.bogleheads.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=419809 A good espresso machine, a grinder, and freshly roasted beans is a game changer if you drink coffee. And, you can even justify it financially if you are paying $4-$6 daily for your fancy coffee drink. Or, a good machine, grinder, and freshly roasted beans (complete with a roaster)... Along with 4-6 a day for (not) fancy coffee :mrgreen: I had a bunch of money on crate and barrel gift cards. Bought a nice jura. The coffee is great. I’m not sure that I taste the difference enough that the machine was worth it. But I had family staying with me and everyone said this is the best coffee they ever had. So there is no longer any temptation to go to Starbucks ...
by investingdad
Fri Jan 19, 2024 1:02 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!
Replies: 377
Views: 84482

Re: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!

I wouldn’t hit the panic button just yet. I would agree. You'd be surprised what can be done while playing with a medical limitations. Without going into details, I play with lots of people with various injuries (my knee was replaced last year). In fact, it's a great opening line to meet someone. All we talk about is medical problems. :) Ha! Yep. Nearly all our guys are retirees. Back issues, broken arms, hip replacements and hernias. The latest is an upcoming double knee replacement. Appreciate the feeling of optimism and agree on touch shots. The speed up and power forehands are what have me conerned the most. Hoping I can (literally) pick up a paddle in 6 weeks. In the mean time, the edema and early PT will be my seesaw of pain. Cheers!...
by investingdad
Fri Jan 19, 2024 9:10 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!
Replies: 377
Views: 84482

Re: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!

Been playing for 1.5 years. Am totally addicted an play as much as my work and family time allow. 3.5 player. My father and his neighbor both have a court and we play for 2hrs at a time. I am usually playing with guys 20yrs older than I, with some obvious advantages, but the socialization is the biggest benefit. I love playing. I find the biggest discerning elements of play that limit player ability are 1) (not) playing as a team (moving up and back for offense/defense) 2) "setting your partner up" to get drilled in the shins and 3) not learning third shot drop and/or giving yourself time to get to the kitchen to neutralize the point. (100% "bangers"). I was looking forward to 2024, then fractured my right (dominant) wr...
by investingdad
Wed Jan 17, 2024 8:46 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!
Replies: 377
Views: 84482

Re: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!

Since starting pickleball I’ve had injury after injury, none related to falls: strained Achilles (6 months of tough rehab), pulled hamstring (3 months) and tennis elbow (8 months). As a 67 yo former college tennis player and part time tennis instructor in good shape, the most surprising injury was tennis elbow but I think all the injuries were age related. I decided to go to a physiatrist, we had a good talk about what exercises were appropriate to extend my tennis and pickleball career and I worked with a trainer to measure and improve muscle strength, flexibility and the ratio of strength between certain muscle groups (for example calf to hamstring). Knock on wood, I feel great and haven’t had an injury since. Best, As I think about it, ...
by investingdad
Fri Jan 12, 2024 5:35 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!
Replies: 377
Views: 84482

Re: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!

When I teed off on PB shots, I was aiming down the line or trying to split my opponents…hitting at them seemed to easy to defend. As long as the ball was hitting on the same line as their feet it wasn’t coming back. I hit a few passing shot winners down the line on the opponents forehand side that felt wonderful, huge topspin just pulls that PB right down to the ground. Actually, my understanding is that when both are at the non volley line, hitting directly towards the shoulder of your opponent's playing hand is considered a good tactic. Not enough time to move the body, and awkward to return. Not appropriate if your opponent is a low level rec. player who is uncomfortable with hard shots in their direction, but a lot of rec. players now ...
by investingdad
Fri Jan 12, 2024 8:05 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!
Replies: 377
Views: 84482

Re: Who's up for pickleball? Zero-zero-two. Game On!

When I teed off on PB shots, I was aiming down the line or trying to split my opponents…hitting at them seemed to easy to defend. As long as the ball was hitting on the same line as their feet it wasn’t coming back. I hit a few passing shot winners down the line on the opponents forehand side that felt wonderful, huge topspin just pulls that PB right down to the ground. Actually, my understanding is that when both are at the non volley line, hitting directly towards the shoulder of your opponent's playing hand is considered a good tactic. Not enough time to move the body, and awkward to return. Not appropriate if your opponent is a low level rec. player who is uncomfortable with hard shots in their direction, but a lot of rec. players now ...
by investingdad
Wed Jan 10, 2024 11:22 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Learning Violin as an adult? 7 years, new recording
Replies: 350
Views: 60008

Re: Learning Violin as an adult? 7 years, new recording

It's amazing what will freeze up and when. I am fine with public speaking, but playing music is so much more nerve-wracking for me. When I have been able to control this, it has usually involved "bringing on" the nerves early -- sort of anticipating the shock and getting used to it, then walking out calm because I'm ready for it. Again, something you can practice, but it's funny and unpredictable sometimes. Ovation! Loved your playing! Freezing up is the out of control ego diminishing you of course. I’m also learning how to deal with this. My teacher has given me a few tips. Before playing stand up tall and straight and spend some time feeling the neck, shoulders arms and fingers fully relax. Move your head around and put your au...
by investingdad
Wed Jan 10, 2024 9:02 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Learning Violin as an adult? 7 years, new recording
Replies: 350
Views: 60008

Re: Learning Violin as an adult? 7 years, new recording

When performing on violin, I have found it helpful to start with something fast-paced (e.g., Allegro) to give the initial burst of adrenaline that leads to shaky bow a chance to calm down. Professional musicians sometimes take a dose of propranolol about 30 min before getting on stage to reduce the jitters that can really be evident when performing on a stringed instument. Your sequence suggestion makes a lot of sense. Unfortunately the instructor elected to start with the slow piece that’s also more technically challenging. We should have started with the easier, upbeat holiday medley to cover the jitters and build confidence. My violin teacher also mentioned a beta blocker and admitted she’s used them a few a times when it was an importa...
by investingdad
Wed Jan 10, 2024 8:00 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Learning Violin as an adult? 7 years, new recording
Replies: 350
Views: 60008

Re: Learning Violin as an adult? 7 years, new recording

When performing on violin, I have found it helpful to start with something fast-paced (e.g., Allegro) to give the initial burst of adrenaline that leads to shaky bow a chance to calm down. Professional musicians sometimes take a dose of propranolol about 30 min before getting on stage to reduce the jitters that can really be evident when performing on a stringed instument. Your sequence suggestion makes a lot of sense. Unfortunately the instructor elected to start with the slow piece that’s also more technically challenging. We should have started with the easier, upbeat holiday medley to cover the jitters and build confidence. My violin teacher also mentioned a beta blocker and admitted she’s used them a few a times when it was an importa...
by investingdad
Wed Jan 10, 2024 7:59 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Learning Violin as an adult? 7 years, new recording
Replies: 350
Views: 60008

Re: Learning Violin as an adult? 7 years, new recording

It's amazing what will freeze up and when. I am fine with public speaking, but playing music is so much more nerve-wracking for me. When I have been able to control this, it has usually involved "bringing on" the nerves early -- sort of anticipating the shock and getting used to it, then walking out calm because I'm ready for it. Again, something you can practice, but it's funny and unpredictable sometimes. Ovation! Loved your playing! Freezing up is the out of control ego diminishing you of course. I’m also learning how to deal with this. My teacher has given me a few tips. Before playing stand up tall and straight and spend some time feeling the neck, shoulders arms and fingers fully relax. Move your head around and put your au...
by investingdad
Tue Jan 09, 2024 11:43 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Learning Violin as an adult? 7 years, new recording
Replies: 350
Views: 60008

Re: Learning Violin as an adult? 7 years, new recording

I've been following this for all 7 years (yikes!), and I'm so happy you're still at it and still posting about it. You've received some good new data about your response to public performance -- that's a good thing to know about yourself. Just as you can study and practice to get "substantively" better at the instrument, you can study and practice to get "procedurally" (?) better at the performance aspect. There are plenty of things you can do to affect your reaction to nerves, especially pre-performance routines. Congrats on sticking with it. This has been fun to be a very remote bystander to. The funny thing about this is that for my megacorp job I often present to large groups of colleagues, do client technical prese...
by investingdad
Tue Jan 09, 2024 11:41 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Learning Violin as an adult? 7 years, new recording
Replies: 350
Views: 60008

Re: Learning Violin as an adult? 7 years, new recording

I've been following this for all 7 years (yikes!), and I'm so happy you're still at it and still posting about it. You've received some good new data about your response to public performance -- that's a good thing to know about yourself. Just as you can study and practice to get "substantively" better at the instrument, you can study and practice to get "procedurally" (?) better at the performance aspect. There are plenty of things you can do to affect your reaction to nerves, especially pre-performance routines. Congrats on sticking with it. This has been fun to be a very remote bystander to. The funny thing about this is that for my megacorp job I often present to large groups of colleagues, do client technical prese...
by investingdad
Tue Jan 09, 2024 8:36 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Learning Violin as an adult? 7 years, new recording
Replies: 350
Views: 60008

Re: Learning Violin as an adult? 7 years, new recording

I've been following this for all 7 years (yikes!), and I'm so happy you're still at it and still posting about it. You've received some good new data about your response to public performance -- that's a good thing to know about yourself. Just as you can study and practice to get "substantively" better at the instrument, you can study and practice to get "procedurally" (?) better at the performance aspect. There are plenty of things you can do to affect your reaction to nerves, especially pre-performance routines. Congrats on sticking with it. This has been fun to be a very remote bystander to. The funny thing about this is that for my megacorp job I often present to large groups of colleagues, do client technical prese...
by investingdad
Mon Jan 08, 2024 9:25 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Learning Violin as an adult? 7 years, new recording
Replies: 350
Views: 60008

Re: Learning Violin as an adult? 7 years, new recording

I've been following this for all 7 years (yikes!), and I'm so happy you're still at it and still posting about it. You've received some good new data about your response to public performance -- that's a good thing to know about yourself. Just as you can study and practice to get "substantively" better at the instrument, you can study and practice to get "procedurally" (?) better at the performance aspect. There are plenty of things you can do to affect your reaction to nerves, especially pre-performance routines. Congrats on sticking with it. This has been fun to be a very remote bystander to. Thanks for the responses over the duration! I think there’s a BH analogy to investing to be made. I possess no special musical ...
by investingdad
Mon Jan 08, 2024 9:17 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Learning Violin as an adult? 7 years, new recording
Replies: 350
Views: 60008

Re: Learning Violin as an adult? 7 Years later, played publicly!

Sandtrap wrote: Mon Jan 08, 2024 8:52 am
investingdad wrote: Mon Jan 08, 2024 8:20 am I don’t love this recording of Greensleeves but I’ll use it to mark seven years of playing. This is the violin 1 part of a nice duet version, hence the loss of melody during the middle bit.

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1hy84IC ... p=drivesdk
Very nice.
You've come a long way learning a difficult instrument.
:sharebeer
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Thanks, I appreciate the feedback!
by investingdad
Mon Jan 08, 2024 8:20 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Learning Violin as an adult? 7 years, new recording
Replies: 350
Views: 60008

Re: Learning Violin as an adult? 7 Years later, played publicly!

I don’t love this recording of Greensleeves but I’ll use it to mark seven years of playing. This is the violin 1 part of a nice duet version, hence the loss of melody during the middle bit.

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1hy84IC ... p=drivesdk
by investingdad
Wed Jan 03, 2024 9:38 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Boglehead minimalist watch suggestions
Replies: 41
Views: 4563

Re: Boglehead minimalist watch suggestions

I bought myself a Tissot Classic Dream automatic with silver dial last summer. Not a minimalist face but very clean look.

https://www.tissotwatches.com/en-us/t1294101103100.html

The link goes to the quartz movement version…
by investingdad
Wed Jan 03, 2024 7:46 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Who is your favorite classical composer?
Replies: 156
Views: 13351

Re: Who is your favorite classical composer?

Too many wonderful pieces out there, but this one by Bach as played by Hillary Hahn is fantastic…

https://youtu.be/PZoaEmxrsZQ?si=RhKlG80QX5KfemDc
by investingdad
Tue Jan 02, 2024 8:14 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Learning Violin as an adult? 7 years, new recording
Replies: 350
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Re: Learning Violin as an adult?

With 2024 now here I’ve crossed the 7 year mark on my violin adventure.

I will post a new recording in the next day or so but the end of 2023 marked a major personal milestone…I played publicly for the first time. It wasn’t the best I’d ever played but it also was not the worst. Definitely nervous throughout but finished well.

It was for the adult string ensemble class I joined and the audience was bigger than I’d expected.

Even though I came away feeling like I could have played a lot better without the nerves getting in the way it left me wanting to play publicly again. That’s a big personal win.
by investingdad
Sat Nov 25, 2023 2:13 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Advice for a budding electrical engineer
Replies: 134
Views: 16914

Re: Advice for a budding electrical engineer

Keep in mind that engineering is math, math, and more math, so know that to get engineering degree requires being comfortable doing lots of math for pretty much every class. If I remember correctly at my school completing an aerospace engineering degree was only like 1-2 classes away from being a double major in math. I graduated about 15 years ago with a mechanical engineering degree. I actually didn't take calculus in high school, which meant I had to take two semesters of math (trigonometry and precalculus I think) classes that didn't count towards my degree and then take calculus 1 and calculus 2 the summer after my freshman year to catch up with the engineering curriculum. And mathematically speaking anyway, that was probably the easy...
by investingdad
Fri Nov 24, 2023 7:24 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Advice for a budding electrical engineer
Replies: 134
Views: 16914

Re: Advice for a budding electrical engineer

Is your intention to send your son to this "local technical high school"? What are their math and science course offerings? Yes we are considering applying. It is competitive to get in but it seems worth it. When he enjoys what he's doing, he is all-in. I can tell it's worth it to attend this tech school especially for trades like plumbing, electrical, as students earn a journeyman license by graduation time. The automotive program prepares students for entry level tech jobs in the industry. Looking at their website, I see Math Mathematics 1, Algebra, Geometry, then Algebra 2, Geometry 2, and Precalculus by grade 11, Algebra III/Trigonometry, Advanced Placement Calculus AB – Grade 12 And for Science Biology 1 and 2, AP Biology, C...
by investingdad
Thu Nov 23, 2023 4:47 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Advice for a budding electrical engineer
Replies: 134
Views: 16914

Re: Advice for a budding electrical engineer

I'll add another vote to be very skeptical of the technical school. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a technical education and a vocation that can pay extremely well while offering rewarding hands on work, but professional engineering is very different. Just, don't make the mistake of associating "technical" with "technology," if that makes any sense. I’ll second this, I know exactly what you’re getting at. And that’s not a cut on technical vocations in the least, there’s a lot of money to be made there. But degreed engineers more often than not aren’t the ones doing the wrenching. In college, yes…chances to do that. But day to day engineering not so much. That’s not good or bad, just something to be aware of.
by investingdad
Thu Nov 23, 2023 1:09 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Advice for a budding electrical engineer
Replies: 134
Views: 16914

Re: Advice for a budding electrical engineer

As a fellow ME, at my university, we used to have a saying about all the EE folks... "You can't spell GEEK without a double E!" :) As a ChemE, we simply looked down on everyone. :) Didn't realize y'all were even in the race :mrgreen: That’s because we finished while the rest of you were fighting over second. :) LOL! Good one! Jokes aside, how did your (and your cohorts) career in Chemical Engineering turn out? I was always curious about that field as it seemed so unique in comparison to other engineering programs. Probably no different than any other engineer working for a megacorp. If you’re a ChemE it’s probably best to be on the Gulf Coast (I’m not) but I landed at a decent company. No regrets with the major.
by investingdad
Thu Nov 23, 2023 9:39 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Advice for a budding electrical engineer
Replies: 134
Views: 16914

Re: Advice for a budding electrical engineer

I am a mechanical engineer, so way cooler than all of the EEs . I have been doing it for 26 years all in manufacturing plants where we have ME and EE. In my experience, college choice doesn’t matter. Get a degree and the jobs will follow. Getting a good internship really helps. At my current job, we have engineers from state schools, private schools, and one that got a full ride to MIT, and one that doesn’t have a degree! Once you get experience working, nobody cares about your degree….at least in my area. He needs to be prepared to work hard in college. It not easy unless he is a genius. Math is obviously huge, but any summer jobs in the electrical field would be a big help in my experience. The more he knows, especially hands on experien...
by investingdad
Wed Nov 22, 2023 5:12 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Advice for a budding electrical engineer
Replies: 134
Views: 16914

Re: Advice for a budding electrical engineer

I am a mechanical engineer, so way cooler than all of the EEs . I have been doing it for 26 years all in manufacturing plants where we have ME and EE. In my experience, college choice doesn’t matter. Get a degree and the jobs will follow. Getting a good internship really helps. At my current job, we have engineers from state schools, private schools, and one that got a full ride to MIT, and one that doesn’t have a degree! Once you get experience working, nobody cares about your degree….at least in my area. He needs to be prepared to work hard in college. It not easy unless he is a genius. Math is obviously huge, but any summer jobs in the electrical field would be a big help in my experience. The more he knows, especially hands on experien...
by investingdad
Tue Nov 21, 2023 8:26 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Advice for a budding electrical engineer
Replies: 134
Views: 16914

Re: Advice for a budding electrical engineer

For engineers who can talk with others (engineers will know what I mean), there are jobs in field sales and field applications. Some companies actually require engineering degrees for their sales people. I worked in design and in field applications. This is exactly what I was alluding to in my own post about considering going non technical later in the career. My employer is heavily staffed with engineers as part of our core business. Many of the best and most talented ones are an absolute disaster trying to talk in front of our own senior and executive leadership, let alone external clients. There are careers to be had for engineers that can easily speak in front of clients, small audiences, and convey complex topics in simple terms. I sh...
by investingdad
Tue Nov 21, 2023 7:19 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Advice for a budding electrical engineer
Replies: 134
Views: 16914

Re: Advice for a budding electrical engineer

Any State U with a good engineering school will be fine. If a Bachelors degree is the goal there’s no need to attend an elite university. A good career can be had with this alone as the washout rate of engineering majors in college is very high. Even if an advanced degrees is engineering is the goal a State U will be fine. Don’t bother with a Masters, either PhD or BS. Which brings me to… He should already be on the accelerated math track. It will be essential that he take calculus and physics while still in high school. If he performs poorly in calculus in HS I would reconsider if engineering is the right track. It’s not that engineers love calculus but rather that calculus is an essential tool in most engineering courses. If calculus in h...