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Re: Possible bullying at work

somebody care to explain why it's so horrible to put whatever her grievances in writing. I though documenting these types of things was a good idea, documentation can't be ignored. 10% of the time clarifies something where two people didn't see eye to eye, now have perspective. 89% of the time care...
by sesq
Thu Jun 06, 2013 1:42 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Possible bullying at work
Replies: 87
Views: 6722

Re: Closing my brick & mortar bank acct

I've been at USAA for 38 years. I've never seen their building(s), and I don't imagine that I ever will. Winner. I think I am at about 15 years of various online banks including USAA. The mobile apps really make it a no brainer. I used to pile up random little checks (rebates, refunds, birthdays) a...
by sesq
Thu Jun 06, 2013 1:27 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Closing my brick & mortar bank acct
Replies: 29
Views: 2343

Re: Cash back credit card + no foreign transaction fee?

You could get another capital one card or a discover card for no annual fee cash back cards w/o forex fees. Or you could get any one of a number of travel cards that have annual fees w/no forex. The hotel cards where your annual fee buys you a free night are decent deals. Chase: Sapphire Pref. or In...
by sesq
Mon May 13, 2013 11:12 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Cash back credit card + no foreign transaction fee?
Replies: 20
Views: 1764

Re: Credit card - how long before reapplying, after cancelin

Its 18 to 24 months from when you last *applied* for an AA card. Other banks are different.

Also, there are links on flyertalk that will guide you to a 50K sign on bonus.
by sesq
Mon May 13, 2013 10:48 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Credit card - how long before reapplying, after canceling?
Replies: 7
Views: 675

Re: How Much Did You Spend on Your Engagement Ring??

I tried to talk my wife out of a diamond (debeers, etc), but its what she wanted. Fine. We did a little window shopping to see styles and then it was left to me. I read up and saw that I saved a lot going just below the carat (.93) or any benchmark size. Even in the stores they had to weigh them to ...
by sesq
Sat May 11, 2013 2:03 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: How Much Did You Spend on Your Engagement Ring??
Replies: 254
Views: 11016

Re: What about spendthrift Dad (filial support laws)?

Here is a pretty map of the applicable states.

http://assets.aarp.org/www.aarp.org_/ar ... lialpiety/

Dreadful concept.
by sesq
Mon May 06, 2013 4:49 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: What about spendthrift Dad (filial support laws)?
Replies: 81
Views: 4829

Re: SUV recommendations

My kids are 4 & 7. We got a highlander because my wife (minivan refused) wanted the feature where you can take the center seat out of the second row and access the back without moving car seats. She is a honda fan, but that feature was must have to her. I think volvo (too much) and one american ...
by sesq
Mon May 06, 2013 11:56 am
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: SUV recommendations
Replies: 44
Views: 2754

Re: Best advice for hotels & flights to Las Vegas

I think there is a thread on fatwallet about tipping the check in person at hotels to try to get an upgraded room. Worth a shot. If don't have points, comps or find a deal you should compare rates with Amex FHR (I think you need the plat card) or Virtuoso (travel agent) who will book close to rack r...
by sesq
Fri May 03, 2013 2:23 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Best advice for hotels & flights to Las Vegas
Replies: 13
Views: 1344

Re: Family Vacations: Your Favorites, ages + tips requested!

This thread is really interesting. Thanks for posting it OP. My kids are 7.5 and 4.5, they are just starting to get their legs under them for travel. We caught disney at the right moment when my daughter was 6 and the dinner with the princesses were really exciting. We have San Diego (Seaworld, lego...
by sesq
Fri May 03, 2013 2:13 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Family Vacations: Your Favorites, ages + tips requested!
Replies: 31
Views: 2508

Re: Payoff Car loan 0.9%?

I think there is a benefit to paying off debt, but unless you have some cashflow concerns I'd send any extra to the mortgage.
by sesq
Thu May 02, 2013 10:10 am
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Payoff Car loan 0.9%?
Replies: 34
Views: 1971

Re: The Points Guy

I prefer Flyertalk as some of the bloggers (not accusing TPG) will pitch an affiliate link to a card when a better version of the same card is out there. They make pretty good bank on their offers (no harm in earning a living). The threads on FT are usually quite comprehensive on what is the best de...
by sesq
Wed May 01, 2013 3:43 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: The Points Guy
Replies: 37
Views: 3762

Re: Can You Ace FINRA's Financial Literacy Quiz?

I got 14 out of 15. I misssed the SIPC question as I thought they were asking about insuring against the failure of a company holding your investments. I guess I misread the question. I shouldn't have gone so fast. :oops: BearWolf That was the one I missed also, for the same reasons. I also thought...
by sesq
Tue Apr 30, 2013 11:20 am
 
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: Can You Ace FINRA's Financial Literacy Quiz?
Replies: 111
Views: 4893

Re: Is Flood Insurance worth while?

I am not in a floodzone, and my house is substantially higher than a creek that is semi-nearby. The first few years I had the house I bought the flood insurance at around $300/yr figuring I was insurring against rain runoff since the creek would need almost biblical events to reach me. I just got my...
by sesq
Tue Apr 30, 2013 11:05 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Is Flood Insurance worth while?
Replies: 26
Views: 1361

Re: Frontline--The Retirement Gamble

A thought occurred to me about Mr. Zweig's (sp?) comment about the fund managers holding index funds. Seems like that would be the easiest way to stay in compliance with insider trading reviews that must occur in big banks. When I was in public accounting that was the conclusion I drew. I re-watched...
by sesq
Mon Apr 29, 2013 12:52 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: Frontline--The Retirement Gamble
Replies: 310
Views: 28242

Re: Movies at Home on Demand

I have cut back the clutter of discs, except kid movies for the car. Even those get scratched up, so I'd rather be digital. I use most all of the services. FIOS/Comcast - on demand, just gets added to the bill, works well but usually the most expensive. Amazon Prime - we like the shipping, mostly us...
by sesq
Mon Apr 29, 2013 12:28 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Movies at Home on Demand
Replies: 17
Views: 1183

Re: College Financial Aid assistance

From what I have read about FASFA is that you can shift your assets into non counted assets (retirement, annuities, etc), but if you are earning a serious income you will be disqualified from getting aid based on you income. So mucking about with your assets would be pointless.
by sesq
Tue Apr 16, 2013 4:26 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: College Financial Aid assistance
Replies: 13
Views: 785

Re: Poll: Boglehead travel

I answered 1, since we do a week a year "someplace" with the kids. I guess it qualifies as elaborate since I do some goofy things to capture the miles/points needed to keep it cheap. We also drive 350 miles twice a year to see one side of the family, and 100 miles about 3-5 times a year to...
by sesq
Mon Apr 15, 2013 5:15 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Poll: Boglehead travel
Replies: 41
Views: 2410

Re: Mortgage and credit

You get the bump for having a mix of credit types while the mortgage is on your credit report including the 10 years its listed as paid off. But IMHO if your score is 740 or greater it isn't worth a moment's thought. And the trick to being 740 or greater (once your credit is established) is basicall...
by sesq
Mon Apr 15, 2013 11:59 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Mortgage and credit
Replies: 6
Views: 520

Re: [Poll] My Tax-Advantaged Accounts > $3m?

I answered it "may". I said likely first but then I saw the bit about individual accounts only. In my case the question is whether I'd retire early before hitting that # individually. I am 41 now, my current retirement assets are 1/2 mil, and my annual contributions and match are about 35K...
by sesq
Wed Apr 10, 2013 11:08 am
 
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: [Poll] My Tax-Advantaged Accounts > $3m?
Replies: 55
Views: 3898

Re: Bogleheads' accomplishments

I answered somewhat below expectations because I have pulled some 12 or 13 year old spreadsheets that put me about 20% behind schedule, which is pretty much the result of 2008's markets (real estate and stock) and paying off my wife's student loans when we got married. Around 2008 I cut my forecasts...
by sesq
Mon Apr 08, 2013 2:06 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Bogleheads' accomplishments
Replies: 72
Views: 5717

Re: Roth 401(k) versus 401(k) for high income investors?

Some of this would depend on which state you plan on living in and in which state you plan on retiring, correct? For instance, retiring in Pennsylvania means no taxes on 401k distributions. It wouldn't make much sense to use a ROTH there. If you planned on moving from a low tax state to a high tax ...
by sesq
Wed Apr 03, 2013 5:35 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: Roth 401(k) versus 401(k) for high income investors?
Replies: 44
Views: 3974

Re: Childrens' Allowance

We pay 50 cents x age in years, starting at 5. Basically 25 cents goes to church, and the rest is 50/50 between an account they will get when they go to college (not for tuition, just cash to them) and money they can just spend or save. Default is save. ING Direct, now Cap One has a nice kids accoun...
by sesq
Wed Apr 03, 2013 4:55 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Childrens' Allowance
Replies: 67
Views: 3314

Re: Maybe turn down that business trip nex time...

Was this money to house and feed you while your wife worked in the remote location? The classic issue that comes up on this kind of issue is the CEO is off to Hawaii for board meetings (or more likely, Bermuda) and the spouse and kids ride the corp jet and come along and stay in the lush suite. The ...
by sesq
Mon Apr 01, 2013 12:01 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Maybe turn down that business trip nex time...
Replies: 18
Views: 3493

Re: Can a person with no income get a rewards Credit Card

Under the card act of 2009, a regulation that took effect in 2011 (confused yet) requires that issuers can no longer look to household income, and must now use an individual's income (& assets) in making credit decisions. This rule was specifically drafted to address the pattern of companies mar...
by sesq
Mon Apr 01, 2013 11:52 am
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Can a person with no income get a rewards Credit Card
Replies: 12
Views: 903

Re: [POLL] Are zillow price estimates accurate for your home

Its generally 10-15% too low in my stable area w/few foreclosures. I answered 10% off in the poll. I don't think about it too much and would laugh at a buyer who tried to use it as a negotiating tool. I like using it to be nosy and to check sales transaction, but its coverage is spotty (half the sal...
by sesq
Thu Mar 28, 2013 4:34 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: [POLL] Are zillow price estimates accurate for your home?
Replies: 62
Views: 5031

Re: Net Worth: Loss of Control Angst

One thing I do is I project my current retirement assets with a range of real returns, ranging from 1% to 8% (in 1% increments) over 10, 15, 20, 25 year increments. I then compare the resulting number against various withdrawal rates to see different probabilities that my holdings will cover my expe...
by sesq
Thu Mar 28, 2013 4:22 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Net Worth: Loss of Control Angst
Replies: 36
Views: 3251

Re: 529 which state?

Should a grandparent put the 529 in his name, the parents (his son/daughter) or the grandkids. Why? How much money does the parent of the gkids make? If low enough to qualify for aid the grandparent money should only kick in to cover the senior year of college (its "income" to the student...
by sesq
Thu Mar 28, 2013 11:04 am
 
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: 529 which state?
Replies: 25
Views: 1488

Re: Are you Walking in your Father's footsteps?

Monetarily I imagine we are similar as I am in the same profession as his first career, a whisper ahead in title and role, and we are both savers by nature. By way of accomplishments - far behind. By the time my dad was 40 he had been married twenty years (nine for me), had four children (two), and ...
by sesq
Wed Mar 27, 2013 2:37 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Are you Walking in your Father's footsteps?
Replies: 60
Views: 5195

Re: Mark Cuban on Cash

I like Mark, but he isn't very boglehead-ish.

Mark Cuban on asset allocation:

http://blogmaverick.com/2011/01/24/wall ... llocation/
by sesq
Tue Mar 26, 2013 12:02 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Mark Cuban on Cash
Replies: 24
Views: 3792

Re: Poll: Umbrella Insurance

Are these assets judgement proof for everyone--or is it something you did to arrange it that way? The bulk of my net worth is in 401(k), IRA's and 529 plans. The rest is home equity and personal vehicles. I filed a homestead for the house, but that protection varies by state (TX and FL unlimited, a...
by sesq
Fri Mar 15, 2013 3:21 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Poll: Umbrella Insurance
Replies: 34
Views: 2433

Re: Any of you Bogleheads NOT going to retire?

My father retired at 58, got bored and opened up an estate planning practice. He is in his late 70s now and swears he will never retire and he wants to live forever. I wish him luck. Personally, I am shooting for 55 and out.
by sesq
Thu Mar 14, 2013 11:08 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Any of you Bogleheads NOT going to retire?
Replies: 35
Views: 4001

Re: Poll: Umbrella Insurance

I pay $200 and change for $2M in umbrella. Most of my assets are judgement proof (homestead, retirement accounts), but I wanted to protect against wage garnishment during my prime earning years.
by sesq
Thu Mar 14, 2013 11:03 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Poll: Umbrella Insurance
Replies: 34
Views: 2433

Re: Dave Ramsey Defends His Investment Advice

I had never heard about him suggesting an 8% withdrawal rate. I am just thinking of all the heat a 3% vs 4% SWR generates. Wow. I like Dave. He doesn't broadcast near me these days, but I like to pick him up when I am on the road. Its entertaining but flawed, like Suze. Clark Howard is less flawed, ...
by sesq
Thu Mar 14, 2013 11:00 am
 
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: Dave Ramsey Defends His Investment Advice
Replies: 120
Views: 9932

Re: Your Home Equity / Net Worth Ratio?

1. 23%
2. No
by sesq
Thu Mar 14, 2013 10:35 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Your Home Equity / Net Worth Ratio?
Replies: 69
Views: 2552

Re: Anyone Choosing to Retire in Maryland?

From a tax perspective, cross the river into VA.
by sesq
Mon Mar 11, 2013 11:57 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Anyone Choosing to Retire in Maryland?
Replies: 76
Views: 4293

Re: Pay to refinance - or not?

I think the payback matters, but its hubris to think you can catch the bottom.

I have taken the higher rate, and no (or very low, e.g. appraisal only) cash out of pocket in my last 3 refi's including the one currently underway (Pen Fed 5/5, 2.625%).
by sesq
Fri Mar 01, 2013 2:34 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Pay to refinance - or not?
Replies: 9
Views: 532

Re: What is a Boglehead's net worth?

I reduced my net worth for the poll by taking into account the reduction of my Traditional IRAs by projected taxes. Not doing so is counting imaginary money. Hazzah! I do this too. People are too afraid of estimates (future taxes, home value, etc). There is nothing wrong with changing them in the f...
by sesq
Wed Feb 27, 2013 9:41 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: What is a Boglehead's net worth?
Replies: 80
Views: 10562

Re: What credit/charge cards do you have in your wallet?

I've seen the Citi Forward card mentioned quite a few times. My understanding is that you get "Thank You Points" instead of actual cash back. For those of you that use the card, do you redeem the points for gift cards (it looks like you could get a $25 gift card for 2,500 points) or this ...
by sesq
Wed Feb 20, 2013 6:25 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: What credit/charge cards do you have in your wallet?
Replies: 114
Views: 6214

Re: Is $2M umbrella enough for $200K income + no assets?

LH wrote:If one loses a lawsuit, 1 million dollars or whatever, with zero assets as OP, one would declare bankruptcy, as they are in fact, bankrupt. then they could not go after future wages right?


My understanding is bankruptcy isn't as easy as it used to be if you have a substantial income.
by sesq
Wed Feb 20, 2013 11:01 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Is $2M umbrella enough for $200K income + no assets?
Replies: 31
Views: 2954

Re: Is $2M umbrella enough for $200K income + no assets?

I have $2M, comparable premium.

Most of my assets are judgement-proof (home equity with homestead, retirement assets), but my income (fluctuates a bit higher than OP) is not. In my state they can garnish 25% of gross. Worth insuring against.
by sesq
Tue Feb 19, 2013 4:18 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Is $2M umbrella enough for $200K income + no assets?
Replies: 31
Views: 2954

Re: Pay off mortgage, or sell and roll into the dream home.

T Seems like if the builder (I most likely will have to build) would be willing to bring down the price if he was giving a large amount up-front. Does anyone have a view on this? Do not give a builder a "large amount" up front. A reputable builder can finance the land acquisition, materia...
by sesq
Tue Feb 19, 2013 4:12 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Pay off mortgage, or sell and roll into the dream home.
Replies: 20
Views: 1494

Re: TIRA to Roth IRA Conversion - Tax Impacts?

Do you have TiRA's besides the non-deductible ones? You have to allocate the basis. So if you have IRA 1 - FMV, 6000, basis 5000 and IRA 2 FMV - 14,000, basis 0 - you would allocate the basis over the total IRA's, 5,000/20,000. So if you converted IRA 1 the calc would be 6,000 - 6000*5/20 = 4,500 ga...
by sesq
Tue Feb 19, 2013 4:05 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: TIRA to Roth IRA Conversion - Tax Impacts?
Replies: 12
Views: 709

Re: Why [do] people have 2 IRAs.

I have a TIRA for myself and a Roth IRA from conversions. My wife has a Roth IRA. I'm confused by your statement that you have a "Roth IRA myself for me and my wife." Can a married couple have an IRA for both of them jointly? My wife and I have always maintained separate IRA's. No. They a...
by sesq
Mon Feb 18, 2013 10:58 am
 
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Why [do] people have 2 IRAs.
Replies: 33
Views: 2927

Re: Who taught you about money?

I am one of four, and I am my parent's best disciple when it comes to money matters. My mother taught my frugality and open a passbook savings account when I was about 10. I loved going into the bank with a deposit and then seeing the type machine update the interest in the account. Very tangible, v...
by sesq
Wed Feb 13, 2013 5:16 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Who taught you about money?
Replies: 69
Views: 2945

Re: Legos

I had recently commented to my wife that Lego's seemed to have lost their sole with these kits (my childhood was scenario 2). Then I remembered that when I was a kid I did occasionally build scale models, which is essentially the same thing as scenario 1. Right now for me personally, my 4 year old s...
by sesq
Wed Feb 13, 2013 3:27 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Legos
Replies: 41
Views: 2910

Re: Closed a Credit Card - Still Counted in Average Length?

Yes, it will stay in the calc. And will for ten years. But don't worry, a year from now it will be a credit line that is 13 months old (still closed), and in two years it will be 25 months old, and so on until ten years from now when it will fall off the report. The folks who tell you to keep your o...
by sesq
Mon Feb 11, 2013 3:59 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Closed a Credit Card - Still Counted in Average Length?
Replies: 2
Views: 292

Re: Backdoor Roth IRA

Thanks Ep Del.
by sesq
Wed Feb 06, 2013 7:04 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Backdoor Roth IRA
Replies: 37
Views: 2885

Re: early retire--Is it for me?

My father retired at 58, traveled for six months, decided retirement was boring and went into business for himself as an estate attorney. He is now 77 years old and swears he never wants to retire again (and he wants to live forever). I'd say he has slowed down his hours lately, and I can't imagine ...
by sesq
Wed Feb 06, 2013 6:19 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: early retire--Is it for me?
Replies: 38
Views: 3542

Re: Backdoor Roth IRA

I can probably look this up myself, but is there any advantage to using "fresh" Roth accounts to hold the conversion? I have two old Roth IRA's - one from when they first came out (circa 2000?), and one converted in 2010. I thought there was a 5 year clock on converted IRAs where if you to...
by sesq
Wed Feb 06, 2013 1:17 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Backdoor Roth IRA
Replies: 37
Views: 2885
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