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by dekecarver
Mon Nov 21, 2016 5:47 am
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Wealth advisory services
Replies: 68
Views: 4286

Re: Wealth advisory services

well put canon-shooter.
by dekecarver
Sun Nov 20, 2016 6:28 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Wealth advisory services
Replies: 68
Views: 4286

Re: Wealth advisory services

You may find that family/individual vacations (nice ones that you and your wife agree on) and a few extras for her, may get her attention and participation and be a lot cheaper than the: wealth advisory firm, marriage counselor, shrink, and potential legal fees. A wise friend of mine has always said...
by dekecarver
Sun Nov 13, 2016 5:05 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: when to stop contributing
Replies: 15
Views: 2915

Re: when to stop contributing

Thanks for all the replies. My wife and I are state employees (Virginia) with a defined benefit pension. No match on the 457 but we continue to max it out, she is younger than I and I'm over 50. We are both in a profession where employment is stable. Our debt is a few years remaining on a mortgage. ...
by dekecarver
Sun Nov 13, 2016 9:35 am
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: when to stop contributing
Replies: 15
Views: 2915

when to stop contributing

Morning all, I started thinking about our finances a little differently today, moving from contributions/accumulation driven (max roth and deferred comp 457) to see what would happen theoretical if we stopped all contributions now and rode out the current principal ($1.2 mill not counting any person...
by dekecarver
Sat Nov 12, 2016 6:05 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Would you work in Bermuda?
Replies: 27
Views: 3437

Re: Would you work in Bermuda?

I would if I could take the family for the various reasons already mentioned. Making alot of money and spending alot of time away can lead to wounds that may not heal or scars that can't fade away.
by dekecarver
Tue Nov 08, 2016 4:48 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Tipping Fedex/UPS guy?
Replies: 53
Views: 10677

Re: Tipping Fedex/UPS guy?

I've reached my end point with tipping.I'm gonna start showing up to work and say to the boss "Hey man, I gotta out bed this morning after a long day at work yesterday, no sleep last night due to the baby crying and my wife not feeling well, how about a tip for showing up today. Good lord, it s...
by dekecarver
Mon Nov 07, 2016 5:38 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: How much do you plan to save in your 529 plan?
Replies: 105
Views: 13852

Re: How much do you plan to save in your 529 plan?

We have taken a different direction and do not fund a 529, instead we max retirement accounts. We can retire the year our child graduates (retire early) and based on the direction he takes, one or both of us could continue to work those first fours years of college or come up with an alternative pla...
by dekecarver
Thu Oct 20, 2016 5:03 am
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: marcellus mineral rights
Replies: 15
Views: 1421

Re: marcellus mineral rights

dfitz247, thank you for the reply and correction on royalty vs dividend.
by dekecarver
Wed Oct 19, 2016 8:02 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: marcellus mineral rights
Replies: 15
Views: 1421

Re: marcellus mineral rights

Good question regarding selling to the parents, I didn't get a straight answer when I asked, family dynamics? The property is already producing as he receives a monthly dividend, I asked why sell the hen when its producing eggs, the lure of a big payout is burning a hole in the pocket.
by dekecarver
Wed Oct 19, 2016 7:01 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: marcellus mineral rights
Replies: 15
Views: 1421

Re: marcellus mineral rights

Thanks for the input. He owns a third of the mineral rights but not the physical land which is owned by the parents. He is interested in selling his mineral rights.
by dekecarver
Wed Oct 19, 2016 5:02 am
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: marcellus mineral rights
Replies: 15
Views: 1421

marcellus mineral rights

Posting for a friend of mine. He inherited the natural gas and oil mineral rights on approximately 1000 acres in Barbour county WV which is currently kicking out a monthly dividend. He is considering selling his mineral rights and is 1) trying to figure out a fair market price as he has been offered...
by dekecarver
Mon Oct 17, 2016 5:01 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: USAA 2.5% Cash Back Credit Card
Replies: 40
Views: 6113

Re: USAA 2.5% Cash Back Credit Card

I spoke with a USAA rep Saturday and was told 1000 members were selected (rep couldn't tell me how pilot group was selected or what the criteria was) for this card as a pilot program and that potentially the card would be offered out/available ~June 2017 to other members.
by dekecarver
Wed Mar 30, 2016 5:02 am
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Non-coverd vs Covered Shares
Replies: 7
Views: 660

Non-coverd vs Covered Shares

Hello all, I'm in the process of cleaning up my taxable funds account and have a fund (PrimeCap Investors fund) that I am selling off. Some shares are covered and some are not. I have an unrealized gain of about $13K of which practically all is under the non-covered shares. Question, when I sell thi...
by dekecarver
Tue Feb 09, 2016 4:58 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Target Date
Replies: 10
Views: 1314

Re: Target Date

Here is follow up information: The ER is 0.09% for the following 2055 target date fund offered through our 457 plan: Underlying fund holdings: Equity Index Fund E (US Large Cap) 40.7 % BlackRock MSCI ACWI ex IMI Index Fund E (International Stocks) 30.6% Developed Real Estate Index Fund E (Developed ...
by dekecarver
Tue Feb 09, 2016 4:55 am
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Target Date
Replies: 10
Views: 1314

Target Date

Hey guys,
I have access to Blackrock funds through the Virginia retirement 457 plan. I see that the target date funds contain about a 4% slice of commodities. In general, what does this do for a target date fun?
by dekecarver
Sat Jan 02, 2016 10:52 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Engaged...So how do we handle finances now?
Replies: 40
Views: 4160

Re: Engaged...So how do we handle finances now?

Just my opinion based on experience: Don't comingle monies yet. Set up a joint account earmarked for living expenses whereas you both put in a percentage of your take home pay and see how that plays out. Vacations/fun stuff can be funded by you both adding extra to the joint account on an as needed ...
by dekecarver
Fri Jan 01, 2016 7:57 pm
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: Vanguard Fund Returns
Replies: 17
Views: 3845

Re: Vanguard Fund Returns

And Healthcare keeps chugging along. :D
by dekecarver
Mon Dec 28, 2015 6:23 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Keogh Plan
Replies: 3
Views: 509

Re: Keogh Plan

Thank you Spirit Rider for the input.
by dekecarver
Sun Dec 27, 2015 7:37 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Keogh Plan
Replies: 3
Views: 509

Keogh Plan

I'd appreciate feedback on the following situation: My father has a Keogh plan that he established years ago and has indicated he wants to leave it to our 10 year old son. Without any additional information I'd appreciate feedback as to whether this is a simple matter of naming our son as the benefi...
by dekecarver
Mon Nov 30, 2015 7:51 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Elderly in-laws moving in: what to consider?
Replies: 66
Views: 10377

Re: Elderly in-laws moving in: what to consider?

I just changed the title on the recommendation of a couple responses. I agree wholeheartedly this post has been very informative. I've had to take a break in the process to digest the input.
by dekecarver
Sun Nov 29, 2015 7:03 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Elderly in-laws moving in: what to consider?
Replies: 66
Views: 10377

Re: in-laws moving in

Again, thanks to everyone who has offered feedback. We are still sorting out plans, options, considerations/variables etc.. On the addition part, we are definitely factoring in what we would do if this project were just for us. In doing so, moving and enlarging the kitchen popped up this evening. :s...
by dekecarver
Thu Nov 26, 2015 7:51 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Elderly in-laws moving in: what to consider?
Replies: 66
Views: 10377

Re: in-laws moving in

Just want to say thanks to all who have offered feedback. Some validate what I have been saying to my wife and others bring up new things to talk about.
by dekecarver
Wed Nov 25, 2015 7:20 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Elderly in-laws moving in: what to consider?
Replies: 66
Views: 10377

Re: in-laws moving in

Our house is worth ~$500K.
by dekecarver
Wed Nov 25, 2015 7:02 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Elderly in-laws moving in: what to consider?
Replies: 66
Views: 10377

Elderly in-laws moving in: what to consider?

Hi all I’d appreciate feedback on a current situation that is emerging. My wife’s parents are 77 and 83. Both are in relatively good physical health however Mom is in the early stage of dementia that is currently manageable in the home. Dad just gave up his driver’s license. They have determined tha...
by dekecarver
Tue Jun 23, 2015 6:02 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Canoe recommendations
Replies: 23
Views: 2774

Re: Canoe recommendations

I might add even though you did not ask; Whiskeyjack paddles are awesome, unbelievable feel.
by dekecarver
Tue Jun 23, 2015 6:00 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Canoe recommendations
Replies: 23
Views: 2774

Re: Canoe recommendations

Mad River Duck Hunter 16 ft canoe.

I use it specifically for lake touring. Fast, easy paddling, very stable etc.. You won't look back unless you go with something in the 40-50 pound range in a 16 footer.
by dekecarver
Wed May 27, 2015 5:42 am
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Net Worth
Replies: 12
Views: 2839

Re: Net Worth

Thanks for the replies.
by dekecarver
Tue May 26, 2015 9:05 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Net Worth
Replies: 12
Views: 2839

Net Worth

Just a question regarding net worth. Do you count your defined benefit retirement pension as part of your net worth. Ex: If you plan on retiring at 55 and your retirement from State Gov retirement plan is $45K/yr and lets say you plan on living another 35 years :D would you count that as roughly $1,...
by dekecarver
Tue Apr 07, 2015 5:26 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Family member asking for money
Replies: 141
Views: 17957

Re: Family member asking for money

Tough situation because of the family relationship. There comes a time when you gift the $ unconditionally or step out of the gifting business with an objective reason.
by dekecarver
Mon Apr 06, 2015 5:34 am
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Best way for grandparent to give to grandchild
Replies: 4
Views: 1055

Best way for grandparent to give to grandchild

Good morning all, I recently had a discussion with my father who informed that he has established a fund for my 9 year old(his only grandchild) and also has a KEOUGH account that he no longer funds that he will probably leave for for him. I did not get into details with how this was being establishe...
by dekecarver
Fri Mar 06, 2015 6:24 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Wife tired of saving...
Replies: 203
Views: 26936

Re: Wife tired of saving...

After re-reading the thread and picking up on your wife's daily 80 mile drive, she should be the one defining what comfortable is. Hell look at what you guys have accumulated at a young age. Finances is not all always about the numbers, open honest communication is priceless, maybe you guys have tha...
by dekecarver
Wed Mar 04, 2015 5:24 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Wife tired of saving...
Replies: 203
Views: 26936

Re: Wife tired of saving...

Sit down talk with DW. Late thirties, two children, life changes. DW could be experiencing premenapausal changes, just a thought. A lot cheaper talking, figuring out things, making some changes so that all are comfortable rather than waking up too late, regardless of the driving contributor/s. Again...
by dekecarver
Fri Feb 27, 2015 6:04 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Is the first 100k really the hardest?
Replies: 77
Views: 19259

Re: Is the first 100k really the hardest?

Is it hard: It really depends on how much you make and how much you spend.
by dekecarver
Tue Feb 24, 2015 6:49 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Guns for hunting/defense
Replies: 159
Views: 15875

Re: Guns for hunting/defense

Fox and Merkel for upland
Sako for big game
Remington and Merkel for waterfowl
by dekecarver
Wed Feb 18, 2015 5:52 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: How best to use gifted 25k. . .
Replies: 25
Views: 2648

Re: How best to use gifted 25k. . .

Personally I'd invest the money to maximize the compounding principal and time. Once you break the $100K principal milestone, gear up for another. Amazing how money can work for you if you put it to work. On the other hand, if DW wants to buy a few things or take a trip, you'll get more out of that ...
by dekecarver
Sat Jan 24, 2015 3:55 am
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Grandfather wanting to transfer portfolio to kids. Question
Replies: 67
Views: 4248

Re: Grandfather wanting to transfer portfolio to kids. Ques

It's his money. Go along for the ride, learn as much as possible and stay the course or divert when the funds are in your mom's hands. I'd venture to say that getting the old man to a lawyer/tax account would be a futile attempt as most his age and background have no trust or little at most with tho...
by dekecarver
Wed Jan 21, 2015 4:44 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: One milestone achieved, 2 commas
Replies: 4
Views: 1326

Re: One milestone achieved, 2 commas

To answer the two questions: As far as getting here I kinda knew it would happen if my wife and I just stuck with it. We are not high earners compared to others but have always LBM. Never had a problem saving money, spending on the other hand takes me a while. I don't go without what I need. Next mi...
by dekecarver
Wed Jan 21, 2015 6:37 am
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: One milestone achieved, 2 commas
Replies: 4
Views: 1326

One milestone achieved, 2 commas

Hi all, Another poster recently acknowledged hitting a milestone with help from this board. I didn't want to jump on his thread but also wanted to say thanks to the posters on this board for helping me get there as well. I'm not one to run numbers often (maybe once a year) but did so the other night...
by dekecarver
Sat Jan 10, 2015 2:45 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Co-mingling Investments with Partner
Replies: 13
Views: 1709

Re: Co-mingling Investments with Partner

I am a firm believer in keeping some things separate. Now that you have an assumed need to commingle additional assets, I'd suggest that you don't, but rather increase what you both put in your joint account with new money and continue keeping premarital assets separate. Considering both your backgr...
by dekecarver
Fri Jan 09, 2015 4:52 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Getting Married - Want advice merging Portfolio & Taxes
Replies: 24
Views: 2707

Re: Getting Married - Want advice merging Portfolio & Taxes

I would not co-mingle current assets. If you want to co-mingle, do that with what you earn together after married. Or continue to hold finances separate and establish a joint account for household stuff by each putting in a set percentage each month while maintaining you own accounts. That has worke...
by dekecarver
Sun Jan 04, 2015 7:15 am
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: College Funding: Roth TSP vs 529 (Older Military Couple)
Replies: 23
Views: 2035

Re: College Funding: Roth TSP vs 529 (Older Military Couple)

Just a thought regarding funding edu: Why not max out all retirement funds first and invest excess in taxable accounts that you own so that you control, that way there is a retirement foundation laid for say 20-30 years. Then when kiddos are ready for college (it is an assumption that all kids will ...
by dekecarver
Sat Jan 03, 2015 6:26 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: job advice: move to Florida Keys??
Replies: 21
Views: 3937

Re: job advice: move to Florida Keys??

My quick thought based clearly on assumptions: You aren't happy with the current situation. Job wise, take the jump now, you are young with no long term tenure. Relationship wise, 6.5 years and no formal commitment; well it works for some and not for others. Long distance can make the heart grow str...
by dekecarver
Sat Jan 03, 2015 12:07 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Nice couches are pricey, where I can get them for less?
Replies: 62
Views: 18612

Re: Nice couches are pricey, where I can get them for less?

Don't skimp on cheap furniture if you plan to keep it a long time. We just got rid of leather chairs we've had for 25 years, literally wore them out. Expensive at the time but cheap in the long run. I order Bradington Young from Black Lion out of NC for leather furniture. No problems and very good p...
by dekecarver
Sun Nov 23, 2014 9:24 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Dominican Republic: Punta Cana
Replies: 6
Views: 1084

Dominican Republic: Punta Cana

Hello folks,
My wife and I are planning a long weekend trip to Punta Cana this coming March. I'd appreciate any suggestions/experience if you have vacationed in PC. We are looking into an all inclusive package.

Thanks in advance.
by dekecarver
Sun Jun 08, 2014 9:23 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: How To Encourage A Young (Sensitive) Child In Sports
Replies: 115
Views: 8099

Re: How To Encourage A Young (Sensitive) Child In Sports

I'm one of those dad's who helps coach my son's baseball team. Single A level, ages 6-8 going on 9. I got involved because of my son wanting to play not because I wanted my son to play. I can relate to your experience in some ways and offer several thoughts: 1) Have you taken a walk with your son to...
by dekecarver
Sat Mar 29, 2014 4:30 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: "Spinning Off" my 20 Year Old Son
Replies: 71
Views: 7928

Re: "Spinning Off" my 20 Year Old Son

+1. I didn't have no stinking 18th birthday party either :happy Kids these days.... Did you get a Quinceañera or a Sweet 16? How about a Bat Mitzvah? Anything to recognize you as an adult? It doesn't have to be at 18, just at some point in your life. What about a 40th birthday party? I was handed a...
by dekecarver
Thu Mar 20, 2014 6:38 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: 1099r form
Replies: 3
Views: 334

Re: 1099r form

Code 7 is in box 7. The adjacent box in box 7 which has IRA/SEP/Simple is blank. So what I have here is a box: 1:gross distribution 2a: Taxable amount 2b: Total Distribution 3: Capital Gain=0 4: empty 5: Difference between box 1 and 2a 6:empty 7: Code 7 and IRA/SEP/Simple unchecked All other boxes e...
by dekecarver
Thu Mar 20, 2014 6:11 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: 1099r form
Replies: 3
Views: 334

1099r form

Good evening folks I have a simple question regarding a 1099r form on turbo tax and I'm quite satisfied with the self help answer. I surrendered/cashed out a NYL universal whole life ins policy and had a taxable gain in box 2a of the 1099r form received. When I plug that into Turbo tax the screen po...
by dekecarver
Tue Mar 11, 2014 7:55 am
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: Is 529 plans that bad? [White Coat Investor article]
Replies: 35
Views: 3216

Re: Is 529 plans that bad? [White Coat Investor article]

Quote:(2) Signaling effects to the child. Knowing that people cared about you to put the money aside in your name has value.

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