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by fair4den
Sun Jun 24, 2018 1:18 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Trust Help From Cruel Stepmother
Replies: 49
Views: 7969

Re: Trust Help From Cruel Stepmother

Thank you Celia for the advice. By the way, the things that he told us he wanted us to have is only 1/4 of his entire estate. His second wife is well taken care of... To summarize and help others in our shoes we have tried and been unsuccessful 1) Looking up trust info at the recorder's office 2) Ac...
by fair4den
Sun Jun 24, 2018 12:23 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Trust Help From Cruel Stepmother
Replies: 49
Views: 7969

Re: Trust Help From Cruel Stepmother

Makes me sick to my stomach that she can get more than what he wanted her to have..although we will never know because she has denied us a copy of the trust... He had 70 years of his life filled with love and memories before her. We have loved him and continue to love and remember him.. Thank you to...
by fair4den
Sun Jun 24, 2018 12:05 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Trust Help From Cruel Stepmother
Replies: 49
Views: 7969

Re: Trust Help From Cruel Stepmother

You're right. wish he never read the trust to us and told us he put in writing that he wanted us to have the house and family heirlooms. Would have been better to hear the truth....
by fair4den
Sat Jun 23, 2018 11:19 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Trust Help From Cruel Stepmother
Replies: 49
Views: 7969

Re: Trust Help From Cruel Stepmother

Thank you all so much for taking the time to help and for your words of comfort. It seems we have had no luck at the recorder's office or any public database. Could only find deeds of houses but no lawyer information and no copy of trust. It appears trust are not made public..at least not in our cas...
by fair4den
Mon Jun 18, 2018 10:28 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Trust Help From Cruel Stepmother
Replies: 49
Views: 7969

Re: Trust Help From Cruel Stepmother

Thank you all so much. Any advice is appreciated. Sorry forgot to mention my father's home and the trust was created in Ventura County, California.
by fair4den
Mon Jun 18, 2018 7:41 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Trust Help From Cruel Stepmother
Replies: 49
Views: 7969

Re: Trust Help From Cruel Stepmother

Thank you for your comments and kind words. Do u know how we can get a copy of the trust without knowing the lawyer’s contact info without going through a lawyer to get that? If that makes any sense..
by fair4den
Mon Jun 18, 2018 4:32 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Trust Help From Cruel Stepmother
Replies: 49
Views: 7969

Trust Help From Cruel Stepmother

Unfortunately I know this is a common situation and I am sooo sorry to read how devastated stepchildren are when the stepmother takes everything, especially when it was intended to go to the children. Just a small glimpse into our horrific ordeal: We had to find out the date and location of our dad’...