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by Cobra Commander
Sat Oct 20, 2018 10:44 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Help with Cox compatible modem
Replies: 7
Views: 503

Re: Help with Cox compatible modem

Thank you, that helps. So I can get any modem on that cox list on their web page and it will work with VOIP? Yes. I wonder what that notation means regarding voice capability on the cox website. Maybe thats for commercial phone systems or something. I don't have Cox, but it seems that is the case. ...
by Cobra Commander
Thu Oct 18, 2018 12:14 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Help with Cox compatible modem
Replies: 7
Views: 503

Re: Help with Cox compatible modem

If you are going with 100mb (or around that speed), then you can go DOCSIS 3.0. You need a 3.1 for gigabit (300mb + speeds). I have a very basic Hitron + Google Wifi router. https://www.ebay.com/itm/ZyXEL-DOCSIS-3-0-Cable-Modem-CDA30360-Compatible-with-Time-Warner-and-Cox-Com/273502733808?epid=1437...
by Cobra Commander
Thu Oct 18, 2018 7:53 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Help with Cox compatible modem
Replies: 7
Views: 503

Help with Cox compatible modem

We are getting ready to switch from FIOS to Cox as our FIOS rate is going up and I see that Cox requires you to either buy a separate modem or rent one from them for $10 per month. It seems like buying the equipment would be a better option than paying $240 over the term of the agreement. I see that...
by Cobra Commander
Fri Aug 24, 2018 10:49 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Young Pharmacist With No Clue What To Do
Replies: 32
Views: 3169

Re: Young Pharmacist With No Clue What To Do

Btw, what is your Net take home And does it include 401k contributions. Pay off the car. Really work at paying off your parents - how much do you pay now or what is the agreement. Fund you 401k as much as possible. Look at your expenses and valuation. Your parents gave you a real gift with the loan...
by Cobra Commander
Fri Aug 24, 2018 9:44 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Co-habitation agreement - ??
Replies: 103
Views: 6432

Re: Co-habitation agreement - ??

Until - got to the part where putting the boyfriend of just one-year standing, who, at the ripe old age of 56 has little or nothing to show for his, er, lifetime of hard work, and who is now seems to be urging his well-to-do widowed g.f. to let him move into her nice, upscale Calif. home....... Als...
by Cobra Commander
Wed Aug 22, 2018 11:22 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Is divorce a wise financial move?
Replies: 90
Views: 5063

Re: Is divorce a wise financial move?

you may not be able to accomplish the divorce without perjuring yourself. Obviously, I don't know what state you are in and the laws vary but as a general matter you are supposed to live separate and apart during the divorce process in many states. While several states permit you to still live in t...
by Cobra Commander
Wed Aug 22, 2018 10:13 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Is divorce a wise financial move?
Replies: 90
Views: 5063

Re: Is divorce a wise financial move?

As a general thought you may not be able to accomplish the divorce without perjuring yourself. Obviously, I don't know what state you are in and the laws vary but as a general matter you are supposed to live separate and apart during the divorce process in many states. While several states permit yo...
by Cobra Commander
Tue Aug 21, 2018 2:04 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Co-habitation agreement - ??
Replies: 103
Views: 6432

Re: Co-habitation agreement - ??

Off the top of my head the only thing that really matters here is rent + utilities and (maybe) groceries and the rest could be negotiated orally as, at least to me, those seem like the only major expenses. Presumably they would keep their own cars right? Otherwise, to the extent they were taking a ...
by Cobra Commander
Tue Aug 21, 2018 1:43 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Co-habitation agreement - ??
Replies: 103
Views: 6432

Re: Co-habitation agreement - ??

Off the top of my head the only thing that really matters here is rent + utilities and (maybe) groceries and the rest could be negotiated orally as, at least to me, those seem like the only major expenses. Presumably they would keep their own cars right? Otherwise, to the extent they were taking a t...
by Cobra Commander
Fri Aug 10, 2018 10:19 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Rental Property - Keep, sell or refinance
Replies: 20
Views: 1342

Re: Rental Property - Keep, sell or refinance

Don't use a realtor there isn't any need. You aren't truly selling the house as much as restructuring the partnership and removing your interest. A title company can easily handle that. There should be no need for additional title insurance use the title company used last. The cost of the title com...
by Cobra Commander
Fri Aug 10, 2018 6:00 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Rental Property - Keep, sell or refinance
Replies: 20
Views: 1342

Re: Rental Property - Keep, sell or refinance

Property is not cash flowing and it looks like appreciation is not that great either. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1uKk-f2aAGNtGNGdXnWvVQWuMR5JmR8Dz425poxCIC2s/edit?usp=sharing I would sell the property. I would only have rental property that cash flowed. What do you think about the possi...
by Cobra Commander
Thu Aug 09, 2018 6:33 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Rental Property - Keep, sell or refinance
Replies: 20
Views: 1342

Re: Rental Property - Keep, sell or refinance

With those numbers, you are losing money every month. Check out with housing authority how much you can raise the rent - they have a big say in this and you can't just willy nilly bump it up. However, if there is not a way to significantly increase the rent, then you are much better off selling the...
by Cobra Commander
Thu Aug 09, 2018 6:30 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Rental Property - Keep, sell or refinance
Replies: 20
Views: 1342

Re: Rental Property - Keep, sell or refinance

Purchase Year: 2006 Purchase Price: $185K (about $40K downpayment) Ownership: 50/50 with former law school classmate - we get along well Mortgage: $145K - 30 year ARM (adjusting upwards from 4% to 5% this year) Current rent: $1,150 per month (about half is from Section 8 voucher) PITI: $934 (with t...
by Cobra Commander
Thu Aug 09, 2018 6:28 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Rental Property - Keep, sell or refinance
Replies: 20
Views: 1342

Re: Rental Property - Keep, sell or refinance

I am seeing interest rates under 5% for investments at excellent credit, but it doesn't really matter as I agree with the above. A section 8 condo with almost no positive cashflow is a great candidate for sale. Dump it and move in. Find a rental closer by with better cashflow if you desire. At thes...
by Cobra Commander
Thu Aug 09, 2018 6:27 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Rental Property - Keep, sell or refinance
Replies: 20
Views: 1342

Re: Rental Property - Keep, sell or refinance

Property is not cash flowing and it looks like appreciation is not that great either. https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1uKk-f2aAGNtGNGdXnWvVQWuMR5JmR8Dz425poxCIC2s/edit?usp=sharing I would sell the property. I would only have rental property that cash flowed. What do you think about the possi...
by Cobra Commander
Thu Aug 09, 2018 6:24 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Rental Property - Keep, sell or refinance
Replies: 20
Views: 1342

Re: Rental Property - Keep, sell or refinance

So basically the place is worth roughly $15-20k less than what you paid for it 12 years ago? I assume you're making decent money and this is not going to break you either way. If you do decide to remain in the rental partnership, I would absolutely refi to a fixed rate loan. I would also get some t...
by Cobra Commander
Thu Aug 09, 2018 11:57 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Rental Property - Keep, sell or refinance
Replies: 20
Views: 1342

Rental Property - Keep, sell or refinance

Purchase Year: 2006 Purchase Price: $185K (about $40K downpayment) Ownership: 50/50 with former law school classmate - we get along well Mortgage: $145K - 30 year ARM (adjusting upwards from 4% to 5% this year) Current rent: $1,150 per month (about half is from Section 8 voucher) PITI: $934 (with th...
by Cobra Commander
Mon Jul 23, 2018 2:41 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Mortgage Shopping
Replies: 5
Views: 926

Re: Mortgage Shopping

I did a version of this but did not let everyone do hard pulls on my credit. I told them the package that I wanted, house price, downpayment and to assume excellent credit. Obviously the lender I went with ultimately did a hard pull before offering me the loan.
by Cobra Commander
Sun Jun 03, 2018 9:14 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Can a Retired 60 yo MD, MBA Start a Law Career?
Replies: 276
Views: 15250

Re: Can a Retired 60 yo MD, MBA Start a Law Career?

I think your post greatly underestimates how difficult it is to become a Biglaw caliber attorney. Becoming a solid attorney and having the legal judgment to succeed at the highest levels of the law in Biglaw is a lifetime pursuit --- much like being a good doctor. It's not a side hobby for someone ...
by Cobra Commander
Thu May 31, 2018 12:42 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Moving to HCOL, worried, need help.
Replies: 14
Views: 2281

Re: Moving to HCOL, worried, need help.

It's not clear to me why renting is foolish. You can't afford a house and your time there is finite. I also question some of your expenses. I would be interested to see how you come up with 8 grand for a baby without daycare. Why do you need awd SUV? Why do you need space to accommodate a failed bu...
by Cobra Commander
Wed May 23, 2018 10:20 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Additional Liability of Getting Married (Protecting Taxable accounts)
Replies: 18
Views: 1963

Re: Additional Liability of Getting Married (Protecting Taxable accounts)

Law school will definitely put a dent in that brokerage account. My law school was like $30K per year when I went less than 10 years ago and it is now $50K+ per year just for tuition. Seems like a pre-nupt or, alternatively, a post-nupt, would be a good idea for you guys. It's a state-specific thing...
by Cobra Commander
Thu May 03, 2018 3:17 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Real Estate Commissions - How Negotiable?
Replies: 31
Views: 2292

Re: Real Estate Commissions - How Negotiable?

My 2 cents.... I find realtors add limited value. The last two investment properties I purchased, I did not use a buyer's broker. If I was selling, I would use a flat fee MLS listing service and offer the buyers agent whatever the norm was or slightly higher (2.5-3.0%). The listing agent rarely sel...
by Cobra Commander
Thu May 03, 2018 9:23 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: "Gap in financial literacy widens for couples the longer the relationship lasts, study suggests"
Replies: 13
Views: 1956

Re: "Gap in financial literacy widens for couples the longer the relationship lasts, study suggests"

Makes a lot of sense for many aspects of the relationship beyond just finances. For example, DW is the primary meal preparer so while there are a handful of dishes I can make she definitely has greater expertise than me as that is her primary responsibility. Meanwhile, DW does not know how to start ...
by Cobra Commander
Thu May 03, 2018 9:15 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Real Estate Commissions - How Negotiable?
Replies: 31
Views: 2292

Re: Real Estate Commissions - How Negotiable?

Another option might be to consider a flat fee listing agent that will get it on the MLS. These services offer various packages including photos, lockbox service, etc. at various price points. It also shields you from being bombarded by agents calling you trying to get your listing which will happen...
by Cobra Commander
Mon Apr 09, 2018 3:09 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Structuring Newlywed Finances for Fairness and Less Arguments
Replies: 84
Views: 7128

Re: Structuring Newlywed Finances for Fairness and Less Arguments

If I ever get married, I feel the best way to do it would be have a joint account for bills that you both deposit money into, then have your own separate accounts where your paychecks/investment income/etc is mainly deposited to..then you just transfer it to the joint account. Essentially the rever...
by Cobra Commander
Mon Apr 02, 2018 11:21 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Sad because I did not know what I was doing with inheritance
Replies: 34
Views: 7672

Re: Sad because I did not know what I was doing with inheritance

I lost about $20K when I was in my 20's because I was an idiot and I effectively gambled on Adelphia Cable. All we can do is learn from our mistakes.
by Cobra Commander
Thu Mar 29, 2018 1:34 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Federal Employees - Legal Benefit Plan
Replies: 1
Views: 373

Re: Federal Employees - Legal Benefit Plan

You should confirm whether the EAP includes estate planning documents, it probably does not. Usually the EAP covers a consultation and may provide a discount (10%-20%) on future services from that lawyer. I used the EAP once for an issue and I was disappointed that I knew more about that area of law...
by Cobra Commander
Fri Mar 16, 2018 11:13 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: How does everyone here earn so much?
Replies: 131
Views: 8448

Re: How does everyone here earn so much?

Focusing on the second paragraph of your post, IMO what others on here earn isn't directly relevant to you given the diversity of employment fields represented here. It really only matters what you earn relative to other lawyers in your location and to some degree practice area. I'm sure you've seen...
by Cobra Commander
Wed Mar 07, 2018 2:28 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Should I "get divorced" for tax purposes (PSLF)
Replies: 57
Views: 4304

Re: Should I "get divorced" for tax purposes (PSLF)

Many states have a waiting period prior to divorce during which you must live separately (often six months with no children and one year if you have children). So my question is do you plan to not have sex with your spouse for six months or do you plan to perjure yourself in court when you claim tha...
by Cobra Commander
Mon Mar 05, 2018 12:13 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Advice on Attorneys
Replies: 48
Views: 3113

Re: Advice on Attorneys

I'm a lawyer but not in trusts and estates so I'll offer my two cents. I only use specialists when I go see lawyers or at least lawyers that devote the vast majority of their practice to the area I need assistance with. First, you're far more likely to get someone that is competent and let me tell y...
by Cobra Commander
Wed Feb 28, 2018 4:25 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Why child care tax credit for double income families, but not single?
Replies: 32
Views: 3775

Re: Why child care tax credit for double income families, but not single?

The preschool would count as daycare but you will not be able to deduct it unless your spouse gets a part-time job and is working during those daycare hours as you note in the bolded sections of your OP. The deduction is meant to provide an incentive/subsidy for dual-income households to offset the ...
by Cobra Commander
Mon Feb 26, 2018 2:41 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Splitting a cell phone bill
Replies: 35
Views: 2230

Re: Splitting a cell phone bill

I think everyone should contribute proportionately to the total cost of the plan. For example, if there are four lines then everyone pays 25% of the cost.
by Cobra Commander
Thu Feb 22, 2018 3:20 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Time for twins to go to daycare
Replies: 38
Views: 3049

Re: Time for twins to go to daycare

I would add a different perspective than Bloom's. If you wish to continue separate finances consider having a joint account into which you both contribute in some % (possible pro rata by income) from which you pay all of the major joint expenses (mortgage, daycare, groceries, etc.). IMO this approac...
by Cobra Commander
Sat Feb 03, 2018 8:13 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Do you live on a budget?
Replies: 65
Views: 4375

Re: Do you live on a budget?

Not really. Obviously we considered our income and expenses when buying a house but otherwise we dont have a budget. We dont buy a lot of stuff and we're naturally relatively frugal so not tempted to buy everything we see.
by Cobra Commander
Tue Jan 30, 2018 9:26 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Feeling Locked into a Job
Replies: 26
Views: 3436

Re: Feeling Locked into a Job

Does the pension allow you to continue health coverage at the employee rate or in some other subsidized manner? That could be very valuable if you plan to retire early.
by Cobra Commander
Wed Jan 24, 2018 8:06 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Dear wife quits job and now we are down to 1 income
Replies: 190
Views: 18657

Re: Dear wife quits job and now we are down to 1 income

How much, if any, of that expense is daycare? You could cut that obviously if she stays home. OTOH, daycare slots are scarce in some places so if she is still deciding you may need to keep paying to hold the slot.
by Cobra Commander
Thu Jan 18, 2018 11:50 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Federal pension Vs Higher salary + 401k savings plan
Replies: 35
Views: 3816

Re: Federal pension Vs Higher salary + 401k savings plan

Stan I’d retired just after the ability to convert some SL to creditable time, but had to use quite a bit for surgeries and recovery over the prior few years, and the resultant addition was almost negligible, so I do understand (I’d had over 2k hours of SL before then). But even then, over 2k hours...
by Cobra Commander
Thu Jan 18, 2018 10:28 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Federal pension Vs Higher salary + 401k savings plan
Replies: 35
Views: 3816

Re: Federal pension Vs Higher salary + 401k savings plan

My understanding is that the FDIC, Fed Reserve and possibly the CFPB are on a different pension system so OP could be thinking of one of those agencies which also supports OP's view of the salary being over $200K because those agencies are not on the GS scale.
by Cobra Commander
Mon Jan 01, 2018 11:21 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Ally Bank 2% 12 month CD expires tomorrow
Replies: 13
Views: 2693

Re: Ally Bank 2% 12 month CD expires tomorrow

Just as an FYI I called them and they said so long as I began the application process prior to the offer expiration I will get the advertised rate even if it takes them a few days to open my account. Ive been meaning to migrate some of my banking from WF to Ally and this gave me a little push.
by Cobra Commander
Sat Nov 18, 2017 12:32 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: My fafsa has made me an "independent" because I was born before Jan. 1 1995. But im not independent...
Replies: 19
Views: 1935

Re: My fafsa has made me an "independent" because I was born before Jan. 1 1995. But im not independent...

Seems like your mom could just withdraw the money now so you have $0 then she could gift the money back to you at a later time. Since the account is joint the money would be hers to withdraw.
by Cobra Commander
Mon Oct 09, 2017 3:49 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Private S corp stock
Replies: 6
Views: 535

Re: Private S corp stock

Spirit Rider wrote:
Mon Oct 09, 2017 3:47 pm
How did you invest $140K in the business and are only a < 1% owner. Your less than 1% ownership is not going to get you much of the assets from the sale.
OP says $960k expected from the sale of his portion. Might not be much to you but $960k sounds good to me. :sharebeer
by Cobra Commander
Thu Sep 28, 2017 8:47 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Help me evaluate job offer. From State DOT to FHWA. How to turn pension into present compensation value?
Replies: 14
Views: 1732

Re: Help me evaluate job offer. From State DOT to FHWA. How to turn pension into present compensation value?

I would consider whether the federal position is a ladder position (i.e. GS-12/13). If it is not a ladder position, you will have to compete for the GS-13 slot. If it is a ladder position, promotion to GS-13 is virtually guaranteed after one year provided you don't screw up.
by Cobra Commander
Sun Sep 24, 2017 3:02 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Spouse Money Management
Replies: 94
Views: 8368

Re: Spouse Money Management

You earn 15x more than her? I earn INFINITYx more than my spouse. We make it work. We are married though. Everything we have is “ours”. I would be more concerned about you making 35k/year than her being in college working part time. Regards, John I thought OP said the $35k was take home which presu...
by Cobra Commander
Sun Sep 24, 2017 1:45 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Spouse Money Management
Replies: 94
Views: 8368

Re: Spouse Money Management

Let's be very clear about this as the thread title "Spouse" confuses the situation. She is your girlfriend and not your wife. And there is a reason for that. You haven't agreed on any long-term goals, dreams, or aspirations. Until that happens, you shouldn't be co-mingling expenses. If you are livi...
by Cobra Commander
Sun Sep 24, 2017 11:58 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Spouse Money Management
Replies: 94
Views: 8368

Re: Spouse Money Management

She should be covering her hopefully modest living expenses with student loans. I can see food being a joint expense you both contribute too because presumably youre eating the same meal.
by Cobra Commander
Fri Sep 22, 2017 11:46 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: No down payment for home purchase: what is worst-case scenario?
Replies: 39
Views: 2882

Re: No down payment for home purchase: what is worst-case scenario?

In a competitive market your offer will look less attractive for two reasons. First, it suggests you are one financial setback away from having to void the contract or having your financing fall through. Second, if there is an issue with the appraisal coming in a little low you have no room to negot...
by Cobra Commander
Sat Aug 26, 2017 4:17 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Hiring a real estate agent to buy home
Replies: 21
Views: 2143

Re: Hiring a real estate agent to buy home

I prefer to use a discount broker that will rebate a portion of their commission to me. On my last house I got a rebate for 2% of the purchase price. I knew the area and the comps so she was just filling in a form and showing up for the inspection and closing.
by Cobra Commander
Fri Aug 25, 2017 4:57 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: The old Federal CSRS Retirement System question
Replies: 14
Views: 1748

Re: The old Federal CSRS Retirement System question

This suggests you do get the survivor benefit. Given the stakes I would definitely have him check with his HR person though. https://www.opm.gov/faqs/topic/retire/index.aspx/index.aspx?cid=73707e40-be26-406d-ae28-ae5059bf5e30&page=2 May I receive benefits if I am the surviving spouse of someone who ...
by Cobra Commander
Tue Aug 22, 2017 7:48 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Transferring Work Locations - Cost of Living Decrease?
Replies: 17
Views: 2270

Re: Transferring Work Locations - Cost of Living Decrease?

This sort of happened to my spouse when we moved from NYC to DC. She was receiving a promotion at the same time and her pay effectively stayed the same due to the increase from the promotion offsetting the decrease as a result of the move. Absent the promotion they would have cut her pay.