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Re: Rich Spouse, Poor Spouse

So my spouse is uber-wealthy compared to me I'm a big fan of the one pot model. But if you want to keep separate finances for some reason, then uber-wealthy should just pay 100% of the tax. It's mostly from uber-wealth anyway, and that's a small gesture of appreciation for putting up with the wealt...
by downshiftme
Thu Jul 24, 2014 7:25 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Rich Spouse, Poor Spouse [Tax filing apportionment]
Replies: 77
Views: 4866

Re: Purchasing Food at Work

My DW makes my lunch every day. Not much effort if you choose the right foods. Shouldn't that be: Not much effort if you choose the right DW. If you have refrigeration available, it's easy to make up a week's worth of lunches (leftovers, sandwiches, salads) and mix it up so you don't eat the same t...
by downshiftme
Thu Jul 17, 2014 6:12 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Purchasing Food at Work
Replies: 41
Views: 3966

Re: A question for the Bogleladies or those who can consult

There are guys working at Victoria's Secret to help you. I think the idea is that you buy something, gift it to her, then she goes to the store to return it and gets what she wants or needs. Most states specifically outlaw merchandise returns of underwear. I would certainly not want to shop at a st...
by downshiftme
Tue Jul 15, 2014 12:46 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: A question for the Bogleladies or those who can consult one
Replies: 70
Views: 5528

Re: Have you quit your job because of your boss?

That pension is very attractive. For only two more years, it seems like a great idea to try to qualify for it. Taking some time off for surgery, while still accruing time towards pension might be a great maneuver. Leaving and planning to come back later seems destined to fail, just too many things c...
by downshiftme
Mon Jul 14, 2014 6:32 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Have you quit your job because of your boss?
Replies: 66
Views: 7129

Re: Hitting "The Number" too early

Hitting the number on a big upswing in the market is not the same as picking a random point in time and seeing if you are at or above your number. I'm very cautious about making irrevocable moves, like leaving a job I would find hard to replicate, when reversion to mean is likely to propel me back b...
by downshiftme
Tue Jul 01, 2014 9:16 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Hitting "The Number" too early
Replies: 49
Views: 5384

Re: do you lie about your finances to friends

I am happy to talk personal finances with friends and generally try to offer helpful advice to anyone who asks for it. I'm pretty vague about my own situation, but not untruthful. So far I am 100% ignored by everyone who asked, except my kids. It turns out even when they asked, they didn't really wa...
by downshiftme
Tue Jul 01, 2014 9:09 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: do you lie about your finances to friends
Replies: 103
Views: 8949

Re: Matching capital gains and big expenses

So far, I'd say I'm more the luckiest than the unluckiest. My vague guesses for how much I'd have to save to pay for education have resulted in almost exactly the right amount being available. There's no chance of any needs-based aid, so no amount of income or not will make any difference there. I d...
by downshiftme
Thu Jun 26, 2014 12:02 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Matching capital gains and big expenses
Replies: 4
Views: 284

Matching capital gains and big expenses

My son will be attending a private college this fall and I am expecting it will cost nearly $60,000 for each of the next four years. Leaving aside all the discussion about how much he should pay and how much I will pay, how much loans and how much financial aid may be available, let's simply assume ...
by downshiftme
Wed Jun 25, 2014 10:11 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Matching capital gains and big expenses
Replies: 4
Views: 284

Re: Timing with the market at the high?

If you are willing to accept the principle that the long term trend of the market is up, which is a basic core element in the reason why we invest in equities, then the market must spend an appreciable time at new highs, as it pushes higher for the long term. Not that that growth is guaranteed to be...
by downshiftme
Mon Jun 02, 2014 4:35 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Timing with the market at the high?
Replies: 26
Views: 2682

Re: Social Security at 66 vs. 70: A Bird in the Hand?

Remember reading a recent article that said SS benefits are capped at ~$2650/mo, so need to recompute break even. This would indeed completely change the analysis. But I have never seen any reference to such a rule in any documents or articles I have ever read about Social Security. Can you provide...
by downshiftme
Mon Jun 02, 2014 4:30 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: Social Security at 66 vs. 70: A Bird in the Hand?
Replies: 54
Views: 4042

Re: I need some "hand-holding" right now...

OP panicked and pulled everything out of the market in 2008 and sat on the sidelines for years missing the recovery. OP is panicked that the US is about to experience hyper-inflation and everything will become worthless. OP is panicked that new laws about foreign accounts will lead to the collapse o...
by downshiftme
Sun May 25, 2014 11:59 am
 
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: I need some "hand-holding" right now...
Replies: 51
Views: 5334

Re: Advice on house title - unmarried couple

These people are in their 30's -- and one of them IS a lawyer. Why do you feel the need to give some advice? Have you been asked for it? If not, then this would seem to the their business and not yours, no matter how strongly you feel about it. If you have been asked for advice, then what are the co...
by downshiftme
Sun May 18, 2014 2:10 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Advice on house title - unmarried couple
Replies: 30
Views: 2049

Re: Gave two weeks notice a week ago - benefits wrapup quest

What my company did, however, when it knew or believed that the employee giving notice was headed for a competitor, was walk the employee out the door and only pay that employee through that actual day worked and on which they gave "two weeks notice". While this may be technically legal i...
by downshiftme
Sun May 18, 2014 2:02 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Gave two weeks notice a week ago - benefits wrapup questions
Replies: 22
Views: 3565

Re: Lawyer recommends trust

Of course he recommends a trust. Lawyers love to draft trusts. They pay a lot more than wills and there are likely ongoing trustee fees, which he or a lawyer friend of his have a reasonable chance of collecting, too. Unless he can give a good reason why you need a trust, such as a specific tax advan...
by downshiftme
Mon May 12, 2014 8:03 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Lawyer recommends trust
Replies: 81
Views: 5210

Re: Are Tornado Shelters Worth the Cost?

Having previously lived in tornado country and survived a couple by seeking shelter, there's no way I would live there again without a suitable shelter, basement, or equivalent. True, the odds are in my favor and even the two times a tornado damaged homes on my block I wasn't killed and probably cou...
by downshiftme
Fri May 09, 2014 7:25 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Are Tornado Shelters Worth the Cost?
Replies: 52
Views: 3688

Re: Interesting Thought on Washington GET Program as Investm

No real analysis here, but my observations, the GET program buy rates are a significant premium over the value of the underlying tuition. You are supposed to be paying tuition now for use later, but the premium means you pay significantly more than current tuition for the promise of tuition equivale...
by downshiftme
Fri May 09, 2014 7:10 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Interesting Thought on Washington GET Program as Investment
Replies: 7
Views: 675

Re: Should wife take new job offer- pregnant? FMLA issues?

She was told by a VP that she would not be eligible for the position because they are hiring from outside (using the reason that she would be promoted over co-workers, so it would be awkward to manage her previous co-workers) This seems to kill all hope of promotion at the current company. You cann...
by downshiftme
Fri May 09, 2014 6:48 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Should wife take new job offer- pregnant? FMLA issues?
Replies: 24
Views: 1328

Re: HELOC

I'm also interested in securing a HELOC and have plenty of equity to support it. My old line expired but I'm finding no one offers terms like the terms prime minus 1% that I had on the old line any more. Any idea where to shop for the best (low to zero closing cost) terms for a HELOC. Excellent cred...
by downshiftme
Wed Apr 09, 2014 5:23 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: HELOC
Replies: 11
Views: 912

Re: Laid off today... TODO list?

dgdevil wrote:Batteries, stationery from the stationery cupboard - always useful in your next life. Stealing office supplies would not be on my todo list. As part of a group layoff, a guy in my office stole some supplies on his way out. He was caught and lost his severance. The company also changed...
by downshiftme
Wed Apr 02, 2014 4:24 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Laid off today... TODO list?
Replies: 97
Views: 11972

Re: Social Security Statement Now Online?

I have created an online SSA account and was able to view my earnings record there in the past, but since Jan 1 of this year (2014) I have been unable to log in. I always get the message This service is not available at this time. Please try again during our regular service hours (Eastern Time): I ...
by downshiftme
Mon Mar 24, 2014 7:37 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: Social Security Statement Now Online?
Replies: 32
Views: 3542

Re: non-compete [Employer NDA and Non-Compete agreements]

From what I've seen and read about Non-Compete Agreements is that they are generally very difficult to enforce and really only work if the employee was quite high up the corporate ladder. I've heard of them being thrown out for being too geographically broad and/or too lengthy (time-wise). Unless a...
by downshiftme
Tue Mar 11, 2014 8:16 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: non-compete [Employer NDA and Non-Compete agreements]
Replies: 35
Views: 1638

Re: Tipping for take out

No, tipping for take out is not customary. If the place is primarily a sit down restaurant and they are doing me a favor by providing take-out, then I will tip generously. But if they are primarily take-out, or do a substantial take out business, then tipping seems inappropriate. I tip the wait staf...
by downshiftme
Mon Mar 10, 2014 7:35 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Tipping for take out
Replies: 57
Views: 5280

Re: Any indoor seed starters?

Around here, that is how they have been catching pot growers, the police get notified of a spike in electricty use. Then the police go out with a thermal camera and see if there is a hot spot in the house due to grow lights. That has been enough for the police to get a warrant. I have off and on st...
by downshiftme
Fri Feb 28, 2014 3:22 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Any indoor seed starters?
Replies: 30
Views: 1698

Re: Where to buy polo shirts?

JC Penney has nice polo shirts, but the price goes up and down so you might want to watch for sales. Lands End makes very nice shirts, but they are rarely available at any discount. Likewise LL Bean. There are online providers such as blankshirts.com which provide basic polo style shirts from severa...
by downshiftme
Wed Feb 26, 2014 6:49 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Where to buy polo shirts?
Replies: 63
Views: 9455

Re: Social Security Statement Now Online?

Sorry for reviving an old thread, but it seemed most applicable. I have created an online SSA account and was able to view my earnings record there in the past, but since Jan 1 of this year (2014) I have been unable to log in. I always get the message This service is not available at this time. Plea...
by downshiftme
Wed Feb 26, 2014 5:06 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: Social Security Statement Now Online?
Replies: 32
Views: 3542

Re: Buying a 'loaded' vs stripped down vehicle

I strongly prefer a simple model with only limited options, such as safety items or a roof rack because I want to haul stuff up there. It was impossible to find a car on a lot with the combination I wanted. They were all either base stripped zero options, or packages with a bunch of expensive (but u...
by downshiftme
Thu Feb 20, 2014 11:15 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Buying a 'loaded' vs stripped down vehicle
Replies: 52
Views: 3598

Re: BOA credit card breach

Yes, I am also shifting to the idea of multiple cards for multiple purposes. One card just for monthly auto charges. One card for brick and mortar shopping. One card for internet purchases. I used to do everything with a single card, and it was a lot of work to reset everything after a breach. Now a...
by downshiftme
Wed Feb 19, 2014 5:07 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: BOA credit card breach
Replies: 29
Views: 2555

Re: The growing case against ETFs ARTICLE

while there is growing consensus that ETFs are the better vehicle, there’s growing evidence that the people using them may not be so skilled behind the wheel.


It's not an article against ETFs. It's an article against misusing them.
by downshiftme
Wed Feb 19, 2014 3:44 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: The growing case against ETFs ARTICLE
Replies: 36
Views: 4196

Re: Voluntary Separation Package Advice

This looks like a generous package, you have the finances to take it and do whatever you want, and you will escape a potentially toxic workplace. Unless there is some complication like you would be eligible for a pension or lifetime healthcare if you stick around another year, this seems like the ti...
by downshiftme
Tue Feb 18, 2014 10:57 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Voluntary Separation Package Advice
Replies: 47
Views: 3212

Re: How much to get your taxes done?

TaxAct or TurboTax, usually free or under $15 depending on sales and promotions each year. I did spend $400 one year on a CPA for a move between states, 2 state income taxes, rental house in old state until I could sell it, complicated employer reimbursement for move and living expenses, first year ...
by downshiftme
Tue Feb 04, 2014 7:14 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: How much to get your taxes done?
Replies: 31
Views: 3095

Re: Doing a new job at work at not getting paid for it

Take the job! Whatever you are currently doing is not all that well paid for a computer engineering job. This new job sounds like a step up in responsibility and will look good on your resume. Give them some time to come up with the raise and group transfer they promised. Do a great job in your new ...
by downshiftme
Mon Feb 03, 2014 2:41 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Doing a new job at work at not getting paid for it
Replies: 27
Views: 2135

Re: Do Bogleheads see this market dip as a buying point?

Sometime between now and April 15, I need to push some IRA money into accounts. I may or may not hit the dip, but it seems as good a reason as any to do it now that I know my tax situation for the year.
by downshiftme
Mon Jan 27, 2014 4:19 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: Do Bogleheads see this market dip as a buying point?
Replies: 127
Views: 13799

Re: SS numbers and identity theft

Interesting. I do the same thing except I have the first numbers blacked out so that only the last four numbers are shown. I was told that the first few digits are codes for which office issued the particular number. The SSA provides some details of how the number is composed at: http://www.ssa.gov...
by downshiftme
Mon Jan 27, 2014 4:16 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: SS numbers and identity theft
Replies: 39
Views: 2996

Re: when you reach"your number"

I didn't answer the poll, because I have several numbers. Ultimately, I plan to retire when my youngest child is safely graduated from college. I was given the gift of a debt-free college education and I intend to give that to my children as well. So that gives me a date to plan retirement around. O...
by downshiftme
Sat Jan 25, 2014 12:07 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: when you reach"your number"
Replies: 84
Views: 9063

Re: What to do if denied boarding due to the airlines' fault

The call center agent informed us that it was not our mistake that this reservation got cancelled. After some long conversations with the customer care agent, we were offered an to be placed on an alternate route. However, because the total trip time exceeded 36 hours, we requested that we be place...
by downshiftme
Thu Jan 16, 2014 4:47 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: What to do if denied boarding due to the airlines' fault?
Replies: 23
Views: 2151

Re: Leaving an employer on bad terms? Deal breaker for new h

I have almost always left my employer under bad terms. Every time. In most cases, if it weren't for some toxic boss problem or unscrupulous behavior by the company involved, I would still be employed there. I end up with plenty of glowing excellent references from many of the people I worked with an...
by downshiftme
Tue Jan 14, 2014 1:36 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Leaving an employer on bad terms? Deal breaker for new hire?
Replies: 32
Views: 2538

Re: Understanding hospital bill/insurance

EVERY bill should have the charged amount, and a negotiated adjustment. The resulting number is the amount that provider charges for patients with your insurance. You are responsible for 100% of that, up until the deductible is reached. After that you are responsible for your agreed percentage (in t...
by downshiftme
Mon Jan 13, 2014 7:18 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Understanding hospital bill/insurance
Replies: 8
Views: 530

Re: Life Insurance: A waste of money?

If you need the insurance, for example you have dependents you want to provide for in case you die, then term insurance provides that at the best possible cost. My impression is that whole life and all it's variants are some insurance, plus a contract with an insurance company to invest some money o...
by downshiftme
Wed Jan 08, 2014 7:52 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: [Whole / Permanent] Life Insurance: A waste of money?
Replies: 16
Views: 807

Re: Looking for Actual Experiences with Umbrella Insurance

Yes, I carry earthquake insurance. When I had a loss in an earthquake, there was plenty of FEMA money and the insurance didn't pay anything. But I'm glad I had it, as neighbors suffered much more extensive damage and had my house been as damaged as theirs, insurance would have been a huge relief. I ...
by downshiftme
Wed Jan 08, 2014 4:05 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Looking for Actual Experiences with Umbrella Insurance
Replies: 79
Views: 6906

Re: Had to go back to work

Has anyone who stopped working/retired had to get back into the workforce. Not because you wanted to but had to due to investment mistakes or financial misfortunes. Since I have not retired yet, this isn't me. But I have had my plans for when to retire pushed back significantly by market swings and...
by downshiftme
Wed Jan 08, 2014 3:51 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Had to go back to work
Replies: 31
Views: 2765

Re: want to sell car with check engine light

I sold a car with a check engine light that was always on. It wanted an expensive oxygen sensor replaced and maybe some other emissions system repairs. I just told the buyer what I knew so there were no surprises. Had I withheld information, then perhaps the buyer would be able to claim I deceived t...
by downshiftme
Sat Dec 28, 2013 3:21 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: want to sell car with check engine light
Replies: 17
Views: 1806

Re: Emergency Fund - Discipline Help

I do some prepayment of bills to smooth out annual expenses to an even monthly amount, for example heating is higher in winter and lower in summer, but if I pay an intermediate amount starting in summer I can keep this bill at a level amount every month. Effectively I pay ahead to get an even monthl...
by downshiftme
Tue Dec 17, 2013 12:59 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Emergency Fund - Discipline Help
Replies: 23
Views: 2105

Re: 401k terminated with no notice

Make the move as quickly as you can. You may have no problems, but I have heard of situations where a bunch of surprise termination fees were charged to the last few accounts remaining after the others had moved to new trustees. No reason to think that is coming here, but also no reason to dawdle an...
by downshiftme
Mon Dec 16, 2013 7:23 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: 401k terminated with no notice
Replies: 20
Views: 2501

Re: What's your definition of "drive it into the ground?"

Many items are fixable at moderate cost. With an old enough car, it's easy to have repair costs larger than the value of the car, but still less than the cost of replacing it. As long as I can repair for less than it would cost to replace, I think you can keep working on it. Now, there are exception...
by downshiftme
Wed Dec 11, 2013 4:45 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: What's your definition of "drive it into the ground?"
Replies: 50
Views: 3530

Re: Tool to assess if higher performing fund worth high fees

I'm confused about how such a tool could work. You are basically performance chasing past results, reduced by any fund expenses. This seems like it is most likely to identify funds that have done well and are now poised to regress to the mean, or at least underperform as they just recently ran up in...
by downshiftme
Mon Dec 09, 2013 9:32 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Help with Personal Investments
Topic: Tool to assess if higher performing fund worth high fees?
Replies: 11
Views: 952

Re: Dave says $300 a month can grow to $3M

downshiftme wrote: Well they certainly could wind up with that much. I'd imagine someone who did that starting in 1973 would have that much or more today. That's all fine and good to say in retrospect, but you have to remember that $300 per month was NOT a trivial sum in 1973. The median wage then ...
by downshiftme
Mon Dec 09, 2013 9:18 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: Dave says $300 a month can grow to $3M
Replies: 76
Views: 8218

Re: Dave says $300 a month can grow to $3M

Well they certainly could wind up with that much. I'd imagine someone who did that starting in 1973 would have that much or more today. That's all fine and good to say in retrospect, but you have to remember that $300 per month was NOT a trivial sum in 1973. The median wage then was $8500, so $300 ...
by downshiftme
Mon Dec 09, 2013 6:37 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: Dave says $300 a month can grow to $3M
Replies: 76
Views: 8218

Re: I'd like to challenge the logic behind a 'disaster fund'

Is this discussion about whether to hold a disaster fund in cash, or whether it can be invested, essentially similar to the question of whether to pay off a mortgage or not. If I hold a mortgage, especially one at historic cheap rates, then by investing the cash I would have used to pay it down I wi...
by downshiftme
Fri Dec 06, 2013 8:55 pm
 
Forum: Investing - Theory, News & General
Topic: I'd like to challenge the logic behind a 'disaster fund'
Replies: 134
Views: 7228

Re: Make a Bitcoin?

Looks like a blind link. Care to tell us anything about what's behind the click?
by downshiftme
Fri Dec 06, 2013 8:40 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Make a Bitcoin?
Replies: 8
Views: 1155

Re: Laptop for High School Student's

Desktops are going the way of the CD-RW. This certainly seems to be true for computer sales. Laptops are outselling desktops by wide margins, 5x or more at many stores. But it also depends on what you are doing. For a lot of computer programming having multiple (big) monitors is much easier to do w...
by downshiftme
Fri Dec 06, 2013 2:54 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Laptop for High School Student's
Replies: 32
Views: 968
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