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by Flashes1
Thu Apr 19, 2018 9:19 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Selling a car: how to get paid?
Replies: 60
Views: 3857

Re: Selling a car: how to get paid?

I learned the hard way that a stop payment can be placed on a Cashier's Check (depending on the state and the bank). I never knew that could be done until I thought I lost one.
by Flashes1
Tue Apr 17, 2018 12:37 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Allegiant Airlines...Anyone watch CBS 60 Minutes?
Replies: 55
Views: 5628

Re: Allegiant Airlines...Anyone watch CBS 60 Minutes?

Super cheap flights to Florida from my home airport this spring break saving my family of four over $1,000. Flew newer Air Bus planes both ways, and the gate agents and flight attendants were super friendly. Will fly again.
by Flashes1
Wed Apr 04, 2018 1:51 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: NY passes law to get around SALT limit
Replies: 47
Views: 5640

Re: NY passes law to get around SALT limit

In the meantime, NY tax accountants and CPA's will have a strong 2018.
by Flashes1
Fri Mar 23, 2018 11:19 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Losing friends/family when wealthy
Replies: 118
Views: 10219

Re: Losing friends/family when wealthy

Flashes and assistca1, it sounds like you need new friends. I am fairly confident my wife and I are far wealthier than almost all of our friends, old and new, and have never felt even a twinge of resentment directed at us. We don't flaunt it, though we have an expensive house. Maybe so! I haven't m...
by Flashes1
Fri Mar 23, 2018 11:00 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Losing friends/family when wealthy
Replies: 118
Views: 10219

Re: Losing friends/family when wealthy

In my experience: - The only people who truly root on your success are your parents. ... and hopefully your life-partner, too. I can honestly say that I can't say much to her: 1) a few years ago after I told her about achieving a certain NW milestone she jokingly said that meant should could start ...
by Flashes1
Fri Mar 23, 2018 10:56 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Losing friends/family when wealthy
Replies: 118
Views: 10219

Re: Losing friends/family when wealthy

Thank you Flashes. What you have posted is what I have been experiencing. Yea, it's the old friends I worry about. If they can't support you having a good job and doing well with rental properties then it's probably time to drift away. Just be cognizant that the problem might be with you and acting...
by Flashes1
Fri Mar 23, 2018 10:44 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Losing friends/family when wealthy
Replies: 118
Views: 10219

Re: Losing friends/family when wealthy

Triple post! Sorry! :P
by Flashes1
Fri Mar 23, 2018 10:37 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Losing friends/family when wealthy
Replies: 118
Views: 10219

Re: Losing friends/family when wealthy

double post
by Flashes1
Fri Mar 23, 2018 10:34 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Losing friends/family when wealthy
Replies: 118
Views: 10219

Re: Losing friends/family when wealthy

In my experience: - The only people who truly root on your success are your parents. When you get that big promotion or you buy that big house or make that big investment in a new business----your parents are the only one's who are excited for you without having some kind of ulterior(sp) motive. - O...
by Flashes1
Fri Mar 23, 2018 8:40 am
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Wrapping my head around bond funds
Replies: 56
Views: 4842

Re: Wrapping my head around bond funds

The last 10 years, investors got used to the positive effects lower interest rates had on the returns of their bond funds. That's a long enough period to cement one's expectations that bond funds always increase in value. Now that interest rates are increasing, it's jarring to see those returns turn...
by Flashes1
Mon Mar 19, 2018 10:26 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Those with high savings rate: why?
Replies: 187
Views: 18723

Re: Those with high savings rate: why?

I've had a couple bouts of unemployment that put the fear of God into me.
by Flashes1
Sun Mar 18, 2018 5:49 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Best year round shrub/plant in Northeast for privacy
Replies: 18
Views: 1446

Re: Best year round shrub/plant in Northeast for privacy

Green Giant arborvitae is the greatest screening bush that I know of. Fast growers that can reach up to 40 feet high.
by Flashes1
Wed Mar 07, 2018 8:15 am
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: Move out of TIAA?
Replies: 19
Views: 2017

Re: Move out of TIAA?

My wife's 403b is with TIAA----and I despise it everyday. She's paying a 0.38% fee on a 500 Index vs. 0.04% at Vanguard......so that's costing us a few thousand dollars of extra fees per annum. The day she retires, is the day we leave TIAA.
by Flashes1
Wed Mar 07, 2018 8:00 am
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Portfolio Checkup: What have I missed? Some questions (pension buyout, DW SSA filing)
Replies: 14
Views: 905

Re: Portfolio Checkup: What have I missed? Some questions (pension buyout, DW SSA filing)

I didn't crunch the numbers like my guy Numbercruncher did, but that pension buyout seems very generous compared to other buyouts I've seen posted here. I would be very inclined to take it...and invest it conservatively. You're too old to get into landlording---IMO, beginners should be young men rea...
by Flashes1
Mon Feb 12, 2018 9:47 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: L.L. Bean, Citing Abuse, Tightens Its Generous Policy on Returns
Replies: 41
Views: 4621

Re: L.L. Bean, Citing Abuse, Tightens Its Generous Policy on Returns

Read an article where people were buying tattered old LL Bean things from thift stores for less than $1.00 just so they could return for something new. I'm glad LL Bean is putting an end to that nonsense.
by Flashes1
Sun Jan 28, 2018 7:40 pm
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: 401k millionaires
Replies: 158
Views: 24062

Re: 401k millionaires

I recall when Mitt Romney had many millions in his 401K, some of us tried to figure out if it would be even possible to have vast amount in 401K account given the historical max limits on the annual contribution. I recall the conclusion was we needed to have FANG type equities purchased at pre-IPO ...
by Flashes1
Fri Jan 26, 2018 9:24 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: I bought a stock today - Redfin (RDFN)
Replies: 288
Views: 20670

Re: I bought a stock today - Redfin (RDFN)

If it means anything to you, I never heard of RDFN before now, so there's some room to grow their brand awareness. I say go for it. I like the one poster who said you shouldn't feel guilty if it doesn't deprive someone who depends on you. And I can't say too much because I recently sunk approx. 5% o...
by Flashes1
Fri Jan 26, 2018 12:10 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Sanity check of SS with less than 35 years earnings
Replies: 31
Views: 3685

Re: Sanity check of SS with less than 35 years earnings

I've seen a couple posters say the benefits don't increase much after you reach $2 million of cumulative lifetime income. Not sure if true?
by Flashes1
Thu Jan 11, 2018 7:47 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: wild bird feed
Replies: 43
Views: 1980

Re: wild bird feed

I put out a small bag of Niger seed that my Dad gave me and was astonished by the number of Yellow Finches, which I had previously not seen, swarm on the feeder. Unfortunately, the Niger seed is expensive, but I love Yellow Finches so I occasionally put it out. Squirrels: I love these little daredev...
by Flashes1
Sat Dec 16, 2017 3:58 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: [UPDATED 1/26/2018 ] 55+ Early retirement offer.
Replies: 90
Views: 13051

Re: 55+ Early retirement offer.

How do they pay your 50 week severance? Lump sum or normal 2 week pay cycle?
by Flashes1
Fri Dec 08, 2017 10:29 am
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Do you have any guilty pleasure investments?
Replies: 53
Views: 3488

Re: Do you have any guilty pleasure investments?

I have two actively managed funds from an old 401(k) that I like: Dodge & Cox International, and American Funds - Europacific.

I believe they have both outperformed the Vanguard - Total International Index fund; therefore, I keep them as a guilty pleasure.
by Flashes1
Wed Dec 06, 2017 8:47 am
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: How would you value a business if you considered investing in it
Replies: 30
Views: 2785

Re: How would you value a business if you considered investing in it

The banking world's go-to measurement is an EBITDA multiple. Depending on the Company's growth rate, the multiple is currently 6x-10x EBITDA. There's many exceptions, but that will get you in the ball park. More concerning to me is the OP seemingly having difficulty finding the numbers needed to cal...
by Flashes1
Mon Nov 27, 2017 7:31 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Analysis Paralysis: Can you get to the bottom of things?
Replies: 136
Views: 10073

Re: Analysis Paralysis: Can you get to the bottom of things?

You must embrace, or at least accept, the unpredictability and uncertainty of the future. There's a certain bliss that comes once you internalize that nobody knows what's going to happen, and it's all a series of more or less educated guesses. This. The smartest Harvard trained stock strategist wit...
by Flashes1
Sat Nov 25, 2017 9:57 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Too much house, right?
Replies: 88
Views: 8836

Re: Too much house, right?

I say go for it. We built our dream home 5 years ago and couldn't be happier....although I wish I would have made certain rooms bigger like the Exercise room and Theater Room. You only live once.
by Flashes1
Fri Nov 24, 2017 10:50 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: How do I explain converting old 401k to Roth IRA to someone?
Replies: 3
Views: 565

How do I explain converting old 401k to Roth IRA to someone?

So just like the title says, how do I explain to a longtime retiree how to convert pre-tax IRA/old IRA money to a Roth IRA? Is it as simple as transferring money on Vanguard.com between the two funds? I understand the tax implications, but the retiree believes they need active income to make a Roth ...
by Flashes1
Tue Nov 14, 2017 12:55 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: College student... Financial mess... Need advice...
Replies: 58
Views: 6384

Re: College student... Financial mess... Need advice...

The first loss is often times the least expensive loss.
by Flashes1
Tue Nov 14, 2017 12:26 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Borrowing from parents - what interest rate?
Replies: 52
Views: 4117

Re: Borrowing from parents - what interest rate?

A lot of personal bias leaking into the recommendations. The OP asked what interest rate to pay; not if the board thinks it okay to do it.
by Flashes1
Thu Oct 26, 2017 12:32 pm
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Amazon Prime customers can now give Amazon access to their home
Replies: 53
Views: 5165

Re: Amazon Prime customers can now give Amazon access to their home

Many Americans have firearms. You wake up one morning to the sound of someone walking in your house, forgetting you had a scheduled Amazon delivery....and you start blasting away.
by Flashes1
Mon Oct 09, 2017 6:39 am
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: business owner, what is your income from business and how did you get into successfully business, what's your networth?
Replies: 17
Views: 2739

Re: business owner, what is your income from business and how did you get into successfully business, what's your networ

And there's a 3rd Option: become an outside investor in a private business. You keep your day job, but have upside potential of the business's success. High risk, high reward. I'm in final stages of doing this with a craft beer/restaurant start-up. Very exciting stuff.
by Flashes1
Wed Sep 20, 2017 2:29 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Expat in Norway tax help
Replies: 2
Views: 330

Re: Expat in Norway tax help

The Big 4 accounting firms all have tax professionals in Norway.
by Flashes1
Fri Sep 15, 2017 8:50 pm
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: TIAA Expense changes
Replies: 17
Views: 1512

Re: TIAA Expense changes

I detest TIAA for their high fees. We're paying a 0.39% fee on an S&P 500 Index fund.....and this is with a pretty big hospital. Highway robbery.
by Flashes1
Tue Sep 12, 2017 10:57 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Tips on helping spouse feel that we are truly FI?
Replies: 18
Views: 1755

Re: Tips on helping spouse feel that we are truly FI?

Sounds like she wants to continue earning a pay check. She's been poor and probably doesn't want to go back there. Mid-40's with two young children? It doesn't sound like she's being unreasonable. I grew up middle-class in a wealthy town....the thought of returning to middle-class living terrifies m...
by Flashes1
Tue Sep 12, 2017 7:33 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: When calculating net worth, how do you value your house?
Replies: 167
Views: 11711

Re: When calculating net worth, how do you value your house?

I can't believe we're even having this discussion. Anyone with a day of financial/accounting experience knows Net Worth is Assets - Liabilities. To argue otherwise is ignorant. If you want to exclude home equity in your personal situation, fine, just don't call it your Net Worth----call it something...
by Flashes1
Mon Sep 11, 2017 10:47 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Do I need an Amazon Echo??.....
Replies: 68
Views: 5970

Re: Do I need an Amazon Echo??.....

Until it can perform acts of a sexual nature, I'll hold off.
by Flashes1
Mon Sep 11, 2017 10:28 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: When calculating net worth, how do you value your house?
Replies: 167
Views: 11711

Re: When calculating net worth, how do you value your house?

Since something is worth only what someone will pay for it: I use comps from what similar homes have recently sold for in my neighborhood MINUS a 6% realtor commission.
by Flashes1
Mon Aug 28, 2017 6:57 am
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Struggling with "Live like a Resident" versus "Keeping up with the Joneses"
Replies: 139
Views: 23558

Re: Struggling with "Live like a Resident" versus "Keeping up with the Joneses"

Specific to the OP's situation: it's all about fitting in with one's colleagues and looking the part. If you want to be a partner some day....then start looking and acting like a young partner. Not every partner drives a new S550, but I bet there aren't many driving 10 year old Corolla's either. Fin...
by Flashes1
Thu Aug 24, 2017 12:21 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Sigh...I'm ready for criticism...how am I doing?
Replies: 50
Views: 7408

Re: Sigh...I'm ready for criticism...how am I doing?

He's in the top 5% of income earners, yes, but I think his opening line in the post was more of a comment on how he is faring as compared to other bogleheads that ask "how am I doing?", then proceed to tell us they have $2M+ in investable assets and are looking for validation.... The OP is 32 years...
by Flashes1
Thu Aug 24, 2017 9:03 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Sigh...I'm ready for criticism...how am I doing?
Replies: 50
Views: 7408

Re: Sigh...I'm ready for criticism...how am I doing?

OP is in top 5%---the elite of the elite.

Enjoy being an American, and the benefits that comes with it.
by Flashes1
Sat Aug 05, 2017 8:55 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Beach condo investing
Replies: 32
Views: 4911

Re: Beach condo investing

We were down at Hwy 30A a few weeks ago and it got me to looking at rentals on-line at night. I was getting ready to get serious until I looked at the rental availability of the units------they were solidly booked from mid-May to mid-August, but were completely wide open thereafter. Not good. Additi...
by Flashes1
Thu Aug 03, 2017 12:14 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: How much money do you want to retire?
Replies: 276
Views: 29633

Re: A poll: How much money do you need to retire?

I'm 49 and spouse is 42----want $4.0 million portfolio, and paid-for house in the high six figures. I plan on working to 62, and hope/pray wife will work to 60.
by Flashes1
Thu Jul 27, 2017 2:36 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Living on a boat in HI to save money
Replies: 17
Views: 3262

Re: Living on a boat in HI to save money

I'm not a boater, but to save costs, what about anchoring out at sea at night and then have your wife pick-up/drop-off at a dock? That could be fun.
by Flashes1
Wed Jun 21, 2017 12:07 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Tripped on this this morning - pros and cons? [HELOC as emergency fund]
Replies: 22
Views: 4349

Re: Tripped on this this morning - pros and cons? [HELOC as emergency fund]

We've used our HELOC for this purpose for +10 years. I feel secure my bank would never freeze it due to I) We have 60% equity in our house---assuming the HELCO is 100% drawn, and ii) we bank with a very conservative large bank---if it went down---it would be financial Armageddon, and I would be worr...
by Flashes1
Tue Jun 13, 2017 12:03 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Who takes financial chances and why is this forum so financially conservative?
Replies: 139
Views: 16203

Re: Who takes financial chances and why is this forum so financially conservative?

The only thing about the forum members I would stereotype with being conservative is with cars and a house (and I defy that stereotype in a big way!).
by Flashes1
Fri Jun 09, 2017 6:27 am
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: Does anyone feel they missed out on AMZN, NFLX,TSLA?
Replies: 113
Views: 12133

Re: Does anyone feel they missed out on AMZN, NFLX,TSLA?

I am disappointed particularly because of my job experience lending money to large retailers, I've personally seen the destruction Amazon has caused. Literally every single retailer has been negatively affected by them, so why didn't I buy AMZN?????? It just feels so obvious today. :annoyed
by Flashes1
Thu Jun 08, 2017 6:52 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: I'm considering buying a house in the $800k range.. can I?
Replies: 67
Views: 7942

Re: I'm considering buying a house in the $800k range.. can I?

Edit: just saw OP's page 2 update about already knowing his anticipated spouse.
by Flashes1
Mon May 29, 2017 5:51 am
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: First Post - Inheritance
Replies: 11
Views: 1655

Re: First Post - Inheritance

The services of a good CPA would be a wise investment.
by Flashes1
Fri May 26, 2017 9:00 am
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Portfolio 100% in VTSAX for first 5 years of my career?
Replies: 18
Views: 2050

Re: Portfolio 100% in VTSAX for first 5 years of my career?

I would advise you go to 100% TSM in your circumstances---but I agree with others that you probably should bump up your Emergency Fund a little bit if you do that.
by Flashes1
Tue May 02, 2017 1:35 pm
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Value of Small Business
Replies: 4
Views: 657

Re: Value of Small Business

These kinds of businesses are hard to value (if I understand your example correctly) because most of the businesses' value is tied up with the owner's own hard work. I know someone who owns a mid-sized aluminum scrapping business that buys scrap aluminum and then immediately sells it to a large user...
by Flashes1
Mon May 01, 2017 7:55 am
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Umbrela Insurance is it worth?
Replies: 21
Views: 2732

Re: Umbrela Insurance is it worth?

I'm "cheap" when it comes to insurance (no extra life insurance on my spouse & I), but I even splurged on a $1MM umbrella policy when our NW hit the OP's threshold. It gives me peace of mind.