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Re: How to file for divorce?

This makes me sad. FWIW, our vows are on our fridge b/c we know there's always room for improvement. +1 While our vows are not on our fridge - the verse from the bible (Love in Action - Romans 12 9-21) we had read during are ceremony sits framed above our bed. As you said, there's always room for i...
by XtremeSki2001
Sun May 19, 2013 8:11 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: How to file for divorce?
Replies: 38
Views: 2663

Re: What's Next - Financial Planning

Ok, well...if I'm being honest it feels like a pretty heavy debt load for your combined salary. That said, if you have a bucket of money someplace to pay off the 6.5% debt, just get rid of it. I'd probably dump the 5K student loan next since it's small an easy to get rid of. I'd work the emergency ...
by XtremeSki2001
Thu May 16, 2013 1:25 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: What's Next - Financial Planning
Replies: 8
Views: 630

Re: What's Next - Financial Planning

I don't want to pry since you didn't volunteer this, but it's tough for me to give my thoughts w/o knowing income level. We're ~$160k+. However, my wife is a teacher and took a one-year sabbatical so she can raise our son until he's 1. So we'll be at ~$100k from 9/2013 to 8/2014 or so, hence the pr...
by XtremeSki2001
Thu May 16, 2013 1:06 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: What's Next - Financial Planning
Replies: 8
Views: 630

Re: Potential new job advice

So, thought I'd give you guys an update on this. I met the manager of the team in Ann Arbor - he was coming down there for a business trip and they asked me if I'd like to meet him there than flying out to CA. Sadly, it wasn't really a good experience. He was pretty condescending and kept on boasti...
by XtremeSki2001
Thu May 16, 2013 1:02 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Potential new job advice
Replies: 17
Views: 987

What's Next - Financial Planning

Hi All, Just wanted to solicit the communities input on our financial situation. If you've been following along, it's been a continual improvement thanks to many here. We're 30 years old with secure jobs. Just wondering if you agree with our next steps or feel we should do something different (or ad...
by XtremeSki2001
Thu May 16, 2013 10:06 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: What's Next - Financial Planning
Replies: 8
Views: 630

Re: Bogleheads' Historical Personal Savings Rate

Not trying to hi-jack, but does anyone have a link to that study showing saving % and amounts by age and goals? The top row has stock/bonds blend and the left column has retirement age and then each cell has the relative saving %'s. Thx! try PM'ing grayfox (or is it greyfox?). Thanks! I actually fo...
by XtremeSki2001
Mon Apr 29, 2013 7:52 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Bogleheads' Historical Personal Savings Rate
Replies: 20
Views: 1700

Re: Bogleheads' Historical Personal Savings Rate

Not trying to hi-jack, but does anyone have a link to that study showing saving % and amounts by age and goals? The top row has stock/bonds blend and the left column has retirement age and then each cell has the relative saving %'s. Thx!
by XtremeSki2001
Mon Apr 29, 2013 4:07 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Bogleheads' Historical Personal Savings Rate
Replies: 20
Views: 1700

How to Unlist Home Address

Hi All, My DW and I bought a home and are moving in Wednesday. In our previous condo we'd get TONS of junk mail everyday. It's a waste of paper and it just goes into our garbage bin. If I could, I'd request all mail be sent via e-mail :) Since I can't get my snail mail via e-mail ... how do I limit ...
by XtremeSki2001
Mon Apr 29, 2013 9:00 am
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: How to Unlist Home Address
Replies: 11
Views: 1193

Bought New Home - Home Insurance

Hi All, The good news, we bought a home, and this one doesn't have Radon! http://www.bogleheads.org/forum/viewtopic.php?f=11&t=111556 I've received two quotes for home insurance and they differ by $200/year. Once is from the local person we have our auto/umbrella through (more expensive) and the...
by XtremeSki2001
Fri Mar 15, 2013 3:42 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Bought New Home - Home Insurance
Replies: 4
Views: 475

Re: Home inspection - fair requests?

They could lower the price by 50k and fix everything -- and I still wouldn't buy it. If you do, this thing will be an albatross for years probably. Maybe not, but you won't know until the time has past. There are many many places to buy. Not to mention all of these issues will need to be disclosed ...
by XtremeSki2001
Fri Mar 08, 2013 8:32 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Home inspection - fair requests?
Replies: 30
Views: 2326

Re: Putting in offer for house, seller wants contingency on

Why not just negotiate a number of days they have to find a place and after that date it's a lease-back arrangement? Worked for my friend and even made her a few $$$.
by XtremeSki2001
Thu Mar 07, 2013 10:16 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Putting in offer for house, seller wants contingency on purc
Replies: 25
Views: 2284

Bought a House - Thanks Bogleheads (BH)!

Hi All, I joined the forum in 2007 and if you can find my earlier posts, I was in some considerable debt. Today my DW and I bought our first home and put 20% down (this is after covering a $25k loss on our current condo) and have a year's worth of living expenses 'just in-case". I owe BH (and m...
by XtremeSki2001
Thu Mar 07, 2013 9:03 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Bought a House - Thanks Bogleheads (BH)!
Replies: 9
Views: 918

Re: Buying New Home - Radon

Thanks for all the advice everyone. The sellers would not negotiate beyond 2-3% of the listing price, so we're off to greener pastures.
by XtremeSki2001
Sat Feb 23, 2013 6:59 am
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Buying New Home - Radon
Replies: 41
Views: 1356

Re: Buying New Home - Radon

Our real issue right now is the sellers countered our offer and are basically not budging on their listing prices (but have agreed to remediate the Radon problem). Not budging, eh? Watch what happens when you write them, "We will offer one single dollar more and that's our final offer." I...
by XtremeSki2001
Fri Feb 22, 2013 7:24 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Buying New Home - Radon
Replies: 41
Views: 1356

Re: Buying New Home - Radon

It sounds like there are some minor hassles involved in the house. If the OP really loves the house and can't find anything comparable, it would be worthwhile to deal with the hassles. If the OP is indifferent and can easily locate another house, it would be worthwhile to walk away. Thanks for the ...
by XtremeSki2001
Fri Feb 22, 2013 11:15 am
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Buying New Home - Radon
Replies: 41
Views: 1356

Re: Buying New Home - Radon

No, 4.4 does not mean remediation is required. There is no law requiring this. 4 pC/L is the EPA suggested action level. It is an arbitrary "line in the sand." As I said, I would remediate anything above background. In a 10 year old house, remediation should consist of a simple sub-slab d...
by XtremeSki2001
Fri Feb 22, 2013 9:27 am
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Buying New Home - Radon
Replies: 41
Views: 1356

Re: Buying New Home - Radon

Radon remediation is simple in a newer house. How old is the house and what method of remediation was employed? We don't have the specific remediation details, but it was tested in January @ 4.4. The home is 10 years old. Determine flood damage and evaluate severity. If current conditions are ok do...
by XtremeSki2001
Fri Feb 22, 2013 9:16 am
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Buying New Home - Radon
Replies: 41
Views: 1356

Buying New Home - Radon

Hi All, There are several threads about Radon that I've read, but still have some questions. We've placed an offer on a home contingent on many tests (including Radon). In preparing an offer, we were provided the sellers disclosure and one section was incomplete "Additions, alterations, structu...
by XtremeSki2001
Fri Feb 22, 2013 8:14 am
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Buying New Home - Radon
Replies: 41
Views: 1356

Re: How do you find Mrs. Boglehead?

Found my wife on Match.com. True story.
by XtremeSki2001
Tue Feb 19, 2013 10:02 am
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: How do you find Mrs. Boglehead?
Replies: 138
Views: 9006

Mortgage Rates and Buying Points

Hi All, We've just went through the pre-approval process and are getting ready to start our home search (yes, we're putting down 20%). Our realtor put us in contact with a guy from the local bank, but the today's APR rates (Wells Fargo) are 3.799% for a 30-year fixed. https://www.wellsfargo.com/mort...
by XtremeSki2001
Tue Jan 22, 2013 5:58 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Mortgage Rates and Buying Points
Replies: 9
Views: 856

Re: Visiting California for the first time...need advice!

We enjoyed Napa/Sonoma, but we also enjoyed the beer in the Santa Rosa/surrounding area (e.g., Lagunitas Brewing and Russian River Brewing). If you like beer, it's worth a visit.
by XtremeSki2001
Sat Jan 12, 2013 9:05 am
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Visiting California for the first time...need advice!
Replies: 65
Views: 4217

Re: What Book Are You Currently Reading? Part V

Great book, quick read, and good to read before seeing Zero Dark Thirty in theaters.

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by XtremeSki2001
Sat Jan 12, 2013 9:03 am
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: What Book Are You Currently Reading? Part V
Replies: 1442
Views: 199979

Re: Can we afford it?

Alternately, consider buying coach, but checking in a bit early and planning to take advantage of last minute pricing on an upgrade to Business assuming seats available. This. Had a fried a few weeks ago fly from PHL to Copenhagen. Spent $1,000 roundtrip for business upgrade ... would have spent $6...
by XtremeSki2001
Wed Jan 09, 2013 2:16 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Can we afford it? (International trip)
Replies: 92
Views: 6144

Re: Mens Dress Shirts for those who are Frugal?

I've tried various shirt brands (e.g., JCP, Costco, LL Beans) and none are as good as my Brooks Brothers (BB). I have several Jos A Bank (JAB) shirts, but the same style of shirt often fits differently which speaks to the quality. You can get BB shirts on clearance for $44 (there are some online now...
by XtremeSki2001
Tue Jan 08, 2013 12:17 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Mens Dress Shirts for those who are Frugal?
Replies: 128
Views: 39498

Re: Car buying advice

My car is a 1998; my repair and maintenance expenses starting in 2008 (5 years through 2012) were 1927.33 193.08 776.35 38.67 499.72 When should I have bought a new car? In 2008, in 2010, in 2012? (Note that the higher costs only occur every two years; this is the natural law of automobile repair c...
by XtremeSki2001
Thu Jan 03, 2013 1:19 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Car buying advice
Replies: 15
Views: 951

Selling Home - Neighbor has barking dog

Hi All, We've finally saved enough to begin our home search and list our unit for sale. It's a one bedroom first floor condo in a great place to live outside Philadelphia. Unfortunately, first floor one bedroom condo's are difficult to sell - according to our realtor. We have no interest in renting ...
by XtremeSki2001
Sat Dec 08, 2012 1:04 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Selling Home - Neighbor has barking dog
Replies: 27
Views: 2645

Re: Current Inheritance Local/Federal Taxes

I'm not the executor of the estate, but the executor is working with an accountant, lawyers, etc. to work out specifics. When I heard I would not have to pay tax on the inheritance I was surprised. From what's posted above, it sounds common that the tax would be paid by the estate on the front end a...
by XtremeSki2001
Tue Nov 20, 2012 3:13 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Current Inheritance Local/Federal Taxes
Replies: 15
Views: 632

Current Inheritance Local/Federal Taxes

Good Morning All,

This is a question regarding the current tax structure. I am receiving an inheritance of ~50k (estate is NJ and I live in PA). How, if possible, can I limit my tax liability?
by XtremeSki2001
Tue Nov 20, 2012 9:04 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Current Inheritance Local/Federal Taxes
Replies: 15
Views: 632

Re: Customer Driven MBA?

rdmayo21 wrote:Full-time employment upon successful completion of the degree and internship (required 2-year job commitment).


Just be careful as you'll be at the companies disposal. They can change your position, make you transfer, work long hours, etc.
by XtremeSki2001
Fri Nov 16, 2012 1:24 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Customer Driven MBA?
Replies: 11
Views: 887

Re: Trips of a Lifetime

My biggest trip was when as a German engineering student I spent 3 month in Western Turkey, my first time in a foreign country, what a change. I took the Orient Express from Munich to Istanbul, saw many great mosques in various cities, lived for 2 months in Eskishehir with Turks, swam in the Bospor...
by XtremeSki2001
Wed Oct 17, 2012 8:28 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Trips of a Lifetime
Replies: 60
Views: 5705

Re: My Bank Put Someone Else's Money In My Account

When did the deposit take place? Have the deposit posted/cleared to your account? Having worked in customer service for a large bank in the past, I'd give it some time. Generally errors are fixed when tellers reconcile at the end of the day. The problem is their changes generally post two days later...
by XtremeSki2001
Wed Oct 17, 2012 7:22 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: My Bank Put Someone Else's Money In My Account
Replies: 21
Views: 2807

Re: finding an honest jeweler........

An independent appraiser may be able to help with this, too. I spent $100 and received a plethora of information. Some of the information was the symbol / numbers on the diamond that reconcile back to the GIA certificate. Have the diamonds checked before and after wouldn't eliminate the risk, but wo...
by XtremeSki2001
Wed Oct 17, 2012 7:17 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: finding an honest jeweler........
Replies: 8
Views: 1305

Re: Become a landlord or sell?

I give a ringing endorsement for selling. I recently sold my home that became a rental for 3 years. I forked over a lot more than you did because it was still underwater, but it was worth every penny. Remember, you'll be slowly bleeding every month, and that $20,000 liability will never go away (or...
by XtremeSki2001
Tue Oct 16, 2012 1:27 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Become a landlord or sell?
Replies: 41
Views: 2653

Re: Job Change : Bank of America or Ernst & Young

serenemind wrote:The PMs I am sending you are stuck in outbox. Do you accept PMs?


I received your PMs and responded.
by XtremeSki2001
Tue Oct 16, 2012 8:40 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Job Change : Bank of America or Ernst & Young
Replies: 27
Views: 2842

Re: Best Way to Bring / Spend Money Abroad

While traveling in SE Asia I brought my VISA Credit Card and AMEX for purchases and my debit card for ATM withdrawals. I hit the ATM right after I arrived at the airport and once in the city. Used my VISA / AMEX anywhere it was accepted. Only went to the ATM two times during my whole trip, Asia is p...
by XtremeSki2001
Mon Oct 15, 2012 12:34 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Best Way to Bring / Spend Money Abroad
Replies: 10
Views: 925

Re: Trips of a Lifetime

sschullo wrote:16 day Mediterranean cruise on HMS the QE2. Recently, Africa, 3 countries, 17 day safari and getting wet at Victoria Falls.


Wow. Sign me up. Did you do this before or during retirement? Pics?
by XtremeSki2001
Mon Oct 15, 2012 11:17 am
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Trips of a Lifetime
Replies: 60
Views: 5705

Re: Job Change : Bank of America or Ernst & Young

You should assume heavy travel with E&Y as you will have to go to where project is located. Most likely not your base city. Also career path at Big 4 firms is typically towards management and management consulting, not technology. Best wishes. I disagree. EY, along with all the Big4's, are very...
by XtremeSki2001
Mon Oct 15, 2012 10:30 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Job Change : Bank of America or Ernst & Young
Replies: 27
Views: 2842

Re: Job Change : Bank of America or Ernst & Young

Depending on your role, working for Ernst & Young will provide you with an opportunity to work for multiple clients. The learning curve is vertical and you'll always be challenged to learn and do more. Accountability at a Big4 is spread across the ranks so the opportunity to manage teams will co...
by XtremeSki2001
Fri Oct 12, 2012 6:59 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Job Change : Bank of America or Ernst & Young
Replies: 27
Views: 2842

Re: Foreclosure - Mortgage + Renovation in one Loan

The interest rate will be ~4% instead of the current ~3.25%, but we can buy the interest down with points just like any other mortgage. This seems like a great idea Unless I'm missing something this does not sound like a good idea. If you get a home improvement loan, usually it will be a variable r...
by XtremeSki2001
Tue Oct 09, 2012 11:57 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Foreclosure - Mortgage + Renovation in one Loan
Replies: 11
Views: 567

Re: Foreclosure - Mortgage + Renovation in one Loan

Thanks for the thoughts so far. Another mortgage broker I spoke with said the easiest way would be to just put 3.5% down, use the remaining money to fix the place up, refinance, and the value I add to the house should allow me to get rid of PMI (of course this is no guarantee). ------- Some loans a...
by XtremeSki2001
Mon Oct 08, 2012 4:59 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Foreclosure - Mortgage + Renovation in one Loan
Replies: 11
Views: 567

Re: Foreclosure - Mortgage + Renovation in one Loan

Thanks for the thoughts so far. Another mortgage broker I spoke with said the easiest way would be to just put 3.5% down, use the remaining money to fix the place up, refinance, and the value I add to the house should allow me to get rid of PMI (of course this is no guarantee).
by XtremeSki2001
Mon Oct 08, 2012 4:29 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Foreclosure - Mortgage + Renovation in one Loan
Replies: 11
Views: 567

Re: Foreclosure - Mortgage + Renovation in one Loan

What is the appraised value of the home? You might be better off getting a conventional loan for 80% LTV, then getting a HEL or HELOC for the remainder (I believe some lenders will still lend for >80% LTV). We don't know this right now. We haven't made an offer or begun to move forward as we're not...
by XtremeSki2001
Mon Oct 08, 2012 2:34 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Foreclosure - Mortgage + Renovation in one Loan
Replies: 11
Views: 567

Foreclosure - Mortgage + Renovation in one Loan

Hi All, We have the opportunity to buy a foreclosure. The town home is ~15 years old. Great location, no one is currently living there, great structurally, and the "must haves" are there (e.g., high ceilings, lots of windows, end unit, low assoc fees, great schools, etc.). It's going for $...
by XtremeSki2001
Mon Oct 08, 2012 2:17 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Foreclosure - Mortgage + Renovation in one Loan
Replies: 11
Views: 567

Re: Travel in Thailand

I spent six weeks in Thailand with my wife and son earlier this year. I would recommend doing everything yourself, not so much to save money but I think you can then focus on what you like. +1 I wish I was fortunate enough to have been there six weeks. My friend and I did two weeks across Bangkok a...
by XtremeSki2001
Wed Oct 03, 2012 12:18 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Travel in Thailand
Replies: 4
Views: 533

Disability Insurance, Term Life, and Living Will

Good Morning BH! My wife and I have our financial house in order, but have been putting off Disability Insurance, Term Life, and creating a Living Will. Thanks in advance for the quality advice I know I'll receive - much appreciated! A few questions: Disability Insurance 1 - We understand it's bette...
by XtremeSki2001
Tue Oct 02, 2012 7:49 am
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: Disability Insurance, Term Life, and Living Will
Replies: 7
Views: 587

Re: Tailoring Clothes

My clothes are too cheap...it doesn't make sense to tailor it... But that's my point...my $20 JCP dress shirt now fits like a ridiculously expensive custom fit dress shirt. My one and only suit which I got on sale for around $125 and paid like $25 to have tailored fits me so well I had friends gues...
by XtremeSki2001
Mon Oct 01, 2012 2:44 pm
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: Tailoring Clothes
Replies: 30
Views: 2716

Re: %age of income saved for comfortable retirement?

http://i1093.photobucket.com/albums/i426/DHoss83/0511-Pfau-Table-1.jpg http://www.bogleheads.org/forum/viewtopic.php?t=73938 How does one read this? If in retirement I want 70% of my final salary for 30 years post-retirement, my allocation is 40/60 (40 is stocks?), and I have 40 years until retirem...
by XtremeSki2001
Mon Sep 17, 2012 3:19 pm
 
Forum: Personal Finance (Not Investing)
Topic: %age of income saved for comfortable retirement?
Replies: 38
Views: 2464

Re: coping with 9/80 schedule ?

I work 9+ hours a day all year round without a Friday off. The Friday off is a nice touch! I usually don't take off to eat so I work 8 to 5. Plenty of time for me to shower, eat, hit the gym, read, etc.
by XtremeSki2001
Mon Sep 17, 2012 10:54 am
 
Forum: Personal Consumer Issues
Topic: coping with 9/80 schedule ?
Replies: 68
Views: 2483
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