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Re: Trapped deciding between 2 Jobs: Can I renege on my offe

A major issue for me would be whether I wanted to be in NYC/NJ or Tennessee (especially other than Nashville e.g. Oak Ridge). Are you sure you don't care? Put your interests ahead of the companies. When your interests align with the companies things will work out. When your interests don't align wit...
by stan1
Thu Nov 20, 2014 9:16 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Trapped deciding between 2 Jobs: Can I renege on my offer?
Replies: 34
Views: 2406

Re: Should we tip the caregiver

Your wife should go with what she feels is right. I know I would be very appreciative of a competent caregiver especially if it is a long term relationship. It's possible your wife appreciated the caregiver more than her mom (the patient). Agree it should be a gift -- although depending upon the cir...
by stan1
Thu Nov 20, 2014 7:50 am
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Should we tip the caregiver
Replies: 22
Views: 1265

Re: Cost to furnish a condo

$2,000 to $50,000+ -- depending upon what you choose.
by stan1
Sun Nov 16, 2014 5:38 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Cost to furnish a condo
Replies: 29
Views: 2506

Re: Dealing with pressure for "social donations" at work

Ganacel, are you a contract physician? If so seems like they are asking the contract docs to behave like partners which is a little strange.
by stan1
Thu Nov 13, 2014 10:11 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Dealing with pressure for "social donations" at work
Replies: 163
Views: 7646

Re: Retiring Parents Set in Risky Ways

I would try the tact that you as the heir would rather have parents pay some capital gains taxes now in order to diversify than inherit all of the stock with stepped up basis. See if the will start on a 5 year plan to convert 25% of their holdings in this stock to an index fund. Also, sit down and c...
by stan1
Mon Nov 10, 2014 9:30 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Retiring Parents Set in Risky Ways
Replies: 46
Views: 3848

Re: Should I claim this damage

Thanks for this thread. I scraped our 2013 Camry with a plastic garbage pail several times, car has shallow scrapes now. Toyota dealer wants around $1,500, deductable is $500, same as poster has. Therefore I also question what to do. Per this post I will go to another body shop and see what their p...
by stan1
Sun Nov 09, 2014 12:35 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Should I claim this damage
Replies: 26
Views: 2779

Re: Does anyone use mozy (off site computer backup program)

I triple protect myself: 1) My Dropbox account is linked to my Documents folder so everything that goes into that folder is backed up to Dropbox. Likewise photos go to Google Drive. 2) Changes to these folders are also backed up to Mozy every hour 3) Changes to these folders are also backed up to a ...
by stan1
Sun Nov 09, 2014 12:28 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Does anyone use mozy (off site computer backup program)
Replies: 13
Views: 1050

Re: Messy baby restaurant etiquette

We'd like to get him used to eating at the same time as us. Having dinner together as a family was important to us as children, and we would like to continue that sentiment with our family. We don't want him to get in the habit of having his food in front of him as soon as he sits down, before we h...
by stan1
Sun Nov 09, 2014 8:43 am
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Messy baby restaurant etiquette
Replies: 75
Views: 4401

Re: Attend new car "launch event" for free meal?

I would RSVP with a disposable email address.
by stan1
Sat Nov 08, 2014 3:00 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Attend new car "launch event" for free meal?
Replies: 10
Views: 815

Re: ObamaCare vs. Private Insurance??

Just curious: does anyone know if the physician reimbursement rates are different between the four "medal" levels: Bronze, Silver, Gold, Platinum? I have an employer plan but have looked at my state's marketplace. I would be going with a BCBS Gold plan if I needed to buy insurance from an ...
by stan1
Fri Nov 07, 2014 9:29 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: ObamaCare vs. Private Insurance??
Replies: 105
Views: 8761

Re: When do you buy a new home computer?

The last two laptops I've replaced were due to display failures. Both were over 4 years old so I bought a new one without even pricing a display replacement. As for backups I have important data backed up 3 ways: Mozy, Dropbox, and local USB drive. Both times the display failed I did the restore wit...
by stan1
Fri Nov 07, 2014 8:08 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: When do you buy a new home computer?
Replies: 52
Views: 3783

Re: War on Debt

You probably won't like what I'm going to suggest below and will give a dozen reasons why you can't do it, but given the high rate student loans you need to do something extreme if you want to get this situation taken care of before your kids are in college. You have physician-level student loans bu...
by stan1
Fri Nov 07, 2014 9:06 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: War on Debt
Replies: 247
Views: 23869

Re: War on Debt

Are you and your wife looking for jobs that will get your pay bumped faster? With the baby your wife might want a job with less time in the car as well (also cutting back her $6K/year gas expenses)!
by stan1
Thu Nov 06, 2014 8:55 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: War on Debt
Replies: 247
Views: 23869

Re: Investing in Art, Antiques, and Collectibles and wines

WIth the internet the marketplace for this stuff has become a lot more transparent, which has resulted in prices coming down for most items that aren't museum quality (or equivalent). Brokers/dealers kept prices high by limiting supply and strong-arm marketing tactics ("there are only 1000 of t...
by stan1
Sun Nov 02, 2014 2:58 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Investing in Art, Antiques, and Collectibles and wines
Replies: 53
Views: 3725

Re: Vanguard Tax Managed Capital Appreciation Fund

Total Stock Market and Tax Managed Capital Appreciation are both excellent choices. I would not say Tax Managed Capital Appreciation is preferred. Total Stock Market is the best way to hold small cap stocks in a taxable account. Total Stock Market has 3772 holdings whereas TM Cap Appreciation has 80...
by stan1
Sun Nov 02, 2014 1:42 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Vanguard Tax Managed Capital Appreciation Fund
Replies: 5
Views: 828

Re: Track your car's fuel use (mileage)

I use Fuelly for to track mileage on my current car and love it for that purpose. I find it less useful for benchmarking because there are a lot of factors impacting mileage: city/highway, different fuel formulations, topography, driving style. Many people create Fuelly accounts and use it for for a...
by stan1
Sun Nov 02, 2014 12:28 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Track your car's fuel use (mileage)
Replies: 31
Views: 1952

Re: Should I refi with MAX cashout????

Just curious, why are you doing the refi? If you want the lower mortgage payment in order to help meet the increased expenses with children the last thing you would want to do is borrow even more. You are doing great and are on track to have your house paid off before your kid(s) are in college, the...
by stan1
Sun Nov 02, 2014 12:15 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Should I refi with MAX cashout????
Replies: 9
Views: 738

Re: Short term reserve question.

Uncle Pennybags wrote:
mickeyd wrote: a $5000 CD NFCU (APY 5%)
I'm going to have to check with my credit union about a CD. Is that 5% or 0.5%?


One time special offer back in September. Navy Federal Credit Union had a one year 5% (five percent) CD limited to $5,000.
by stan1
Sat Nov 01, 2014 3:16 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Short term reserve question.
Replies: 22
Views: 1435

Re: Being laid off soon: Thinking of changing my AA

Based on your assets ($1.1M) and expenses ($35-40K per year) and age I think you are at the point where you need to manage your risk to a level you are comfortable with, so yes you might go down to 40% or 30% equities. Preserving what you have is more important than making more. You also might want ...
by stan1
Sat Nov 01, 2014 2:41 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Being laid off soon: Thinking of changing my AA
Replies: 11
Views: 1338

Re: where to place dividends in taxable acct.?

I don't reinvest any dividends in a taxable account. They go to a money market fund and then I buy whatever I need to buy to maintain my asset allocation. Also, I use December dividend payouts (swept to my money market account) to fund my IRA contribution in January.
by stan1
Sat Nov 01, 2014 2:27 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: where to place dividends in taxable acct.?
Replies: 9
Views: 810

Re: Washington DC Condo - Rent or Sell??

DC rental market has been crazy the past few years. For me I would use the location and desirability as a measure of how well the property will stand up as an investment in the future. If it is within a 5-10 minute walk to a Metro station and restaurants/stores I'd be more inclined to keep it than i...
by stan1
Sat Nov 01, 2014 2:21 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Washington DC Condo - Rent or Sell??
Replies: 7
Views: 883

Re: iPad Air 2 - 16 or 64 Gig?

I got the ipad air 64 gig last year, at about 30% full now. :( I wouldn't count on icloud - icloud only has a small space for free, more costs more, per month! And if you back up some stuff you consider essential there (apps) it quickly eats up all the small free space they allow you. Why back up a...
by stan1
Sat Nov 01, 2014 2:13 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: iPad Air 2 - 16 or 64 Gig?
Replies: 42
Views: 3143

Re: Coupons? Do you live by them?

We seldom see coupons for things we buy. We don't buy items at the grocery store that contain lots of sugar or artificial sweeteners so that rules out most of what I seem to see coupons for. There are very few things I would buy just because I had a coupon for it.
by stan1
Sat Nov 01, 2014 2:05 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Coupons? Do you live by them?
Replies: 66
Views: 4038

Re: Would you use TurboTax in this scenerio?

Turbo Tax will work fine -- as long as you enter the data correctly. As others have said print out the return and review it at least twice before you send it in to make sure you haven't entered something incorrectly. Math errors in TT software are very rare; data entry errors are very common.
by stan1
Thu Oct 30, 2014 10:38 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Would you use TurboTax in this scenerio?
Replies: 11
Views: 962

Re: Company force moving me to headquarters -what to expect

There is no industry standard; it's going to be very situation dependent. It's hard to plan for this until it happens so I'd recommend patience until the company is ready to make a specific offer. I would not call HR to ask about relocation because they will give you a generic answer (if they give o...
by stan1
Thu Oct 30, 2014 8:20 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Company force moving me to headquarters -what to expect ?
Replies: 8
Views: 1140

Re: New appliances - Stainless Steel or not?

We went with white appliances when we bought our house in 1999. Dishwasher and refrigerator have been replaced with new white appliances. I don't think we'll lose many prospective buyers when we sell because we don't have stainless appliances. At some point people will find the cabinets and granite ...
by stan1
Wed Oct 29, 2014 8:14 am
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: New appliances - Stainless Steel or not?
Replies: 56
Views: 3381

Re: Closing a house on Thursday but...

Take a deep breath and enjoy the new house.
by stan1
Wed Oct 29, 2014 8:05 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Closing a house on Thursday but...
Replies: 21
Views: 2178

Re: Should I use 50k Delta miles for a $600 flight?

But in terms of use of my existing miles, if we trust that Delta is in fact going to offer more seats at Level 1 (ie. the best deal) in general, then my miles should have more leverage/value. Nice to know the one-ways are also going to be available. I always felt Delta miles were overall a good dea...
by stan1
Sun Oct 26, 2014 2:58 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Should I use 50k Delta miles for a $600 flight?
Replies: 73
Views: 4525

Re: Should I use 50k Delta miles for a $600 flight?

I'm in agreement with most of the others: use them when you can, especially if you don't travel very often. Airlines are being managed as businesses now and the privileges that come with "loyalty" are rapidly declining for people who don't spend a lot of money. If you travel frequently and...
by stan1
Sun Oct 26, 2014 2:47 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Should I use 50k Delta miles for a $600 flight?
Replies: 73
Views: 4525

Re: Vanguard total international

You've linked to an index that is an all world index --including US equities. Total International does not include U.S. equities -- but does include Canada. If you want to look at an all-world fund Vanguard offers Total World (VTWSX/VT). The issue with China and some other emerging market economies ...
by stan1
Sun Oct 26, 2014 12:03 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: Vanguard total international
Replies: 6
Views: 1275

Re: LASTPASS Password Program

I use LastPass and think it is great. I'm no uber-techie like some on this list but one does have to step back and consider what the real risks are here. Unless you are a billionaire who has gained the specific attention of hackers who are trying to break into your accounts specifically because the...
by stan1
Sun Oct 26, 2014 11:54 am
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: LASTPASS Password Program
Replies: 46
Views: 4512

Re: Home Sale Disclosure Advice

When I sold my mom's 45+ year old house I included a list of all the work she had done on it with the year the work was completed. That way it was clear to the buyer that the roof over the house was new and everything had been repainted, the roof over the garage was done 10 years ago, the deck was r...
by stan1
Sun Oct 26, 2014 11:27 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Home Sale Disclosure Advice
Replies: 7
Views: 950

Re: LASTPASS Password Program

I use at least 3 different computers on a daily basis plus a smart phone. I need access to passwords at work and while travelling for work and pleasure. There is no way to eliminate risk. LastPass does what I need it to do, which is lets me use a unique, 16+ character password on 100+ sites that I v...
by stan1
Sat Oct 25, 2014 9:52 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: LASTPASS Password Program
Replies: 46
Views: 4512

Re: Best health insurance plan for a bad year (cancer)?

Yes, you need to look at the co-pays for name brand drugs. Hopefully you'll see something like $30 or $50 per prescription, not 50% of cost.
by stan1
Sat Oct 25, 2014 9:24 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Best health insurance plan for a bad year (cancer)?
Replies: 30
Views: 2348

Re: iPad Air 2 - 16 or 64 Gig?

32 vs 64 would be a reasonable debate but that's not a choice; 16 vs 64 is easy. Get the 64 unless you need to put a lot of videos on the device then you'll need the 128.
by stan1
Wed Oct 22, 2014 8:17 am
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: iPad Air 2 - 16 or 64 Gig?
Replies: 42
Views: 3143

Re: Windows XP

If you understand the risks such as phishing and downloads from the web and believe you know what you are doing, fine. I would not recommend that you let your family members who might be less careful use this computer (especially if they don't understand the risks).
by stan1
Sun Oct 19, 2014 10:51 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Windows XP
Replies: 62
Views: 3038

Re: Is the backdoor Roth IRA legal?

Because the law doesn't allow high income earners to contribute directly to a Roth IRA. The law does allow high earners to make Traditional IRA contributions and the law does allow high income earners to convert a Traditional IRA to a Roth IRA (this generates revenue). Best not to ask why the law is...
by stan1
Sun Oct 19, 2014 7:15 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: Is the backdoor Roth IRA legal?
Replies: 13
Views: 1823

Re: When can I afford to buy a home?

Don't buy a house when you are 22 unless you have hobbies like woodworking or auto repair that really need a lot of customized space. Travel, save, spend time together with your wife before you have kids, complete your education, and establish your careers. I bought a house when I was 22 and it did ...
by stan1
Sun Oct 19, 2014 6:10 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: When can I afford to buy a home?
Replies: 21
Views: 2564

Re: Buying a house without a realtor

Check to see if Redfin is operating in your area. I'd consider working with them as a buyer in a slow to normal paced market -- not so sure I would if I was selling or if I was buying in a fast paced market where a property would have multiple offers within days. If the market is moving fast I think...
by stan1
Sun Oct 19, 2014 6:02 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Buying a house without a realtor
Replies: 43
Views: 2847

Re: Help Choosing Investments and Coordinating Debt Paydown

I think you need to look closely at expenses. I think you need to figure out a way to put $4,000 per month towards paying off the credit cards, car, and student loans. It will take about 3.5-4 years. There I said it, and it should be possible if you are making $140K/year plus bonus. That's approxima...
by stan1
Sun Oct 19, 2014 5:11 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Help Choosing Investments and Coordinating Debt Paydown
Replies: 35
Views: 2338

Re: Has Anyone Found Great Travel/Vacation Deals Due To Ebol

It's a little too early. See how it plays out over the next few weeks.

Although good for people who want to travel and aren't in panic -- but not good for people who rely on travel/tourism to make a living.
by stan1
Sun Oct 19, 2014 4:59 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Has Anyone Found Great Travel/Vacation Deals Due To Ebola
Replies: 5
Views: 828

Re: Benefits to a larger than necessary house (as children g

Having the parents across the street is very different than having them a mile away. Some people would not want parents across the street -- but in your case it sounds like your wife really appreciates it. Also I would not worry about resale if you are planning to stay in the house for many years (u...
by stan1
Sun Oct 19, 2014 4:46 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Benefits to a larger than necessary house (as children grow)
Replies: 31
Views: 3349

Re: Anyone cancelling travel plans?

Actually the opposite. I'm hoping this creates some good buying opportunities so we can go on some luxury vacations at a great price. We got some great airfare and cruise bargains back in 2009/2010.
by stan1
Sat Oct 18, 2014 10:28 am
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Anyone cancelling travel plans?
Replies: 117
Views: 6402

Re: What tax software do you use and why

They all work. Most important thing for the user is to review what's in the return and validate the data entry rather than assuming it has been auto-downloaded properly. Math errors are unlikely -- missing data can easily happen. This is especially true if you skip around through the interview proce...
by stan1
Sat Oct 18, 2014 10:08 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: What tax software do you use and why
Replies: 54
Views: 2632

Re: How does Vanguard shield ETF shareholders from turnover

Part of the answer is that modern indexes (such as the CRSP indexes Vanguard uses now as well as the MSCI indexes they used previously) have "buffer zones" which reduce turnover. The buffer zone avoids a see-saw condition where one year a company is in, next its out, next its in, etc. and ...
by stan1
Sat Oct 18, 2014 9:57 am
 
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: How does Vanguard shield ETF shareholders from turnover cost
Replies: 20
Views: 1506

Re: Dashlane App - Recommened or Not?

LastPass and Dashlane are very similar. I have been using LastPass for over 4 years and am very happy with it. They've made a lot of incremental improvements.
by stan1
Mon Oct 13, 2014 5:14 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Dashlane App - Recommened or Not?
Replies: 4
Views: 377

Re: Airline carry on limits

You should be fine with the 22x14x9 bag so long as it isn't obviously bulging and overstuffed -- unless you are in the last boarding group then the aircraft might be out of overhead space and you'll have to gate check it to your final destination. A small backpack that easily fits under the seat in ...
by stan1
Mon Oct 13, 2014 5:12 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Airline carry on limits
Replies: 59
Views: 3269

Re: Renting a car at St. Louis Airport

You might see if you can get a better rate from a downtown location and take the light rail to/from the airport.
by stan1
Mon Oct 13, 2014 1:26 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Renting a car at St. Louis Airport
Replies: 11
Views: 690

Re: Shed into gym?

It's a personal preference. Some people will see it as a plus (for the buyer it could be a gym, workshop, storage, office, pool hall, teen room); some will be neutral; and some will see it as a negative (too big). Are they putting in a bathroom? If they do it I'd recommend pulling a permit for a job...
by stan1
Mon Oct 13, 2014 11:53 am
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Shed into gym?
Replies: 23
Views: 2129

Re: Sale of house-closing tomorrow, buyer is backing out

Stuff happens. Move on. Don't take it out on the Realtor. Have her contact the other potential buyers who were previously turned away to see if they are interested.
by stan1
Mon Oct 13, 2014 11:43 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Sale of house-closing tomorrow, buyer is backing out
Replies: 60
Views: 5279
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