Your information is available on the SS website.
If you want auto-pilot (and apparently you do), target funds are not only a good choice, but probably your best choice.
I say the surviving spouse will receive pension(s)
Regarding insurance and FEGLI specifically, I would recommend you contact WAEPA
livesoft wrote:I thought she was going to sell the stocks for you. Then she could just send you a check out of the estate's account.