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by roymeo
Fri May 18, 2018 6:47 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: how do you tip on wine at a restaurant
Replies: 132
Views: 6975

Re: how do you tip on wine at a restaurant

masonstone wrote:
Fri May 18, 2018 4:49 pm
Food at an expensive restaurant takes more time and effort to make, that is not true for the wine.
Not necessarily. But what's that got to with what I tip my waitron?
by roymeo
Thu May 17, 2018 1:30 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: how do you tip on wine at a restaurant
Replies: 132
Views: 6975

Re: how do you tip on wine at a restaurant

20% on it all. (US, CA, Bay Area)
by roymeo
Thu May 17, 2018 1:27 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Friend says "Stock market will crash, invest in silver" - thoughts?
Replies: 127
Views: 7507

Re: Friend says "Stock market will crash, invest in silver" - thoughts?

Wait, didn't the stock market crash once before? I forget exactly when that was...but your friend's been invested purely in silver ever since, right?
by roymeo
Wed May 09, 2018 6:29 pm
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: AAPL - Great Investment or Value Trap
Replies: 62
Views: 7947

Re: AAPL - Great Investment or Value Trap

Riley15 wrote:
Wed May 09, 2018 8:32 am
roymeo wrote:
Tue May 08, 2018 6:32 pm
Wouldn't paying less than the current market-price for a lot of shares...change the market-price?
Not true! Market prices are only set for shares traded on the open exchanges. Non-open market transactions or transactions between private parties are non directly setting market prices.
Touche!
by roymeo
Tue May 08, 2018 6:32 pm
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: AAPL - Great Investment or Value Trap
Replies: 62
Views: 7947

Re: AAPL - Great Investment or Value Trap

Wouldn't paying less than the current market-price for a lot of shares...change the market-price?
by roymeo
Tue May 01, 2018 10:51 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Daughter and Girlfriend, age 19, taking cross country road trip. Advice?
Replies: 187
Views: 8497

Re: Daughter and Girlfriend, age 19, taking cross country road trip. Advice?

White Coat Investor wrote:
Mon Apr 30, 2018 11:45 pm
roymeo wrote:
Mon Apr 30, 2018 5:46 pm


I'm not sure if the Green Book is still published, but I've been given friendly, unsolicited advice in Utah to keep moving.
What decade was that?
That was late April 2009. We were travelling the country after being laid off within 11 days of each other. (As 30-somethings.)
by roymeo
Fri Apr 27, 2018 11:11 am
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: A different approach to asset allocation
Replies: 1443
Views: 595177

Re: A different approach to asset allocation

whodidntante wrote:
Thu Apr 26, 2018 10:48 pm
What if it had worked?
What if what had worked?
by roymeo
Thu Apr 26, 2018 4:22 pm
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: U.S. stocks in freefall
Replies: 6537
Views: 1401222

Re: U.S. stocks in freefall

Is this now a running commentary?
by roymeo
Wed Apr 11, 2018 5:20 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Am I being unreasonable? [Send daughter to private kindergarten]
Replies: 70
Views: 4110

Re: Am I being unreasonable?

FYI, those discombobulated by the numers: one of my coworkers here in the bay area mentioned something more like $35,000 for a private school for his elementary son (K or first)....and this is in the mean streets of Oakland, not San Francisco.
by roymeo
Tue Apr 10, 2018 11:57 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: KeePass random generator
Replies: 17
Views: 1907

Re: KeePass random generator

Let's look at this from a different perspective. See: Changes in Password Best Practices - Schneier on Security Well, you can find recent security articles on many positions. But try to separate out whether you're talking about what I as a user ought to do to protect myself and have strong password...
by roymeo
Fri Apr 06, 2018 11:50 am
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Small company 401k plans
Replies: 40
Views: 2175

Re: Small company 401k plans

I don't know the fees, but our small company uses Slavik and has Vanguard funds and seems to have reasonable (and transparent) fees.
https://www.slavic401k.com/
by roymeo
Sat Mar 24, 2018 5:22 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Help needed before I go mad :D
Replies: 53
Views: 5380

Re: Help needed before I go mad :D

You've been gambling for 2 years, not investing.
by roymeo
Thu Mar 22, 2018 3:31 pm
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: U.S. stocks in freefall
Replies: 6537
Views: 1401222

Re: U.S. stocks in freefall

Tariffs really under-market-perform.
by roymeo
Fri Feb 23, 2018 1:17 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Review ettiquette
Replies: 24
Views: 2180

Re: Review ettiquette

I'm so glad the companies I work for have moved away from those sort of rigid metrics and intense annual reviews. It sounds like: For the previous year, the employee did not perform at a "meets expectation" level. They had stuff come up that affected their job performance and needed some coaching to...
by roymeo
Tue Feb 13, 2018 9:01 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Net worth progression: what am i doing wrong?
Replies: 32
Views: 7048

Re: Net worth progression: what am i doing wrong?

You're comparing yourself to others with different circumstances.

(And probably have more net-worth than a great deal of many Americans who are years and years older than you.)
by roymeo
Tue Feb 13, 2018 8:19 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Should I claim chapter 7 bankruptcy? debt 110k
Replies: 64
Views: 6901

Re: Should I claim chapter 7 bankruptcy? debt 110k

If a troll, he's playing a long game...asking normalish questions for quite a while.
by roymeo
Mon Feb 12, 2018 2:18 am
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: U.S. stocks in freefall
Replies: 6537
Views: 1401222

Re: U.S. stocks in freefall

Other than the [large] investors covering their losses on volatility instruments*: Why would anyone be SELLING their stocks right now? Or bonds, for that matter? You could surely wait for a better price! Or have sold a few weeks ago! (Which I thought about doing [with a position I am looking to unl...
by roymeo
Wed Feb 07, 2018 11:02 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Financial Hole
Replies: 163
Views: 13987

Re: Financial Hole

There are alternatives to listening to satellite radio that haven',t been mentioned: mp3's? books on tape/cd from library, podcasts, etc.
Though finding the time to find stuff is a possible challenge....but it could earn you $240/year if I read that $20/month right.
by roymeo
Fri Feb 02, 2018 6:23 pm
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: U.S. stocks in freefall
Replies: 6537
Views: 1401222

Re: U.S. stocks in freefall

These delighted posts will look so sad if this is the start of a deep, multi year bear market. :shock: Indeed. I hope this week is the beginning of a multi-year 50% decline in equities. As long as my job is safe, and the jobs of the people I care about, and I don't have to see too many more homeles...
by roymeo
Wed Jan 31, 2018 2:21 pm
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: U.S. stocks in freefall
Replies: 6537
Views: 1401222

Re: U.S. stocks in freefall

I'm admittedly a total novice, but I don't understand the long-term perspective when it comes to stocks. My 401k is about 50 years out but I have doubts about its eventual usefulness. My city (and many major coastal cities, most of which are financial centers) are projected to be dealing with bad f...
by roymeo
Tue Jan 30, 2018 2:51 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Thinking about leaving Ameriprise
Replies: 52
Views: 4828

Re: Thinking about leaving Ameriprise

"You should wear with pride the scars on your skin
They're a map of the adventures and the places you've been"
-- Poi Dog Pondering, "U Li La Lu"
by roymeo
Fri Jan 26, 2018 3:22 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Do we need an emergency supplies kit (go bag)?
Replies: 65
Views: 5683

Re: Do we need an emergency supplies kit (go bag)?

After the wildfires just north of the SF Bay this year, I found this email list that sends you a weekly set of things to stock up on for an emergency kit so you slowly build it up a little bit at a time over ~6 months: https://www.ckingsolutions.com/2017/09/29/things-fall-apart-disaster-prep-mailing...
by roymeo
Mon Jan 22, 2018 1:22 am
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: Vanguard will use blockchain to share index data
Replies: 56
Views: 6088

Re: Vanguard will use blockchain to share index data

if it worked for Kodak, why not Vanguard employee shareholders that want to cash out?
by roymeo
Wed Jan 17, 2018 2:33 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: im 25 years old and want to start investing
Replies: 9
Views: 881

Re: im 25 years old and want to start investing

Another vote for the Vanguard Target Retirement fund and taking advantage of the 401(k) at least to the match, ideally to the max. Read and learn about more (simple) complexity, but I sure wish I'd kept it simple instead of spreading $300 here, $1000 there, $5000 there on now split that between 3 ot...
by roymeo
Tue Jan 09, 2018 6:50 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Fertilize dormant plants in winter?
Replies: 13
Views: 1036

Re: Fertilize dormant plants in winter?

Depends on the plants.
E.g. The garlic bulbs I put into the ground in late October really want some fertilizer. Last season I didn't; they grew and each ended up growing but each one ended up just one big bulb.
by roymeo
Fri Jan 05, 2018 7:01 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Downsizing to one car in retirement...
Replies: 68
Views: 4434

Re: Downsizing to one car in retirement...

We downsized to one motor vehicle long before 20 years to retirement. Depends on where you live and your lifestyle.
by roymeo
Fri Jan 05, 2018 6:59 pm
Forum: Forum Issues and Administration
Topic: Misuse of adverse when averse was meant
Replies: 149
Views: 8212

Re: Misuse of adverse when averse was meant

If people do it wrong enough, it becomes correct.
by roymeo
Thu Jan 04, 2018 6:03 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: COBRA [Should my wife take COBRA coverage?]
Replies: 20
Views: 1780

Re: COBRA

You also used to be able to pay 60 days after COBRA starts, so there was this indeterminate period at the beginning where you were covered if you needed to make a claim (and paid for COBRA) but if you didn't need to use it, you didn't need to pay. Find out if this is (still) accurate in your case.
by roymeo
Mon Dec 04, 2017 8:42 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Facebook's malware scan- legitimate or malware? Invasive?
Replies: 52
Views: 9374

Re: Facebook's malware scan- legitimate or malware? Invasive?

Facebook has had several rounds of chasing after people using stage names, drag names, etc. which I find remarkable considering the account I made for my neighbor's dog has never had a problem.
by roymeo
Fri Nov 03, 2017 4:44 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: How to utilize newly available Vanguard funds in my 401K
Replies: 17
Views: 1864

Re: How to use newly available Vanguard funds in my 401K

Use. Utilize would be if you were making use of something that isn't ordinarily used for the purpose.

(Mostly I'm just wanting to watch the thread, needed to say something.)
by roymeo
Thu Oct 19, 2017 11:46 am
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: Sitting on cash....Waiting for a crash
Replies: 175
Views: 30516

Re: Sitting on cash....Waiting for a crash

People are waiting for the real estate market in San Francisco to normalize---since the early 70's.
by roymeo
Wed Oct 04, 2017 6:56 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: What's my next move? Clearly a novice at investing.
Replies: 16
Views: 1763

Re: What's my next move? Clearly a novice at investing.

Assuming you don't otherwise change your mind about the rate you're paying your mortgages (and I have no opinion on that): Wouldn't it make more sense to push the extra mortgage payments onto the highest rate loan so it gets paid off sooner? Once that's gone you can shift to the lower primary reside...
by roymeo
Tue Sep 05, 2017 3:20 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Funny/frustrating FedEx situation
Replies: 19
Views: 2541

Re: Funny/frustrating FedEx situation

Get a smaller card at a Motorola store and get your account swapped over there? That's what I did last time via AT&T.
by roymeo
Fri Sep 01, 2017 11:43 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: What to do when a parent's money runs out?
Replies: 218
Views: 33333

Re: What to do when a parent's money runs out?

My wife deals with this sort of thing (and hoarders, also mentioned) professionally, and she hands out copies of this book to clients/families: Tips for Helping Your Aging Parents: (without losing your mind) by Kira Reginato http://amzn.to/2xEmPiJ Am I wrong to feel totally fed up? Anyone who tries ...
by roymeo
Wed Aug 30, 2017 7:41 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: First time getting into the market. DCA?
Replies: 14
Views: 1090

Re: First time getting into the market. DCA?

While I want to agree with Jack above (and I do in spirit), I also must admit that I watched the heck out of my accounts when they & I were newer. Having feelings about accounts with less in them than the weekly delta now. So be honest with yourself, and see how close you can get to just pulling the...
by roymeo
Wed Aug 16, 2017 6:02 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Should I put other jobs on my resume?
Replies: 14
Views: 1252

Re: Should I put other jobs on my resume?

What do you want to talk about in an interview? Put the things on your resume which will start those conversations, and any other backup/justification that you think necessary to show you have the skills enough to call to talk to. YMMV of course, different professions have different standards. Plus ...
by roymeo
Wed Aug 16, 2017 5:59 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Credit score dropped 100 points overnight
Replies: 31
Views: 4100

Re: Credit score dropped 100 points overnight

I'd certainly want to know what changed just to be aware if someone else has opened something, but I have to ask what credit score use you foresee needing in the near term?
by roymeo
Fri Aug 11, 2017 4:55 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: How far would you travel to see The Eclipse?
Replies: 259
Views: 18857

Re: How far would you travel to see The Eclipse?

I'd "turn around".

(turn around bright eyes)
by roymeo
Fri Aug 11, 2017 1:41 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Do not buy new cellphones on ebay
Replies: 54
Views: 7372

Re: Do not buy new cellphones on ebay

Sorry, I bought plenty of phones on eBay and Amazon from secondary sellers when I was responsible for a stable of 500+ mobile devices for software testing. You do have to know a bit about what you're buying--some of the makers made it very hard to figure out whether the version someone was selling w...
by roymeo
Fri Aug 11, 2017 12:28 pm
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: U.S. stocks in freefall
Replies: 6537
Views: 1401222

Re: U.S. stocks in freefall

It was Oct. 19th, 1987, not Oct. 9th. I grew up near the Falls Shopping Center in Southwest Miami. The story of someone going to the Falls, killing his broker, then himself soon after the Oct. 19 drop has fascinated me. Had the client taken the Bogle view of staying the course, or don't do somethin...
by roymeo
Thu Aug 10, 2017 3:10 pm
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: U.S. stocks in freefall
Replies: 6537
Views: 1401222

Re: U.S. stocks in freefall

Lenny Bruce is not afraid, and neither am I.
by roymeo
Mon Aug 07, 2017 4:35 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: NYT: Buy more takeout and hire a maid, study suggests
Replies: 36
Views: 6568

Re: NYT: Buy more takeout and hire a maid, study suggests

So, money can buy you (more) happiness?
by roymeo
Mon Jul 31, 2017 1:14 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Non Stick frying pan
Replies: 73
Views: 6863

Re: Non Stick frying pan

Teflon still releasing enough toxic chemicals into the air it kills people's birds the first several times you use it?

Looks like it:
http://www.peteducation.com/article.cfm ... 9&aid=2874
by roymeo
Tue Jul 25, 2017 10:53 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Life insurance as a tax diversification strategy
Replies: 39
Views: 2899

Re: Life insurance as a tax diversification strategy

Have we ever heard a story where an insurance salesperson looked at someone's financial setup and said "Nope, you don't need anything more."?
by roymeo
Wed Jul 12, 2017 6:12 pm
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: Anyone else gotten totally bored with investing?
Replies: 127
Views: 17528

Re: Anyone else gotten totally bored with investing?

telemark wrote:Someone or other described war as long periods of boredom punctuated by brief moments of terror. Perhaps the same applies to investing?
Except you have to reconcile this with "“the market can stay irrational longer than you can stay solvent."
by roymeo
Mon Jul 10, 2017 12:46 pm
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: "Bond wipeout has just begun"???
Replies: 84
Views: 13494

Re: "Bond wipeout has just begun"???

Following in case this turns into a "US Stocks in free fall" thread.
by roymeo
Thu Jul 06, 2017 4:45 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Is it Safe to Get Your DNA Tested?
Replies: 86
Views: 11050

Re: Is it Safe to Get Your DNA Tested?

Wow, according to the numbers I'm seeing here Ancestry.com's expensive compared to 23andMe.com. And they're the ones that ended up working through the FDA regulations for some of the medically important ones.