stan1 wrote:My summary, and then I'll leave you alone:
Go with your wife's intuition on the swimming.
You've already told us she's smarter than you, as well as a good manager of money (frugal).
VictoriaF wrote:Terminate the swim team and compensate your daughter with an expensive one-time gift. For example, you could buy her a bicycle or an iPad.
sscritic wrote:Professor Emeritus and crboone:
Thank you for using my name, but I didn't write what you claim I wrote. There is an edit button where you can correct your errors of attribution.