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by stimulacra
Tue Dec 12, 2017 2:53 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Received promotion offer at work and trying to negotiate the pay increase portion.
Replies: 31
Views: 2323

Re: Received promotion offer at work and trying to negotiate the pay increase portion.

Yeah, gonna take the offer and focus my attention and energy elsewhere.

Thank you everyone for your advice and outside perspective. It's been helpful and reassuring.
by stimulacra
Tue Dec 12, 2017 1:41 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Received promotion offer at work and trying to negotiate the pay increase portion.
Replies: 31
Views: 2323

Re: Received promotion offer at work and trying to negotiate the pay increase portion.

Update: Direct manager met with me 1 on 1 with a long laundry list of areas I could improve on; perceived lack of enthusiasm recently on current projects, managing expectations, etc… most of the items appeared to be fished out from my coworkers so I feel like it's a bit manufactured to lay some grou...
by stimulacra
Tue Dec 05, 2017 10:59 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Received promotion offer at work and trying to negotiate the pay increase portion.
Replies: 31
Views: 2323

Re: Received promotion offer at work and trying to negotiate the pay increase portion.

I agree with the last post. Accept job- then look for alternative better offers. BATNA is the only real way to negotiate. Make sure you are in a better position always before negotiating. Ok, there might be a gap in my understanding of BATNA… If one is able to determine one's Best Alternative to a ...
by stimulacra
Tue Dec 05, 2017 7:23 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Received promotion offer at work and trying to negotiate the pay increase portion.
Replies: 31
Views: 2323

Re: Received promotion offer at work and trying to negotiate the pay increase portion.

OP, Also, I forgot to ask, is the 4% increase going to be considered your raise or is this an off cycle increase? You could get 4% and then get another 4% or so in the next few months. All things you need to get clarified. There's a departmental merit increase (I'm guessing 2% or so) that I just mi...
by stimulacra
Tue Dec 05, 2017 4:50 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Received promotion offer at work and trying to negotiate the pay increase portion.
Replies: 31
Views: 2323

Re: Received promotion offer at work and trying to negotiate the pay increase portion.

This is my first time dealing with multi-party negotiations and a lot of the information is pretty opaque to me. Thank you everyone for the responses. You mention increased expenses and a need for more money. It’s very difficult to get significant increases at the same company even with promotions....
by stimulacra
Tue Dec 05, 2017 4:37 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Received promotion offer at work and trying to negotiate the pay increase portion.
Replies: 31
Views: 2323

Re: Received promotion offer at work and trying to negotiate the pay increase portion.

Title change with some additional responsibilities. My weekly hours should not change dramatically if at all. The recent outside offers have already been filled with people I know but the line of communication is still open for future opportunities. Declining the current promotion offer might be vie...
by stimulacra
Tue Dec 05, 2017 4:13 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Received promotion offer at work and trying to negotiate the pay increase portion.
Replies: 31
Views: 2323

Re: Received promotion offer at work and trying to negotiate the pay increase portion.

In my experience, I know that using outside competing offers has seldom ended well. Also it's not really my style.
by stimulacra
Tue Dec 05, 2017 4:09 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Received promotion offer at work and trying to negotiate the pay increase portion.
Replies: 31
Views: 2323

Re: Received promotion offer at work and trying to negotiate the pay increase portion.

Regarding BATNA: I know that I can receive 20% above what I am making now, although my current position allows for better work-life balance and a higher degree of flex time for family things. My mental floor is 7-8% bump in base pay. I asked for 10-15% as a range. The bonus will be nice but I've rec...
by stimulacra
Tue Dec 05, 2017 3:24 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Received promotion offer at work and trying to negotiate the pay increase portion.
Replies: 31
Views: 2323

Received promotion offer at work and trying to negotiate the pay increase portion.

Been at my current employer for about two years now. There was a recent reshuffling of staff at work and I got bumped up a rung to backfill an opening. With the promotion I'll be in the next pay grade up but my base salary only increases by 4% although I now qualify for a discretionary performance b...
by stimulacra
Tue Nov 28, 2017 10:43 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: How Do You Stay Current With Music?
Replies: 111
Views: 5162

Re: How Do You Stay Current With Popular Music?

Think I read somewhere that for the average person, our musical tastes gets set at age 33, after which point we no longer actively seek new music, just variations of the things we love. Spotify, the music subscription service, more or less verified this fact in the book Hitmakers. I'm on Spotify and...
by stimulacra
Mon Nov 27, 2017 7:33 pm
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: Ray Dalio's All Weather Porfolio
Replies: 7
Views: 944

Re: Ray Dalio's All Weather Porfolio

Commodity prices on Portfolio Visualizer only goes back to 2007. I instead entered 7.5 for Gold and Precious Metals and got 9.55% CAGR dating back from 1985. Not sure what's listed in Tony Robbins' book but do suspect that the actual All Weather portfolio has a lot of leverage applied to the bonds p...
by stimulacra
Sun Nov 19, 2017 11:20 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Thoughts about wearing a "uniform"/same thing everyday?
Replies: 140
Views: 9401

Re: Thoughts about wearing a "uniform"/same thing everyday?

An Australian morning news anchor wanted to explore the double standard between how men and women were judged based on their clothing. With a few exceptions (for dry cleaning) he wore the exact same suit every day for a year, changing out only the shirt and tie. https://youtu.be/f4it1k5OP9Q No one n...
by stimulacra
Sat Nov 18, 2017 9:59 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Thoughts about wearing a "uniform"/same thing everyday?
Replies: 140
Views: 9401

Re: Thoughts about wearing a "uniform"/same thing everyday?

It's a popular career hack now, to essentially wear a personal uniform (10-12 copies of each clothing item). Steve Jobs, Mark Zuckerberg, Christopher Nolan are all well known for doing this. Business casual in the contemporary office is a cognitive nightmare in that you can waste 15-20 minutes at th...
by stimulacra
Thu Nov 16, 2017 3:07 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Has used furniture dropped in value dramatically?
Replies: 108
Views: 8822

Re: Has used furniture dropped in value dramatically?

I check out estate sales for fun every couple of months. You can get really nice furniture for 10% - 15% of what an equivalent would cost new. There's almost no reason to buy middle of the road furniture new at a department store or furniture store. The only thing I would buy new would be IKEA furni...
by stimulacra
Tue Nov 14, 2017 5:05 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Open Enrollment at work; they split the HSA into two options now
Replies: 4
Views: 952

Re: Open Enrollment at work; they split the HSA into two options now

Thank you everyone for the response.

Yes the employer match amount is annual, not monthly contribution.

I'm leaning towards the Choice HSA now. Need to check out some other items before the deadline of Dec 1.

Thanks again.
by stimulacra
Tue Nov 14, 2017 3:06 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Open Enrollment at work; they split the HSA into two options now
Replies: 4
Views: 952

Open Enrollment at work; they split the HSA into two options now

Had an HSA at work that's worked out pretty well and now for 2018 it looks like they split it into two options. Saver HSA Company contribution (individual/family): $600 / $1,200 Preventative care: $0 with no deductible Deductible (individual/family): $3,500 / $7,000 Out-of-pocket maximum (individual...
by stimulacra
Fri Oct 27, 2017 12:17 pm
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: 91, 01, 09. Then 19? [Year for next market crash]
Replies: 27
Views: 2625

Re: 91, 01, 09. Then 19?

One of my favorite scenes from Margin Call (Starts at 1:34)

https://youtu.be/LtFyP0qy9XU?t=1m34s

Good luck timing the market OP.
by stimulacra
Wed Oct 25, 2017 4:25 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Should I put all bonds in our IRAs?
Replies: 5
Views: 534

Re: Should I put all bonds in our IRAs?

Mostly curious, how would you rebalance between accounts?

I guess directing new cash flow to one versus the other is one way to rebalance but could take a while…

If my retirement portfolio consisted of bonds in the Roth IRA and equities in the TIRA, how would I have rebalanced say in 2009 or 2010?
by stimulacra
Mon Oct 23, 2017 5:40 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Pant Recommendations (Business Casual)
Replies: 42
Views: 2865

Re: Pant Recommendations (Business Casual)

I alternate between brooks brothers and costco kirkland pants, in a corporate environment. I'm young and do wear pleated pants which I've always viewed as a conservative look, compared to the guy I used to work with who had tight unpleated pants on which showed off his you know what. Are pleated pa...
by stimulacra
Mon Oct 23, 2017 1:39 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Pant Recommendations (Business Casual)
Replies: 42
Views: 2865

Re: Pant Recommendations (Business Casual)

Check out Jcrew's Bowery pants, they're flat front and hang on your hips. Catch them on sale for around $60-70. Pleated slacks are a valid option and serve a functional purpose but you have to realize they sit at your natural waistline. The problem is that dockers, and khakis from the Gap killed ple...
by stimulacra
Tue Oct 17, 2017 10:33 am
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: Vanguard expects "decent sized correction" soon, sometime, maybe later
Replies: 68
Views: 7450

Re: Vanguard expects "decent sized correction" soon

Clickbait article…

The only meaningful quote they're hanging their whole premise on:

“We expect there could be a decent-sized correction at some point,”

I've gotten fortune cookies that were less vague.
by stimulacra
Thu Oct 12, 2017 10:51 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Think I goofed on a recent HSA transaction
Replies: 5
Views: 670

Think I goofed on a recent HSA transaction

Had some dental work done. I told the dentist to submit the claim to my insurance company and I would pay whatever the remaining balance was with my HSA debit card. He suggested it might be easier if I paid the balance that day in his office and submit the reimbursement paperwork (which he had pre-p...
by stimulacra
Thu Oct 12, 2017 10:41 am
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: With panicked homeowners selling their flooded homes for 40¢ on the dollar, investors are flocking to Houston
Replies: 35
Views: 6524

Re: With panicked homeowners selling their flooded homes for 40¢ on the dollar, investors are flocking to Houston

I live in Houston and currently rent. Was previously a homeowner. I no longer view home ownership as a means to financial independence or even as a life milestone. I've seen too many people lose a lot of home equity making panic moves. There's a lot of mixed feelings on this debate, some people wan...
by stimulacra
Thu Oct 12, 2017 9:50 am
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: With panicked homeowners selling their flooded homes for 40¢ on the dollar, investors are flocking to Houston
Replies: 35
Views: 6524

Re: With panicked homeowners selling their flooded homes for 40¢ on the dollar, investors are flocking to Houston

I live in Houston and currently rent. Was previously a homeowner. I no longer view home ownership as a means to financial independence or even as a life milestone. I've seen too many people lose a lot of home equity making panic moves. There's a lot of mixed feelings on this debate, some people want...
by stimulacra
Thu Oct 12, 2017 9:26 am
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: With panicked homeowners selling their flooded homes for 40¢ on the dollar, investors are flocking to Houston
Replies: 35
Views: 6524

With panicked homeowners selling their flooded homes for 40¢ on the dollar, investors are flocking to Houston

Read this on Bloomberg today.
https://bloom.bg/2wPCcnF

For house poor homeowners without flood insurance, many are facing grim choices. Not sure if they would benefit by waiting or cutting their losses now. Selling your primary asset at a 60% discount is a huge setback for any family.
by stimulacra
Tue Oct 10, 2017 2:28 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Growing old without kids or younger caring relatives
Replies: 106
Views: 20152

Re: Growing old without kids or younger caring relatives

Saw this article on The New Yorker about professional guardians who systemically strip the elderly of their civil rights and assets. That is the article that lead me to revive this thread. I sent it to all my aging friends and it certainly got their attention! Sorry my bad. Yeah I read it and it ga...
by stimulacra
Tue Oct 10, 2017 12:42 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Growing old without kids or younger caring relatives
Replies: 106
Views: 20152

Re: Growing old without kids or younger caring relatives

Saw this article on The New Yorker about professional guardians who systemically strip the elderly of their civil rights and assets. How the Elderly Lose Their Rights Guardians can sell the assets and control the lives of senior citizens without their consent—and reap a profit from it. http://bit.ly...
by stimulacra
Thu Oct 05, 2017 12:01 am
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: What are you up YTD? [Year To Date]
Replies: 1617
Views: 290417

Re: What are you up YTD? [Year To Date]

Up 13.5%. 70% stocks, 25% bonds, 5% gold.
by stimulacra
Mon Oct 02, 2017 10:35 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Travel camera reviews of what you own and why?
Replies: 25
Views: 1767

Re: Travel camera reviews of what you own and why?

FujiFilm X100T (purchased in 2014) 35 mm equivalent f/2 lens I bought it because it was compact, had a nice retro rangefinder look and all primary controls were mechanical in nature (had a nice tactile feel). There's a decent amount of third party accessories to help customize the camera to your spe...
by stimulacra
Wed Sep 27, 2017 10:51 am
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Can I have 2 HSA accounts
Replies: 18
Views: 1924

Re: Can I have 2 HSA accounts

I have two HSA accounts (HSA Bank and Health Savings Administrators). At work I transitioned from one HDHP to another, each serviced by a different HSA vendor. I kept my Health Savings Administrators account since it had access to some Vanguard funds I prefer. My current HSA is more of a deductible ...
by stimulacra
Thu Sep 21, 2017 12:15 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Hurricane Harvey has me rethinking my approach to disaster preparations
Replies: 72
Views: 6784

Re: Hurricane Harvey has me rethinking my approach to disaster preparations

Was listening to local news radio today on the drive in. An interesting cautionary tale about home buying during hurricane season. One individual just bought a house right before Harvey hit and his previous home was still under contract. Both homes were lost were lost in the storm and neither had fl...
by stimulacra
Tue Sep 19, 2017 11:55 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Calling out the not so rich bogleheads
Replies: 233
Views: 26570

Re: Calling out the not so rich bogleheads

I'm 39, divorced, and have about 2X salary saved up. Left side of the Boglehead bell curve for sure but I feel better prepared than non-bogleheads and making progress every month thanks to this site.
by stimulacra
Thu Sep 14, 2017 4:33 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: vanguard balances as percentages?
Replies: 4
Views: 421

Re: vanguard balances as percentages?

Account Overview > Asset Mix will break it down to Stocks / Bonds / Short Term / Uncategorized.

For more granular breakdown I import the balances monthly into a Google Spreadsheet and it spits out a bunch of visualizations for me.
by stimulacra
Thu Aug 31, 2017 7:26 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Hurricane Harvey has me rethinking my approach to disaster preparations
Replies: 72
Views: 6784

Re: Hurricane Harvey has me rethinking my approach to disaster preparations

I figured there would be a lot more crossover with Bogleheads and preppers, but maybe I'm in the minority. Being a little too over prepared isn't that dissimilar from LBYM, buying "safe" index funds, establishing an emergency fund, etc. I figured there would be more of us. :D I'm going to wager you...
by stimulacra
Thu Aug 31, 2017 2:48 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Hurricane Harvey has me rethinking my approach to disaster preparations
Replies: 72
Views: 6784

Re: Hurricane Harvey has me rethinking my approach to disaster preparations

Thanks for the responses everyone. After reading them I'm inclined to do some slight tweaks and updates to my current plan. Evacuation is definitely an option for next time (if I can get a 48 hour lead) although not sure if Austin is far enough inland. Re-evaluating my digital data backup system. A ...
by stimulacra
Thu Aug 31, 2017 12:36 pm
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: Vanguard Total Intl Index Fund:ADMRL vs INVESTOR
Replies: 8
Views: 1348

Re: Vanguard Total Intl Index Fund:ADMRL vs INVESTOR

Related question: With the expense ratio, over time, won't there be a price-per-share drift over a long enough timeline? That half-gallon container might be more like a 3/8 gallon container after a decade.
by stimulacra
Thu Aug 31, 2017 11:01 am
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Would you DCA from S&P 500 to TSM?
Replies: 13
Views: 1310

Re: Would you DCA from S&P 500 to TSM?

I'd do it all at once. The two indexes correlate closely enough that there isn't too much difference between the two (Doesn't the S&P 500 constitute about 75% of TSM?).
by stimulacra
Thu Aug 31, 2017 10:36 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Hurricane Harvey relief?
Replies: 42
Views: 3451

Re: Hurricane Harvey relief?

Three charities that are no-brainers in this instance: American Red Cross. You can text HARVEY to 90999 to make a $10 donation. Greater Houston Community Foundation to donate to the Hurricane Harvey Relief Fund. https://ghcf.org United Way of Greater Houston https://www.unitedwayhouston.org/flood/fl...
by stimulacra
Thu Aug 31, 2017 7:57 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Hurricane Harvey has me rethinking my approach to disaster preparations
Replies: 72
Views: 6784

Re: Hurricane Harvey has me rethinking my approach to disaster preparations

What strikes me about the OP's post is that he is back to some semblance of "normal". Being 1500 mi. away from this tragedy, it is hard for me to put it in perspective from what I can see in the media. While there is an appalling degree of loss and misery to be sure, what I can't tell is what perce...
by stimulacra
Thu Aug 31, 2017 7:09 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Hurricane Harvey has me rethinking my approach to disaster preparations
Replies: 72
Views: 6784

Re: Hurricane Harvey has me rethinking my approach to disaster preparations

An important consideration is computer backup. If you keep some of your backup devices in a bank's safe deposit box, and both your home and your bank become flooded, you are likely to lose all copies of your files. Backing up to a cloud would solve this issue, but it brings up concerns about the cl...
by stimulacra
Thu Aug 31, 2017 6:53 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Hurricane Harvey has me rethinking my approach to disaster preparations
Replies: 72
Views: 6784

Re: Hurricane Harvey has me rethinking my approach to disaster preparations

I would have left town on 8/23 , I think that's your biggest mistake. You gambled and got lucky and your house didn't flood, but whats to say it would be the case next time. You could have decamped to Austin for a couple of days. On 8/23 I knew a tropical storm was hitting Texas, there was zero ind...
by stimulacra
Wed Aug 30, 2017 11:31 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Hurricane Harvey has me rethinking my approach to disaster preparations
Replies: 72
Views: 6784

Hurricane Harvey has me rethinking my approach to disaster preparations

Was curious if there was a Boglehead consensus on disaster preparations? I live in Houston, just outside of downtown, and was fortunate in being largely unaffected by the storm this past weekend and all of the subsequent flooding. I know a lot of people that are not as lucky. Many have had their hom...
by stimulacra
Fri Aug 25, 2017 7:12 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: SUV thread (with a twist)
Replies: 44
Views: 4529

Re: SUV thread (with a twist)

I would look at: 1) Subaru Forrester (Tall compact crossover SUV). Pretty affordable and the interior ranges from spartan to nice. 2) Subaru Outback (Sedan based wagon with AWD). They can get pricey quick with the 3.6 engine but think they're very nice and hold their value well. 3) Honda CRV (Compac...
by stimulacra
Mon Aug 21, 2017 2:19 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: My girlfriend and her 401K, need to give her advice
Replies: 61
Views: 5438

Re: My girlfriend and her 401K, need to give her advice

Michael Alden wrote:
Mon Aug 21, 2017 12:08 pm
She was in fixed income, i.e., money market. How did that give her benefit of bull bond market? Also, I've never been married, nor have any desire to ever do so, so my assets are not a consideration.
Sorry my bad. I understood “fixed income” to be bonds.
by stimulacra
Mon Aug 21, 2017 10:37 am
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: My girlfriend and her 401K, need to give her advice
Replies: 61
Views: 5438

Re: My girlfriend and her 401K, need to give her advice

Image

Based on the age you gave, it would seem like she at least had the benefit of a long bull bond market.

Could have been worse.

Blue is Total Bond
Red is Money Market
Orange S&P 500
by stimulacra
Mon Aug 21, 2017 10:30 am
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: My girlfriend and her 401K, need to give her advice
Replies: 61
Views: 5438

Re: My girlfriend and her 401K, need to give her advice

IMHO damage is done… 

If I were in her shoes I would direct all new money to equities and gradually shift over to 50/50 allocation.

If you guys are planning on getting married maybe consider her retirement accounts to be the bond portion…
by stimulacra
Thu Aug 17, 2017 2:46 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Anyone planning on never retiring?
Replies: 138
Views: 11395

Re: Anyone planning on never retiring?

There's a good talk by Mr. Money Mustache on Youtube somewhere about retiring at age 30 (by saving 60% of your take home salary). “Work is better when you don't need the money”. 1) You can do the work you truly care about. 2) You can be honest. 3) You can devote time to making your world a better pl...
by stimulacra
Thu Aug 17, 2017 2:38 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Opening an HSA tomorrow...
Replies: 10
Views: 728

Re: Opening an HSA tomorrow...

Yes, in my instance, the custodial fees aren't noticeable yet. The $45 admin fees eclipse it by a magnitude. I have a few years to go, just started my HSA in Jan and there's some moderate out of pocket expenses I can use it for this coming fall so I'm debating what to do (pay out of pocket and save ...
by stimulacra
Thu Aug 17, 2017 2:24 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Opening an HSA tomorrow...
Replies: 10
Views: 728

Re: Opening an HSA tomorrow...

I use Health Savings Administrators. It's very easy to assemble a three fund portfolio there (VTSAX, VTIAX, VBTLX). The annual account administrative fees are a smidge high ($45/year). Other than that no real complaints. The interface isn't great but I only log in 2-3 times a year. It's easy enough ...