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- Sat Jun 22, 2019 2:09 pm
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: Suggestion for updating "Asking Portfolio Questions" thread
- Replies: 260
- Views: 27082
Re: Suggestion for updating "Asking Portfolio Questions" thread
Hi all, I would like to kindly request that you revisit the gendered pronoun language present in the template. I do personally find it offensive. It is 2019: my marriage license used the terms “Spouse A” and “Spouse B” and so many bathrooms in my city are now gender neutral. I don’t see why we need...
- Sat Jun 22, 2019 9:44 am
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: Suggestion for updating "Asking Portfolio Questions" thread
- Replies: 260
- Views: 27082
Re: Suggestion for updating "Asking Portfolio Questions" thread
Hi all, I would like to kindly request that you revisit the gendered pronoun language present in the template. I do personally find it offensive. It is 2019: my marriage license used the terms “Spouse A” and “Spouse B” and so many bathrooms in my city are now gender neutral. I don’t see why we need ...
- Mon Jun 10, 2019 9:00 pm
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: Update:High interest ARM extra payment vs. 401K...yes another one
- Replies: 22
- Views: 1106
Re: High interest ARM extra payment vs. 401K...yes another one
Refinancing would be ideal, but it might be tricky to find a lender that will do so at a reasonable cost when your mortgage balance is under $100,000. Worth a try if you can find one though. I wouldn’t pay a fee to recast this mortgage since that essentially happens once a year when the rate adjusts...
- Sat Jun 08, 2019 2:08 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: No term life on a visa?
- Replies: 24
- Views: 2588
Re: No term life on a visa?
Does your employer offer life insurance for spouses? That could be worth checking if it doesn’t have this restriction.
- Tue May 14, 2019 10:54 am
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Is my 2018 W2 wrong? Mismatch on last paystub
- Replies: 4
- Views: 288
Re: Is my 2018 W2 wrong? Mismatch on last paystub
HSA or FSA contributions, medical, dental, vision premiums would all count to reduce Social Security and Medicare wages. Also, in 2018, you didn't pay Social Security tax beyond $128,400 of income. You do pay Social Security tax on 401(k) contributions though.
- Sun May 12, 2019 9:55 am
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Delinquent tax filing - how to account for carryover losses?
- Replies: 14
- Views: 834
Re: Delinquent tax filing - how to account for carryover losses?
Have you looked at what it takes to fill out a 1040X? No, but I assumed it was even more of a pain than doing a regular 1040. Anything more than using TurboTax to file electronically gives me nightmares. I also don’t understand how it works conceptually . For example, do I first fill out and submit...
- Tue Apr 23, 2019 9:43 am
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: At a crossroads on how much to put down towards new home
- Replies: 32
- Views: 2594
Re: At a crossroads on how much to put down towards new home
My spouse and I were struggling with this recently. We live in a different state from you and are buying a $1.4M place. We ended up deciding to put 30% down from index funds and cash and then we will reinvest the proceeds from our apartment once it’s sold back into our Vanguard taxable. Why did we c...
- Sat Apr 20, 2019 8:13 pm
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Advice on non warrantable condo in Bellingham
- Replies: 17
- Views: 1714
Re: Advice on non warrantable condo in Bellingham
I am surprised that one owner can capture the HOA. My condo association has 350-400 units. There are 14 board member - 1 for each of 7 buildings. The president and treasurer come from members of the board. These individuals don’t have total control of money. All members should have copies of the bu...
- Wed Mar 20, 2019 12:13 am
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Should I refinance?
- Replies: 16
- Views: 1728
Re: Should I refinance?
I would just take Option 1 in case you want to refinance again. A no cost refinance always wins out.
- Wed Mar 20, 2019 12:10 am
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Which Mortgage/Refinance Loan would you choose?
- Replies: 12
- Views: 886
Re: Which Mortgage/Refinance Loan would you choose?
I would not do a cash out refi. So, option 1! Looks like it would break even in terms of interest costs after just under a year since you would save ~$2,175/year in interest over your current mortgage.
- Thu Mar 14, 2019 8:59 am
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: HCE: What to expect when having to pay tax on excess 401k contributions
- Replies: 17
- Views: 3093
- Thu Jan 31, 2019 10:11 pm
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: Should we simplify our accounts, and are we grossly mishandling our retirement plan?
- Replies: 12
- Views: 1390
- Tue Jan 29, 2019 9:53 pm
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: Balancing LTCG tax hit v. getting out of high ER funds in taxable
- Replies: 7
- Views: 548
Re: Balancing LTCG tax hit v. getting out of high ER funds in taxable
Do you donate regularly? Have you considered donating some of these older funds? That would avoid the capital gains to get rid of these older funds.
- Fri Jan 25, 2019 8:11 pm
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: Documenting Savings Bonds for home purchase
- Replies: 1
- Views: 270
Documenting Savings Bonds for home purchase
I have bought Series I Savings Bonds regularly over the last six years, so I have several purchases. My spouse and I are buying a new house soon and I'm trying to figure out how to document them so that I don't have to transfer them in before the statement periods we will show the mortgage lender. I...
- Thu Nov 29, 2018 7:46 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: 2nd marriages - any debt or credit implications
- Replies: 4
- Views: 692
Re: 2nd marriages - any debt or credit implications
Possibly! It sounds like a prenup or at least the discussions of one and its process could help them.
- Wed Nov 14, 2018 11:38 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Wait, do I need a prenup?
- Replies: 63
- Views: 7880
Re: Wait, do I need a prenup?
I found it to be impossible to keep the gains on pre-marital 401(k) balances separate property per our state law, so we ended up keeping retirement accounts entirely separate in our agreement. I care less about the current balance and more about the growth on that balance over 30 years because assum...
- Wed Oct 03, 2018 10:02 pm
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: What's the best method for immediately selling off my ESPP shares?
- Replies: 25
- Views: 2585
Re: What's the best method for immediately selling off my ESPP shares?
I always calculated the minimum share price to not end up with a loss after commissions and did a limit order for that. Why did I not want a loss? I often had new shares being purchased within 30 days and didn’t want to end up with a wash sale. Why is a wash sale a problem? I mean, I see why you wa...
- Sun Sep 30, 2018 10:02 am
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: What's the best method for immediately selling off my ESPP shares?
- Replies: 25
- Views: 2585
Re: What's the best method for immediately selling off my ESPP shares?
I always calculated the minimum share price to not end up with a loss after commissions and did a limit order for that. Why did I not want a loss? I often had new shares being purchased within 30 days and didn’t want to end up with a wash sale.
- Fri Aug 24, 2018 9:48 pm
- Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
- Topic: Pay off mortgage with 5.12% interest rate?
- Replies: 12
- Views: 981
Re: Pay off mortgage with 5.12% interest rate?
I would either refinance or pay it off. We recently refinanced with Third Federal to a new ARM and got a good rate.
- Sat Aug 04, 2018 12:28 am
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: HDHP vs PPO with Family Planning
- Replies: 16
- Views: 1558
Re: HDHP vs PPO with Family Planning
Not all HDHPs are the same. I would review carefully. Ours has a $3,000 family deductible, a $3,000 individual out of pocket maximum and a $6,000 family out of pocket maximum. So if one person uses all of the services, then you don’t pay anything more once they hit their individual out of pocket max...
- Fri Aug 03, 2018 10:34 am
- Forum: US Chapters
- Topic: Seattle Area Chapter Meetings - Master Thread
- Replies: 185
- Views: 53459
- Mon Jun 25, 2018 12:45 am
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: Mobile deposit of Rollover Check
- Replies: 15
- Views: 1696
Re: Mobile deposit of Rollover Check
I was able to deposit these checks into my Vanguard Roth IRA from my iPhone in 2015 and 2016, if that helps at all.
- Wed Jun 20, 2018 6:49 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: ARM options, thought process
- Replies: 8
- Views: 1058
Re: ARM options, thought process
2022 is a long ways away to really worry about what the rates will look like. We just refinanced into a new 5/1 ARM with Third Federal Bank on a 10 year amortization at 3.09% a few months ago. Our plan is to pay about 1/5 of it each year for the next five years and then it’ll be paid off. That’s the...
- Tue May 15, 2018 2:12 pm
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: Bringing individual assets into joint account
- Replies: 27
- Views: 1773
Re: Bringing individual assets into joint account
One thing I would caution is how the cost basis gets transferred if you move the account from individually titled to jointly titled. I did some similar research this year because my husband transferred some separate shares to my separate taxable account. The cost basis was a huge pain to transfer ov...
- Tue Apr 03, 2018 4:09 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Can I refi and still get a lower rate right now? UPDATE: Bonus HELOC??
- Replies: 31
- Views: 3073
Re: Can I refi and still get a lower rate right now?
Awesome, Tamarind! Hope it works out well for you. We just closed on the same mortgage terms and things went mostly smoothly and quickly. It only took us 5 weeks to close from application. We refinanced from a 5/1 ARM that had just had its first adjustment to 4.125% so we are very happy with the 3....
- Tue Apr 03, 2018 4:02 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Can I refi and still get a lower rate right now? UPDATE: Bonus HELOC??
- Replies: 31
- Views: 3073
Re: Can I refi and still get a lower rate right now?
Awesome, Tamarind! Hope it works out well for you. We just closed on the same mortgage terms and things went mostly smoothly and quickly. It only took us 5 weeks to close from application. We refinanced from a 5/1 ARM that had just had its first adjustment to 4.125% so we are very happy with the 3.0...
- Thu Feb 22, 2018 1:27 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Is a prenup required to establish a list of separate property before marriage?
- Replies: 67
- Views: 4088
Re: Is a prenup required to establish a list of separate property before marriage?
Does anyone want to bite on whether the value of the equity in a house owned by one person before a marriage can be considered separate property in the event of a divorce, if the couple refinanced the house after marriage, resulting in both their names ending up in the deed? If a prenup doesn't hel...
- Tue Feb 20, 2018 12:22 am
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Third Federal Mortgage experience
- Replies: 7
- Views: 1806
Re: Third Federal Mortgage experience
Thanks tenkuky! Hope it works out for us. I do plan to ask our current lender if they will match Third Federal’s terms before we fully commit to the loan, but it seems like a good strategy.
- Mon Feb 19, 2018 4:08 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Third Federal Mortgage experience
- Replies: 7
- Views: 1806
Re: Third Federal Mortgage experience
Do you still have your mortgage with Third Federal? Are you happy with them as a servicer? How has making extra principal payments been? What did they do with the property tax payment they wanted upfront at closing when you aren't escrowing? I noticed that in our application and was a little confus...
- Sun Feb 18, 2018 1:41 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Third Federal Mortgage experience
- Replies: 7
- Views: 1806
Re: Third Federal Mortgage experience
Do you still have your mortgage with Third Federal? Are you happy with them as a servicer? How has making extra principal payments been? What did they do with the property tax payment they wanted upfront at closing when you aren't escrowing? I noticed that in our application and was a little confuse...
- Mon Feb 12, 2018 1:07 am
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Refinance into new ARM or 10 year FRM?
- Replies: 2
- Views: 590
Re: Refinance into new ARM or 10 year FRM?
Nothing extra has been paid to principal in over three years now. I bought the place when my single income was 1/3-1/4 of our now current household income, so the mortgage isn’t nearly as stressful now as it was at the beginning. At 5 years, with the balance around $62,000, we could quite easily pay...
- Sat Feb 10, 2018 6:19 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Refinance into new ARM or 10 year FRM?
- Replies: 2
- Views: 590
Refinance into new ARM or 10 year FRM?
Current mortgage is a 5/1 ARM that recently adjusted from its initial 2.50% to 4.125%. It will continue to adjust every 12 months going forward. 300 months remaining. Balance is ~$115,000. At today's index value, it would reset next to 4.50%. It was a huge shock to go from $240 in interest with Janu...
- Sun Jan 14, 2018 7:42 pm
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: 401K sub-accounts juggling: making sense? actionable?
- Replies: 2
- Views: 513
Re: 401K sub-accounts juggling: making sense? actionable?
I’ve always invested Roth 401(k) funds as I would invest Roth IRA funds and the rest of the 401(k) separately, for this reason. Then when I left that first job, i rolled the Roth 401(k) into my Roth IRA and the Traditional 401(k) portion to my new 401(k).
- Sun Dec 24, 2017 1:45 pm
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: Problem donating VTSAX shares to Schwab Charitable
- Replies: 19
- Views: 1549
Re: Problem donating VTSAX shares to Schwab Charitable
2) Is there any way to avoid having this happen in the future? Should I include an extra note in the Schwab material? Or call Vanguard next time to give them extra instructions? I have a Schwab DAF and I decided just to set up a taxable account at Schwab to make such transfers easier. I transferred...
- Sat Dec 23, 2017 6:17 pm
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: Problem donating VTSAX shares to Schwab Charitable
- Replies: 19
- Views: 1549
Re: Problem donating VTSAX shares to Schwab Charitable
2) Is there any way to avoid having this happen in the future? Should I include an extra note in the Schwab material? Or call Vanguard next time to give them extra instructions? I have a Schwab DAF and I decided just to set up a taxable account at Schwab to make such transfers easier. I transferred...
- Thu Jul 20, 2017 8:44 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: COBRA For 1 Month (?)
- Replies: 11
- Views: 2935
Re: COBRA For 1 Month (?)
You are missing nothing. I would absolutely hold off on enrolling in COBRA. The catch is that if you do have healthcare usage planned, then I would compare the cash cost of the healthcare versus the cost of paying for COBRA and how much it would cost then.
- Wed Jul 05, 2017 8:05 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Retired, RSUs Vesting and Roth IRA contribution
- Replies: 5
- Views: 1144
Re: Retired, RSUs Vesting and Roth IRA contribution
I just recently retired from a Megacorp with a generous policy for retirees relative to RSUs. All of my remaining RSUs will vest on the next regularly scheduled vesting date in 2018. I have a small pension, but no W2 income, and I'm not planning to start SSI for a few more years. I would like to ma...
- Fri Jun 23, 2017 3:14 pm
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: Fees for selling ESPP shares
- Replies: 3
- Views: 843
Re: Fees for selling ESPP shares
At my last ESPP, the selling fee was $7.95, which was pretty reasonable. You should be able to inquire about this information from the custodian.
- Wed May 17, 2017 11:02 am
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Can we afford a 800K house?
- Replies: 52
- Views: 8000
Re: Can we afford a 800K house?
After two weeks in the Seattle housing market - houses listed 600K are bid up to 800K while houses listed at 800K are bid up to 950-$1mil. The house we wanted to buy at $750K had double digit bids and closed at 920K. The next round - we liked a house for 850K went with an offer with escalation till...
- Mon May 15, 2017 11:18 am
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: Medical loans, Roth IRA, 401k and marraige- what to do?
- Replies: 4
- Views: 572
Re: Medical loans, Roth IRA, 401k and marraige- what to do?
If you don't have any non-Roth IRAs, you could always do a https://www.bogleheads.org/wiki/Backdoor_Roth_IRA
- Sat May 13, 2017 1:22 am
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: Please assess our financial situation; grateful for any advice :)
- Replies: 18
- Views: 3334
Re: Please assess our financial situation; grateful for any advice :)
When is your wedding date? If it is in 2017, then you will need to file your taxes as Married for 2017 even if you marry on December 31st.
How much do your RSUs/ESPP/bonus usually add up to? How much do you plan to add to investments this year?
How much do your RSUs/ESPP/bonus usually add up to? How much do you plan to add to investments this year?
- Thu May 04, 2017 12:36 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Multiple HSA accounts - How to handle
- Replies: 4
- Views: 1197
Re: Multiple HSA accounts - How to handle
yes, you can transfer from one to the other. Custodian to custodian is simplest. The banks should have the forms on their website... it's not fast (mine took 6 weeks) but gets done. Consolidate into the most favorable (fees, investment options) If you won't be contributing on your own (if you have ...
- Tue May 02, 2017 2:16 pm
- Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
- Topic: Buying a diamond ring
- Replies: 57
- Views: 7029
Re: Buying a diamond ring
Mine was bought from James Allen and I love it! We got the matching band and the engagement ring for less than a friend spent on just the engagement ring by buying online. One catch is to watch for their return/resizing timeline in case it needs to be adjusted as it isn't an infinite amount of time....
- Sat Apr 22, 2017 12:39 am
- Forum: Personal Investments
- Topic: Reached 50% of my "number" today
- Replies: 20
- Views: 5364
Re: Reached 50% of my "number" today
Congrats! I hit 50% for the first time last spring. I went back under 50% in the summer/fall and haven't quite re-hit 50% again, but that's life and I'm still close 

- Thu Apr 20, 2017 4:02 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Mortgage Recast vs. Investing vs. ??
- Replies: 14
- Views: 2411
Re: Mortgage Recast vs. Investing vs. ??
If the $100k is your pre marriage money then putting it into the mortgage is also commingling it. Personally, I would invest it in an account in just your name if it's your pre marriage money. But others on the forum have different ideas of marriage than I do. So would you invest the full $100k int...
- Thu Apr 20, 2017 10:18 am
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Mortgage Recast vs. Investing vs. ??
- Replies: 14
- Views: 2411
Re: Mortgage Recast vs. Investing vs. ??
If the $100k is your pre marriage money then putting it into the mortgage is also commingling it. Personally, I would invest it in an account in just your name if it's your pre marriage money. But others on the forum have different ideas of marriage than I do.
- Sun Apr 16, 2017 5:29 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Age when you started to max out your retirement accounts?
- Replies: 177
- Views: 34826
Re: Age when you started to max out your retirement accounts?
Maxing out Roth since I was 19 and started co-oping (like an internship) in undergrad. Maxed out 401k for a few years in the early 2000s, but not since then. Partly it's because I'm planning to move from a no-income-tax-state to an income-tax-state, and so I think my tax rate will rise. Partly it's...
- Wed Apr 12, 2017 1:36 pm
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Married filing separately and tax fraud
- Replies: 18
- Views: 2256
Re: Married filing separately and tax fraud
Is this a community property state?
- Sat Apr 01, 2017 10:27 am
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Pay off Massive Student Loan Debt with Mortgage Refi?
- Replies: 46
- Views: 4110
Re: Pay of Massive Student Loan Debt with Mortgage Refi?
If you have enough money in a taxable account to pay off your mortgage, can you do that? Then keep the house in your name as sole and separate property, and that will free up some cash flow to help pay down the debt if you are so inclined. Protect yourself! Don't put the house anywhere at risk, or ...
- Fri Mar 31, 2017 10:04 am
- Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
- Topic: Unemployed for 2-3 days- potential benefits
- Replies: 24
- Views: 2939
Re: Unemployed for 2-3 days- potential benefits
Since income and finances are handled annually... probably not. If you are not insured for those 2 days, don't get sick or hurt! Rolling over any 401k to new employer would have to be done... when you are employed. Why would anyone want to roll their 401k to a new company one? Wouldn't you always w...