Hi Zelda,zelda wrote:I find Tim Field's work in workplace bullying especially helpful:
http://www.bullyonline.org/workbully/amibeing.htm
particularly the "why me?" part on that page.
There is also a yahoo group related to that site. Some of the people there became ill from being bullied in the workplace.
http://finance.groups.yahoo.com/group/bullyonline/
It's hard to know, when you are in the middle of it, when it is time to leave. If you wife's health is being affected, and your young children are being affected,... she needs to get out. Her health, and your kids' well-being, are the important things. Once she is out, she will say "I wish I hadn't waited so long to get out of there."
Welcome to the Forum! Thank you for making your first post in a thoughtful and useful way,
Victoria