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PostPosted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 8:33 am    Post subject: Move to Denmark - Be Happy! Reply with quote

Adrian White, a social psychologist at the University of Leicester, rated what he considered to be the happiest countries in the world. According to White’s data, the top 10 countries in the world are:

1. Denmark
2. Switzerland
3. Austria
4. Iceland
5. Bahamas
6. Finland
7. Sweden
8. Bhutan
9. Brunei Darussalam
10. Canada
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 8:37 am    Post subject: Re: Move to Denmark - Be Happy! Reply with quote

Lbill wrote:
Adrian White, a social psychologist at the University of Leicester, rated what he considered to be the happiest countries in the world. According to White’s data, the top 10 countries in the world are:

1. Denmark
2. Switzerland
3. Austria
4. Iceland
5. Bahamas
6. Finland
7. Sweden
8. Bhutan
9. Brunei Darussalam
10. Canada

I want to move to Canada. They speak English, well mostly English.

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 8:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi Lbill--

I find Iceland at #4 somewhat hard to believe given the fact that the country is on the verge of national bankruptcy.

http://cbs5.com/business/icela....35097.html

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 8:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Get a secret Swiss bank account or take bike riding trip through it like Raybo. Cool

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PostPosted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 9:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

bob u. wrote:
I find Iceland at #4 somewhat hard to believe given the fact that the country is on the verge of national bankruptcy.


The ex-patriate Icelanders I know seem to be quite happy.... Very Happy
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 9:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I find Iceland at #4 somewhat hard to believe given the fact that the country is on the verge of national bankruptcy.

Hi Bob - It looks like the study was published in mid-2006, before Iceland's current woes. It might have dropped out of the "top ten" by now. Hard to tell, since the pollsters in Iceland conducting the update study were beaten to within an inch of their lives. Wink Very Happy
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 10:24 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Not alot of diversity in these countries. Just an observation.
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 10:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Forget all of those cold places. Snow shoveling makes me miserable. Bahamas at #5 sounds like my choice. Although I've been there and ventured outside of the gates of my resort and it wasn't a place I felt real safe in.
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PostPosted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 10:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Move to Denmark - Be Happy!


Not quite - that is not a survey of people who moved to Denmark. I imagine if most of us moved to Denmark we'd be quite miserable.

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 5:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

yobria wrote:
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Move to Denmark - Be Happy!


Not quite - that is not a survey of people who moved to Denmark. I imagine if most of us moved to Denmark we'd be quite miserable.

Nick


I have ancestors who fled Sweden, Denmark and Finland to come to the United States. I am told the one from Denmark came here because he was a waiter and got tired of the boss telling him he had stains on his uniform.

I've spent time in both Canada and Switzerland. I liked them both. If money were no object and I could live anywhere in the world, it would probably be Switzerland. It is the single most breathtaking place I've ever been.
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 8:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

bearcub wrote:
Not alot of diversity in these countries. Just an observation.


Good observation.

I like diversity and think it's America's strength. But I think the class warfare here also is a limiting factor. It's often stated that many of those countries have government health care that works and people like. The difference, however, is that it's a homogeneous society and everyone gives and gets about the same and no one feels cheated.

Here, however, there is the perception (right or wrong) that each class owes the other. The "haves" feel they earned it and are being punished by carrying the "have-nots". And the have-nots feel that the haves keep them down and deserve whatever "crumbs" (in their opinion) they can shake free.

So maybe this DOES play into happiness.
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 2:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

How easy is it to actually move to Denmark, or any of these other countries on the list? How about a list of best places to live to that you can more or less just pack up and go to?
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 4:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

My brother in law is Danish and I visit my sister quite often in Denmark. The people are happier because of their mentality. If you transfer an American (or German) for that matter into Denmark he would probably not be that happy.
It is not the country, it is the people. Danish are quite relaxed (my brother in law owns a company but still leaves work at 4pm), enjoy being with family, are great when you have a party and in general know how to enjoy life.
Also they do pay one of the highest taxes in the world but do not complain about it.
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 5:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

German Expat wrote:
My brother in law is Danish and I visit my sister quite often in Denmark. The people are happier because of their mentality. If you transfer an American (or German) for that matter into Denmark he would probably not be that happy.
It is not the country, it is the people. Danish are quite relaxed (my brother in law owns a company but still leaves work at 4pm), enjoy being with family, are great when you have a party and in general know how to enjoy life.
Also they do pay one of the highest taxes in the world but do not complain about it.


I am very happy having Danish for breakfast.
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 5:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

German Expat wrote:
Also they do pay one of the highest taxes in the world but do not complain about it.


That's because they get free health care and students actually get paid money to attend college. That's right--college is free for everyone and they get paid on top of that. Amazing.
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 6:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm skeptical
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 6:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Denmark invented cohousing and today 1% of the Danish population - 50,000 people, the equivalent of 3M people in US - live in cohousing communities.

I'm not suggesting there is any causality at work, but a country that has so many people choosing to live in this more cooperative way is definitely a standard deviation or so away from most of the rest of the developed world (although cohousing is spreading in US and elsewhere, given its financial, lifestyle, and sustainability benefits).
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PostPosted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 7:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Again, regarding the last few posts....what works in Denmark is largely due to a homogeneous society. Here the different groups are always at odds with each other.
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PostPosted: Sat Nov 07, 2009 12:23 am    Post subject: Actually many of those countries listed are diverse Reply with quote

A quick glance at Wikipedia reveals that Canada, Brunei, Switzerland, Sweden, and the Bahamas are all very diverse countries. The very formation of Switzerland was the merger of four different ethnic groups (German speaking, Italian speaking, Romansh Speaking and French speaking). This idea that a country must be homogeneous to be happy doesn't seem to hold water. Perhaps there is another reason all of these countries are happy places? One thing they all share are very low rates of poverty and high rates of social spending.
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PostPosted: Sat Nov 07, 2009 12:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

What is cohousing? How is that different from having a roommate?
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PostPosted: Sat Nov 07, 2009 1:45 am    Post subject: Re: Actually many of those countries listed are diverse Reply with quote

Booger99 wrote:
A quick glance at Wikipedia reveals that Canada, Brunei, Switzerland, Sweden, and the Bahamas are all very diverse countries. The very formation of Switzerland was the merger of four different ethnic groups (German speaking, Italian speaking, Romansh Speaking and French speaking). This idea that a country must be homogeneous to be happy doesn't seem to hold water. Perhaps there is another reason all of these countries are happy places? One thing they all share are very low rates of poverty and high rates of social spending.


Someone who immigrated to the United States posted, I think at Bogleheads, a few months ago that life in the U.S. was cruel and hard. There is some truth to this.

The same every-man-for-himself attitude that has made this a country of limitless opportunity for those who live to strive has left many in the dust. It's somewhat of a trade-off.

I marvel at my own ancestors who jumped on ships and headed across an ocean to a strange land and uncertain fate. I'm not sure I'm made of the same stuff.
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PostPosted: Sat Nov 07, 2009 7:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I had thought that many of these countries are happier than the US because more of the populace takes satisfaction in simpler things.

Less psychological desire for the biggest house, most expensive car, highest paying job, etc. More psychological desire for time to spend with people, savoring basic food/drink, etc.

Surely part is a recognition of economic and other realities, but the outcome sure seems to be greater happiness.
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PostPosted: Sat Nov 07, 2009 10:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I bet people in the European countries on the list are very surprised that the US has a heated debate about having universal health insurance right now. Europeans coming to the US are surprised that some people here (a lot) can not afford to have health insurance and therefore must suffer medically. They are also surprised to see homeless people.

People over there are more happy because they do not have to worry about the future in their lives. They are paying more taxes and into Social Security and health insurance premium, but they do not have to worry to end up in the streets and sick, especially in a major medical emergency. Also, I notice that we have some very restrictive criminal laws - unknown in Europe - which can derail the life of a successful worker and conservative person forever based on a single minor incident. I.e., a single DWI, etc. will get you fired in major companies. Christian foregiveness is lacking here.

I came from Europe and have compared these facts all my life. When you are successful, everything is great here though.
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PostPosted: Sat Nov 07, 2009 10:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

While based in the U.S. I've had the opportunity to work in two countries in Western Europe.

My observation is that while they are certainly happier than those in the U.S. they pay for their lifestyle through taxes.

Not to say that is wrong. Who's to say that one who pays less tax (and pays for "lifestyle" privately) is different than those who pay more tax and has it as a "right".

In the end (IMHO) we all pay the same. It depends on your personal belief if you want any goverment to pay for your basic lifestyle or you cover it (if you wish/can) on your own.

Not to be a political post at all (I'm not stating what I believe in), but IMHO, it may be a situation that it all comes out even, in the end...

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 07, 2009 11:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm happy in the U.S.
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PostPosted: Sat Nov 07, 2009 11:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

How do the researchers explain the fact that, according to WHO, most of those countries, and all of the European ones, have higher suicide rates than the U.S.?
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PostPosted: Sat Nov 07, 2009 11:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Suicide probably depends on a few things (the unhappy "tail" of the distribution, and social mores about self-injury), but I'd guess it doesn't actually depend on the mean happiness.

A sad thought would be that general happiness could make the tail more miserable.
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chaz wrote:
I'm happy in the U.S.


Good 4 U. BTW, me too Laughing ...

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The US is a decent place to live, but I won't say it's the best. How could I? I've never lived in other countries. I don't blindly believe in anything. A lot of people in other countries think that "my country is the best" just like most Americans do. It's a shame because I feel that many Americans are ignorant in thinking everything is great and perfect in the US. There is a lot that needs to be improved in this country. Maybe a country in Europe or someplace else is a better place to live because of the reasons listed in this thread -- or maybe not.
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I wonder if more people in those "happy" countries see themselves as part of a community (or society) than we do here in the US. We glorify the individual and the life goals sought often address the needs and aspirations of individuals. I'm not saying this is wrong or undesirable but it carries a heavier burden of responsibility on the shoulders of the individual, with pressures to achieve and create advancement for the individual. Many other countries speak of the group vs. the individual; and it could be the extended family, clan, or society. The burdens and responsibilities are spread among more individuals than we have here, with all hopefully working for the common good (of course, I'm generalizing).
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PostPosted: Sat Nov 07, 2009 5:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Harold wrote:
I had thought that many of these countries are happier than the US because more of the populace takes satisfaction in simpler things.

Less psychological desire for the biggest house, most expensive car, highest paying job, etc. More psychological desire for time to spend with people, savoring basic food/drink, etc.


I tend to agree with that. Americans are often too materialistic in general and forget what life is really about.
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I think there are lifestyle issues in these countries which can't be separated from public policy. --Political/economic remarks deleted--

For me, I feel it isn't as much a 'happiness' issue as what I would call a 'contentedness' issue. I think there is a lot less worry in the countries on the list. Most of Western Europe has health care that's not tied to one's job, and has relatively good social safety nets. If you lose your job in Denmark, you don't lose your health insurance- and that's one reason for people to worry a lot less. If you get a serious illness in Denmark, you probably don't face bankruptcy. Shorter work weeks (and less expectation that workers will all work overtime), more vacation time, and long maternity/paternity leaves, to me, seem to also play a part as to why these countries may rate higher in 'happiness'.

The flip side to this is, yes, higher taxes, less opportunity for becoming extremely wealthy, higher unemployment, etc. I would also say it's important to note that happiness can't really be measured objectively, and that one person's version of what would make them happiest, in terms of public policy, would be the opposite of what someone else would prefer.

The US, as a culture, seems to believe very strongly in the individual. There is a sense, to me, that if you succeed, it is because of yourself, and if you fail, it is because of yourself. In most of Western Europe, I feel like there is more collectivism... A sense that if you succeed, it is (at least partially) because of your society, and that if you fail, your society has failed you.
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Here I am on a fine Saturday thinking about the meaning of happiness - is it the Aristotlean version of "eudaimonia," the Socratic equating of virtue (arete) with happiness, or something more pedestrian and utilitarian? Or were the Epicureans right? Or, perhaps, in this meaningless, non-teleologic universe, the question is itself pointless and meaningless?

And then I stumble upon this thread, where not only do I discover that an academic psychologist in Leicester has the authoratative answer but that he has determined a way to measure it in a meaningful way and actually has rankings!

Forget the philosopher's stone (gold is in a bubble anyway and will certainly crash to below the value of lead soon), this is the real McCoy! And who cares that Bhutan ranks higher than the U.S. I am going straight to the "Methods" section to find the meaning of life. I will report back soon.

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OK, so it appears the paper was published in 2007 - with early release presumably leaked to the press by Denmark - in something called "Psychtalk", but I cannot seem to access it for free (who would give this stuff away, afterall).

The best I can tell from the media reports and Wikipedia descriptions is that the methodology is primarily to ask people how they feel. Perhaps the report should be: People in Denmark say that they are happier than you in a statistically significant way.

(Parenthetical sarcasm break: I'm obviously missing how the logic is not a tight circle. In other areas of the various descriptions of measurement you read that they also incorporate statistical measurements including GDP/capita, pollution, education level achieved, etc. and then quote the author as saying that wealth, health, and education levels appear to be the key. So you rank people based on a set of criteria and the "discover" that those criteria are they key to being ranked highly?).

You could also call this the "I am happier than you" map, otherwise known as the "smugness" map.

But perhaps smugness is too nice in some cases: it turns out that the people of Bhutan are happy because the government finally expelled the etnically Nepalese.

With these kind of "scientific" advances, how could anyone be sad?

And they even have conferences: Gross National Happiness. You can't make that name up.

P.S.

Edit to say: you really ought to look at the link. SNL or the Onion could not do a better parody.


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azxcvbnm321 wrote:
What is cohousing? How is that different from having a roommate?


Cohousing is a living arrangement combining private homes/apartments with a larger than typical amount of common space, including a "common house" that typically has a shared kitchen and large dining room in which shared meals are at least occasionally served. Typically cars are sequestered in one portion of the development, so that there's more walking around and kids have more freedom to roam. In a cohousing community, one generally knows one's neighbors, and interacts with them quite a bit. But, since homes are private, the level of community interaction can be quite varied. The legal structure in US is typically condominium, but can be a cooperatively owned corporation.
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How do the researchers explain the fact that, according to WHO, most of those countries, and all of the European ones, have higher suicide rates than the U.S.?


Im sure you've heard the expression:

"Im so happy I could die"


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I wonder if more people in those "happy" countries see themselves as part of a community (or society) than we do here in the US. We glorify the individual and the life goals sought often address the needs and aspirations of individuals.

I think there might be something to this argument. I lived in Toronto for several years. As a large metropolitan city, it was clean, safe, had an excellent mass transit system, had no abysmal slum areas, and so forth. The murder rate was lower than Sioux City, Iowa. Culturally, the "public good" seemed to take precedence over Wild West individual rights; for example, in the form of urban planning, public parks, public safety, and so forth. It was not possible to simply come in and build a McDonald's on some street without going through an urban planning review process. Result: none of the chaotic, ugly shopping strips and strip malls that infect U.S. cities. Frankly, I found it to be quite a comfortable and enjoyable place to live and wish I could live in a city like that again. Solely as a function of my living environment, as a U.S. citizen and resident I was happier there than in the many places I've lived in the U.S.
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Another way of saying that someone is more complacent than us. People in other countries are just happy with the status quo. The mentality in the US is to always improve, which implies that something can be better than the status quo.

I have immigrated to the US 21 years ago and have been to many countries. I have to tell you there is no place in the world like the US. You can do anything and be anyone you want.

How many Danish or Iceland-ians have ever traveled to the US and seen its freedom, riches, and magnificence? The best they can do is go to Paris, London, Berlin, and Rome and think that they are in elite cities. I've been to these places and although the trips were nice, they don't have the cleanliness, respect (as seen by lack of ramps, elevators for the disabled), and lifestyle enjoyed in the US. Just a few examples.

Food tastes better here, activities are plentiful, and everyone with a decent job can enjoy most things.
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PostPosted: Sun Nov 08, 2009 12:09 pm    Post subject: Re: Actually many of those countries listed are diverse Reply with quote

[quote="Eureka"]
Booger99 wrote:


The same every-man-for-himself attitude that has made this a country of limitless opportunity for those who live to strive has left many in the dust. It's somewhat of a trade-off.

.


This person nailed it

In the US its dog eat dog - you can do very well, but many suffer especially as the world grows flatter.

In the Scandanavian countries its a different lifestyle, as is much of Western Europe. They work to live, in the US we live to work. We have much more material things, bigger houses, better toys but are we happy? If acquisition of assets is #1, we'd be happy. But many Europeans spend far more time with family, friends... have 6 weeks of vacation and essentially the entire month of August. You sit in cafes and talk to people. Just a different life and it would be hard for us frantic Americans to adjust.

There is far less wealth disparity - they have their rich, but the very poor are also more rare. In the US we are sold "for a chance to be a millionaire" we need to have this system of dog eat dog. Which is true, but many are falling behind IMO. Harder to become rich in those countries, but also much harder to really fall behind. Obviously the taxes are the reason - social benefits offset by higher costs.
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PostPosted: Sun Nov 08, 2009 2:21 pm    Post subject: Move to Denmark and be happy. Reply with quote

I think it was Abe Lincoln who said, "People are as happy as they make up their mind to be."
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Anyone care to make a wager on when Adrian White will pack up and move to Bhutan?
(how about never)
I'm willing to bet he likes his capitalist trappings of teaching, tenure, and being paid
well to do nonsense studies.(with most likely a generous retirement package)

Id be curious to know how many brain surgeons, cardiologists, places like
Bhutan have?

The problem is basing everything on all having exactly the same is just as dumb
as basing everything on just happiness.
(I was pretty happy when I was 10 years old. Doesn't mean that's what I would want my
whole life to be)

Its funny. There's a lot of talk about Bodgleheads being frugal.
I bet in Bhutan they'd be "the rich". (heh, heh)


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PostPosted: Sun Nov 08, 2009 8:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Harold wrote:
I had thought that many of these countries are happier than the US because more of the populace takes satisfaction in simpler things.

Less psychological desire for the biggest house, most expensive car, highest paying job, etc. More psychological desire for time to spend with people, savoring basic food/drink, etc.

Surely part is a recognition of economic and other realities, but the outcome sure seems to be greater happiness.


I think you have identified one of the key factors in happiness.
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How many Danish or Iceland-ians have ever traveled to the US and seen its freedom, riches, and magnificence? The best they can do is go to Paris, London, Berlin, and Rome and think that they are in elite cities. I've been to these places and although the trips were nice, they don't have the cleanliness, respect (as seen by lack of ramps, elevators for the disabled), and lifestyle enjoyed in the US. Just a few examples.

Food tastes better here, activities are plentiful, and everyone with a decent job can enjoy most things.


I think you meant to say Danes and Icelanders. I would imagine many have been to the US and I have met some of them. After all 747s do fly from Copenhagen and Reykjavík.

Respect can be viewed from different perspectives. How about all the "disabled" people who abuse the placard system. It's an endemic problem in San Francisco.

I'd be interested in which food tastes better here? McDonald's? A French bistro?
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PostPosted: Sun Nov 08, 2009 9:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I think you meant to say Danes and Icelanders. I would imagine many have been to the US and I have met some of them. After all 747s do fly from Copenhagen and Reykjavík.


Actually I meant Danish (specially cheese) and Icelandians.
Those 747's are carrying americans.

Paladin wrote:
Respect can be viewed from different perspectives. How about all the "disabled" people who abuse the placard system. It's an endemic problem in San Francisco.


Then San Fran has enforcement issues. Try getting around in France in a wheel chair. How about starting with air conditioning to start with.

I'd be interested in which food tastes better here? McDonald's? A French bistro?[/quote]

There are thousands of restaurants of every nationality in the US with excellent food. French, Italian, Seafood, Steakhouse, Japanese, Mediterranean, you name it. Don't even try to make an argument on food with McDonald's, which by the way, you can laugh all you want at it, but is the largest restaurant chain in the world for a reason with increasing popularity in France. Try having a prime well aged steak or chicken/pork/fish every meal of every day. They are skinnier in Europe because they can't afford to eat well there.
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PostPosted: Sun Nov 08, 2009 9:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I think you have identified one of the key factors in happiness.


But I do agree with you that happiness is just a state of mind.
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PostPosted: Sun Nov 08, 2009 9:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Babakhani wrote:
Paladin wrote:

I think you meant to say Danes and Icelanders. I would imagine many have been to the US and I have met some of them. After all 747s do fly from Copenhagen and Reykjavík.


Actually I meant Danish (specially cheese) and Icelandians.
Those 747's are carrying americans.

Paladin wrote:
Respect can be viewed from different perspectives. How about all the "disabled" people who abuse the placard system. It's an endemic problem in San Francisco.


Then San Fran has enforcement issues. Try getting around in France in a wheel chair. How about starting with air conditioning to start with.

Paladin wrote:
I'd be interested in which food tastes better here? McDonald's? A French bistro?


There are thousands of restaurants of every nationality in the US with excellent food. French, Italian, Seafood, Steakhouse, Japanese, Mediterranean, you name it. Don't even try to make an argument on food with McDonald's, which by the way, you can laugh all you want at it, but is the largest restaurant chain in the world for a reason with increasing popularity in France. Try having a prime well aged steak or chicken/pork/fish every meal of every day. They are skinnier in Europe because they can't afford to eat well there.


They are skinnier in Europe because of portion size NOT because they can't afford to eat well there. I can't believe you actually said that.

I'm not going to respond to your other comments because it is pointless.

Good luck to you.
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PostPosted: Sun Nov 08, 2009 9:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Paladin wrote:
Babakhani wrote:
Paladin wrote:

I think you meant to say Danes and Icelanders. I would imagine many have been to the US and I have met some of them. After all 747s do fly from Copenhagen and Reykjavík.


Actually I meant Danish (specially cheese) and Icelandians.
Those 747's are carrying americans.

Paladin wrote:
Respect can be viewed from different perspectives. How about all the "disabled" people who abuse the placard system. It's an endemic problem in San Francisco.


Then San Fran has enforcement issues. Try getting around in France in a wheel chair. How about starting with air conditioning to start with.

Paladin wrote:
I'd be interested in which food tastes better here? McDonald's? A French bistro?


There are thousands of restaurants of every nationality in the US with excellent food. French, Italian, Seafood, Steakhouse, Japanese, Mediterranean, you name it. Don't even try to make an argument on food with McDonald's, which by the way, you can laugh all you want at it, but is the largest restaurant chain in the world for a reason with increasing popularity in France. Try having a prime well aged steak or chicken/pork/fish every meal of every day. They are skinnier in Europe because they can't afford to eat well there.


They are skinnier in Europe because of portion size NOT because they can't afford to eat well there. I can't believe you actually said that.

I'm not going to respond to your other comments because it is pointless.

Good luck to you.


The portion size is smaller because food is a lot more expensive there.
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PostPosted: Sun Nov 08, 2009 9:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I'd be interested in which food tastes better here? McDonald's? A French bistro?


Moto Cuisine

Come on, who else uses a LASER (I refuse to lower case this) to cook food!?!
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PostPosted: Sun Nov 08, 2009 9:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

GeekedOut wrote:
Paladin wrote:
I'd be interested in which food tastes better here? McDonald's? A French bistro?


Moto Cuisine

Come on, who else uses a LASER (I refuse to lower case this) to cook food!?!


I would LOVE to eat there. Molecular gastronomy was invented by a Hungarian physicist. Oh my! I think that is in Europe!!

I also agree with you about the correct spelling of LASER.
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PostPosted: Sun Nov 08, 2009 10:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I would LOVE to eat there. Molecular gastronomy was invented by a Hungarian physicist. Oh my! I think that is in Europe!!

I also agree with you about the correct spelling of LASER.


Should I book your reservation at CERN. It's the hottest new place in Europe, I hear. A lot of physicists to cook your meal.
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